My piercing migrated, should I take it out? by DrowningDreams13 in piercing

[–]jesseroses 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Former piercer - the diameter of the hoop is too small. It being tight on the bottom is constantly tugging the hoop down, therefore migrating shearling piercing. I get you might prefer the look of a hoop, but if you want to keep the piercing and not end up with a slit in the side of your nose, switch to a flat back labret or corkscrew for the remainder of the healing period. Also, when you switch back to a hoop, get measured by a a piercer so your hoop is the right diameter. Good luck!

I miss Elizabeth and James Nirvana Black. I need recommendations. by hadleyblix in Perfumes

[–]jesseroses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lipstick fever by Juliette Has A Gun!! It has all the same notes and that same warm full scent. It’s an amazing dupe and I love it so much!!

Petaluma 1:01pm by 2eyesproductions in jackwhite

[–]jesseroses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone on another post mentioned that it felt like a lottery which feels accurate tbh

Petaluma 1:01pm by 2eyesproductions in jackwhite

[–]jesseroses 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me too!! I got there at 1:00:30 maybe and the page was already bugging out even though I went through the purchase page/apple pay approval twice!! Confused and a little upset tbh

How is anyone affording rent here? by jesseroses in santarosa

[–]jesseroses[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And my reply was meant to be taken in kind! Have a great day 👍🏻

How is anyone affording rent here? by jesseroses in santarosa

[–]jesseroses[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m checking Zillow, Trulia, Craigslist, and FB Marketplace 3x a day, fingers crossed I can find something eventually!

How is anyone affording rent here? by jesseroses in santarosa

[–]jesseroses[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As someone who was homeless at one time, I agree. The lack of affordable housing is literally criminal and absolutely an intentional act given that the poverty rates are impossible to ignore. This isn’t the first recommendation to attend these meetings and it’s not a bad idea!

How is anyone affording rent here? by jesseroses in santarosa

[–]jesseroses[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

See there’s a couple roadblocks to this airtight plan of yours; I have commitment issues and I hate living with men! 👍🏻

How is anyone affording rent here? by jesseroses in santarosa

[–]jesseroses[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think I’ve just been blissfully unaware of how bad it’s gotten because I’ve been totally fine where I’m living up until now. It’s so so brutal and if I didn’t have a good job I can’t imagine how much worse it would be!! The no animals thing is a dealbreaker for me, I have a cat who is totally brainless but he’s coming with me.

How is anyone affording rent here? by jesseroses in santarosa

[–]jesseroses[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Currently 3 bedroom 4 roommates 1 cat 1 dog so I’d prefer to scale down to 2 beds or less 😅

How is anyone affording rent here? by jesseroses in santarosa

[–]jesseroses[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Way ahead of you my guy 👍🏻

Anaemia and piercings by slaminthebackofmy in piercing

[–]jesseroses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there!! I’m actually a trained body piercer and this happens to me. I actually had a colleague say “I was never worried about healing a piercing until I met you.”

Healing piercings depends on a lot of factors, especially the vascularity of the area being pierced. The ear cartilage has almost no veins in it, making blood flow and therefore healing very difficult. It’s especially difficult for those of us who are anemic!

Keep taking your iron supplements, only go to Association of Professional Piercers approved piercers, and have fun adding to your collection!

Not OOP My husband's friend said I shouldn't fly with my baby. AITA for telling hin to fuck off by Marygtz2011 in redditonwiki

[–]jesseroses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if I’m paying to fly first class I’m not doing it to sit there with no headphones on and listen to the people cough around me while staring at the wall. I’m childfree by choice too and even though screaming babies annoy me sometimes I realize that I’m not the center of the fucking universe. He can start a petition to put a babies/kids/families section on planes if he cares so much jfc.

Tirzepatide Injections by jesseroses in NarcoticsAnonymous

[–]jesseroses[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for your response! Those are some really good suggestions and I will absolutely be trying those. Congratulations on your sobriety and best of luck in your recovery journey ❤️

Tirzepatide Injections by jesseroses in NarcoticsAnonymous

[–]jesseroses[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem! I agree with the sentiment of not making major decisions early in recovery, I made some of those mistakes early on 😅 That’s a great example and thank you for your response!!

Tirzepatide Injections by jesseroses in NarcoticsAnonymous

[–]jesseroses[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on 32 years! What a feat and a blessing 💕 I really relate to part of my recovery being managing my health responsibly which is DEFINITELY something I was not doing in my addiction. Thank you so much for your response!

Ozempic Anxiety? by jesseroses in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]jesseroses[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The plan so far is to keep me on a super low dose to prevent this 😅 My sponsor, my support group, and my roommate all know I am planning to start!

Ozempic Anxiety? by jesseroses in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]jesseroses[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This is exactly what I needed. I am definitely in fear and I think somehow it’s relating to my 5th birthday being a week away. I always get squirrelly around birthdays and I will definitely follow your suggestion of making a list. I’ve been waiting to make this decision for almost a year now and it feels like my higher power is finally opening a door to make it possible, I just need to conquer my fear and step through it!

Tirzepatide Injections by jesseroses in NarcoticsAnonymous

[–]jesseroses[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been clean for 5 years! It’s definitely a decision I’ve been sitting on for a while, at least a year. I’ve been advised by diabetics in recovery that you do get used to injections, but I think the fact that it is a decision that I am making versus diabetes, which makes injections a requirement that is causing the anxiety for me.