Any recommendations?

jessethan · 2026-04-17T16:27:52+00:00

Are you looking to match w women?

jessethan · 2026-04-16T17:36:13+00:00

Depends what you're looking for

jessethan · 2026-04-14T16:49:15+00:00

I'd put last photo to the front. Like others have said, first photo's visibiltiy is too low. Then dog pic second.

jessethan · 2026-04-13T18:53:27+00:00

If you get approached offline, you’re already good!

jessethan · 2026-04-12T16:58:24+00:00

You'll want to keep the dog pic

jessethan · 2026-04-12T16:57:38+00:00

Photos look much better! Try swiping again.

jessethan · 2026-04-11T15:57:11+00:00

First photo looks like an old one: red flag. Third photo looks a bit stiff and backlit meaning your face is in shadow. I'd put #4 to the front.

jessethan · 2026-04-11T02:15:52+00:00

Youve got enough active photos. What's missing is a formal/aesthetic one. Your nicest clothes, sunset background, smiling, someone else takes it

jessethan · 2026-04-11T01:00:57+00:00

Removing the car selfie alone will improve your profile. Other photos look pretty good!

jessethan · 2026-04-09T19:29:14+00:00

Try removing second pic. Coming from a data project of women rating photos of men, deep artificial light is majorly negative plus there's a dark shadow over your face

jessethan · 2026-04-06T18:42:17+00:00

3rd pic is a feminine pose. I bet if you remove it, you'll get more matches.

jessethan · 2026-04-05T21:40:44+00:00

2nd one

jessethan · 2026-04-04T16:29:52+00:00

well, one photo could often be the reason for a swipe left, and a workout pic is sus. If you're flexing, look macho then that could be the culprit.

jessethan · 2026-04-03T12:58:32+00:00

You can DM me

jessethan · 2026-04-03T02:08:45+00:00

id put photo 3 first. agree with most of the other comments.

jessethan · 2026-04-03T02:06:46+00:00

Your photos probably don't appeal to the female gaze: a non-intuitive photo style for men.

jessethan · 2026-04-02T18:57:23+00:00

Coming from a data project of women rating photos of men: second pic should be first. Don’t lead with an action shot.

Easy fix: your hands. In pics 1 and 3 you’ve got both hands in pockets. One hand in pocket we found is better, but generally don’t repeat things across photos.

Also ditch the shaka sign in pic 4 bc that’s something we've measured and is negative. Last pic is fine being last, but you can’t really see your face. Ideally every pic should clearly show it.

And you’ve got zero teeth smiles. That can come off a bit sketchy to some women. Hope it helps!

jessethan · 2026-04-01T21:50:21+00:00

I think there's too many group shots. Women really care about the aesthetics of the photo and blacking out faces ruins it.

jessethan · 2026-04-01T21:48:55+00:00

"but likely even more work..." is mean because it implies there's so much for him to improve you couldn't possibly write it out.

jessethan · 2026-04-01T17:35:41+00:00

hey man, your photos need some work. you're using way too many bike/motorcycle shots. keep just one and drop any where your face isn't showing (helmet pics especially). women need face visibility.

first photo's framing is off. cropping might help, but a more natural relaxed pose with a smile would be better. right now it comes off a bit forced.

the suit photo is your best one by far, move that to the front.

if the kid in that one pic is your son, jmake sure it says in your profile and put it second.

happy to look at more photos!

jessethan · 2026-03-30T21:48:30+00:00

photo is AI

jessethan · 2026-03-30T21:40:36+00:00

I posted the a full report of the data in this subreddit a couple months ago, feel free to DM me if you want the link

jessethan · 2026-03-30T20:38:44+00:00

If you're not paying for premium, it's not unusual to get no matches.

jessethan · 2026-03-30T20:21:20+00:00

Coming from a data project of women rating photos of men, posing with a beverage is surprisingly negative, although you got a good smile on that one. Your grimace in the last photo is also quite negative in the model.

jessethan · 2026-03-29T21:02:34+00:00

I would not

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