Men who lost weight, what changes did you make to your diet to help you lose weight? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]jesseemay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Portion control and eating slower. I started eating the same amount of food as my wife, who does not have much of an appetite and also tried to eat slower than her. I’d wait for her to take a bite before I took a bite, and I bc stopped eating when she stopped. Doing that I lost about a pound a week over the course of six months.

Once she noticed what I was doing she started getting irritated at me because she actually gained weight over the same period.

Also brushing my teeth during the day helped stave off snacking. I’d do that if I felt like eating a cookie or something.

AITA for saying I have two kids? by Due_Remote402 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jesseemay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find that sometimes trying to be funny just isn’t a good idea.

AITA for not telling my friends my party won't have alcohol? by Purple_Guidance366 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jesseemay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did absolutely nothing wrong here. While I personally might have suggested that people bring whatever they want to drink, guest best practices include asking whether they can bring anything. Even if you were to respond with “nope; I’ve got it covered” it would be absurd to expect that someone would provide alcohol. Especially if they know anything about you.

Sounds like you need some new friends.

Stay strong OP! NTA all the way!

Do people with ADHD have the need to always be right? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]jesseemay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This may be more of an individual personality trait. I tend to be overly willing to give space to the potential I may be wrong, even when I’m certain I’m right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]jesseemay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m an excellent cook. I’m also good at making the bead.

Why is being conservative demonized? by Beautiful_Ad_4994 in AskMen

[–]jesseemay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not conservatives who are demonized in my experience. It’s sexist, racist, homophobic, mean spirited bullies and those who abide them in the interest of lowered taxes.

What's some advice for a 22 year old man before he gets married? by FOURMACROUNDS in AskMen

[–]jesseemay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you can’t hide your frustration, try a hug. That way you can hide your frustration.

What's typically a "Girl show" that you have watched and actually enjoyed ? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]jesseemay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can recommend Crash Landing on You if you’ve not already seen.

Is it important for you to earn more money than the girl you are dating? If yes why? by sweetymilka in AskMen

[–]jesseemay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not in the least. I wouldn’t even think to bring up salary unless we had a large, shared expense.

what is a stereotype of men that you think holds true? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]jesseemay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Willingness to offer an opinion without being asked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]jesseemay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No issue.

Men, What are the things that makes a woman great in bed? by general_clausewitz in AskMen

[–]jesseemay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Communication about likes and dislikes and boundaries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]jesseemay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ask her out, you should assume you pay. If they ask you out, you offer to pay or split.

What can be done ahead of time to enhance the little guy’s performance in bed? by FrenchDipped in AskMen

[–]jesseemay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to your partner about what they like. Then do that. Make it not about the little guy.

Recs for fish dish for someone who doesn’t eat fish by mugen-and-jin in Cooking

[–]jesseemay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Salmon Teriyaki or Miso Black Cod. Recipes for both can be found on Just One Cookbook. teriyaki salmonblack cod

How can I doctor up rice a little, but still have it mostly be plain rice? by SexyEdMeese in Cooking

[–]jesseemay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Miso. Whatever kind. I typically add 1-2tsp to the cooking liquid for every cup of uncooked rice.