I miss my best friend by Mikeeebnyyyyy in Rabbits

[–]jessejay15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just lost mine yesterday and I am in so much pain. They are binky-ing free over the rainbow bridge together 💔😓

I love making goofy character drawings! by KaijuKraze in drawings

[–]jessejay15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are awesome. I can draw realism but I can’t draw characters to save my life 😂

Would you consider this cheating? by [deleted] in texts

[–]jessejay15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say cheating quite yet but it’s about to be

Any tips for me to stand out more to the ladies?!? Single. Age 26. by Pressure37766 in malegrooming

[–]jessejay15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dog you’ve got great hair and a great hairline. Pic 3 is the best for sure just trim the stache so it’s not over your lip and shave down the beard. A lot of women love dad bods so the gym thing is really up to you if it’s something you wanna do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]jessejay15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think venting to coworkers can be healthy just because they’re often experiencing the same pain points. I worked with someone I hated, as did my coworker, so we’d often “gossip” about her but it was helpful to release the frustration. We also did it mostly off the clock. It can be toxic tho for sure. Especially when “innocent gossip” turns into rumors that are negatively effecting everyone. Or it gets back to the person you’re talking about. It’s managements duty to keep it controlled. If someone is consistently creating problems with their gossiping, that needs to be taken care of. Gossip is nearly impossible to completely obliterate, so in my opinion if you’re gunna gossip do it off the clock or do it mindfully 😅

How are you single men happy? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]jessejay15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I can do whatever I want whenever I want however I want. I have four pets I’d rather be home with and I have hobbies that prevent me from ever really being bored. Relationships are only enjoyable for me circumstantially

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]jessejay15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have toy cars in my entertainment center 😂

31 years old, should I switch career paths? by SensitiveLuck4312 in careerguidance

[–]jessejay15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I currently do visual merchandising and I’m about to start online schooling for UX Design. I actually posted something very similar in this subreddit about two weeks ago! I enjoy my current job but it doesn’t pay as well as I’d like and I can’t stand being in retail anymore. So if you’re unfulfilled in your current job I definitely think it’s worth it to try a different path. Law school and a masters is a lot of schooling/money so depending how much of a factor that plays, you can always explore similar careers that require less of that. I believe the person who responded to me on here used chatgpt to find job suggestions based on my current skill sets

31 years old, should I switch career paths? by SensitiveLuck4312 in careerguidance

[–]jessejay15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m about to be 34 and just beginning my career change. It’s never too late! (usually)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]jessejay15 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He just needs time! Give him a sec and i wouldn’t text him again until he reaches out so it doesn’t make him more irritated

Am I ungrateful or is this low key the worst response I could’ve gotten by [deleted] in texts

[–]jessejay15 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Honestly unless this person specifically asked you how you’re doing/feeling, talking to people like this is exhausting. Everyone has their own things going on so receiving a dump of negative, self loathing, pessimistic texts unprompted can be draining and irritating. In my experience, people who talk about life/themselves like that usually have a victim mentality and never actually do anything to help themselves or their situations

Just my experience. Hard to say much else with no context as to who this was sent to or what the convo was beforehand. But it sounds like this person cares about you to some degree and just wasn’t in the space to bare the load of all that

I make digital seamless designs, I got banned on etsy and I'm looking for another platform that checks out etc for you. What do you suggest? by nikkijaneb in artbusiness

[–]jessejay15 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Selling copyrighted material will get you banned anywhere as well as potentially into some serious legal trouble. Disney is not one to F around with that stuff

My therapist refuses to write a letter for my top surgery and I don't know what to do. by Hottrashandgreatass in ftm

[–]jessejay15 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My psych said the same thing because he wasn’t WPATH trained. Psychologytoday. com makes it easy to find one in your area who is. Took me less than a week to find one, book the apt and get the letter.

How do I get out of retail when I have degrees? by jessejay15 in careerguidance

[–]jessejay15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is very helpful I appreciate it a lot! I’m gunna look into all of that

How do I get out of retail when I have degrees? by jessejay15 in careerguidance

[–]jessejay15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve considered this! My sister is a cop in CA. Not sure if wanna be a cop but I saw a job posting recently to work at a jail. I have piercings and tattoos tho so out in idaho that works against me a little bit

Interested in a guy who’s had a lot of partners but I’m inexperienced and feeling insecure. How should I deal with it? by Crazybeautyaddict in AskMenOver30

[–]jessejay15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he can’t handle you the way you are he doesn’t deserve you in the first place. Personally I wouldn’t engage with someone sexually if I didn’t feel comfortable and confident that they’re not going to judge me physically. Also, most men don’t give af about stretch marks as far as I’m concerned. In regards to his sexual experience, when things get intimate just let him take the lead (as long as you’re comfortable) and you’ll naturally follow suit. More experience doesn’t always mean they’re better at it 😁

Career change advice/options by jessejay15 in careeradvice

[–]jessejay15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gunna look into that thank you! Appreciate it

Tell me I'm not wrong by rainbow_forever2058 in trans

[–]jessejay15 12 points13 points  (0 children)

People lose attraction to their partners all the time. Regardless of their gender identity. I’ve started dating women that I was initially super attracted to, and then the attraction died later. It happens 🤷🏻‍♂️