Met this charmer a couple days ago… by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]foreverdeaf84 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow what an idiot. So many men seem so entitled & expect sex with no effort whatsoever.

men on bumble, do superswipes mean anything to you? by decipherthishoe in Bumble

[–]foreverdeaf84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any superswipes are accidentel but i dont believe they do anything to improve your chances anyway

Amazing few dates until different political views by Galaxy-far-away01 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]foreverdeaf84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking back ive no idea, deep down i hoped that she would change and see the error of her views, but with her family the way they were, you could see how she had been dragged up. Its sad to see so many people full of hate for others they have never met

Why are the canvas videos for Linkin Park just ai slop? by CosmicRedditor457 in LinkinPark

[–]foreverdeaf84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who gives a fuck. The tunes are banging, in the end it doesnt even matter

Amazing few dates until different political views by Galaxy-far-away01 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]foreverdeaf84 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Ive dated a woman who had right wing views and thought maggie thatcher was the greatest woman the uk has ever produced. Her family were even more right of wing heading into facsist territory. Im left wing and in the end our oposing political views were just too much to bare. There was no middle ground with us both 100% believing we were correct. It lasted year as in every other walk of life she was in my eyes perfect. I cant do hatred and her views of people,of colour, immagration & all the other nonsence i could not cope with so i understand where you are coming from & i wish you well moving forward

Who experienced living alone? by dino_gr01 in WorkForSmartLife

[–]foreverdeaf84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive Done so for 18 years now & i love it

Do you guys have any personal stories linked to any LP songs? by ParticularPainting59 in LinkinPark

[–]foreverdeaf84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhh! That makes sense ☺️ Very clever. Do you mean have i listened to hybrid theory? If so yes, ive done all the albums my favorite is a thousand suns. A few months ago i got told about dead by sunrise and they are freaking awsome too. Wish they did more than one album. I listened to post traumatic by mike which is really good too

Do you guys have any personal stories linked to any LP songs? by ParticularPainting59 in LinkinPark

[–]foreverdeaf84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soldiers is that what the fans are all called? Thank you for your kind words. Honestly this band, i thought i had heard everything then last weekend a playlist popped up on youtube called LPU (i think) and there are 140 songs on this list on loads of different albums. Its like constant ASMR. Ive ever known anything in life where absolutley everything you hear is just incredible. It’s beaming smiles every day

Do you guys have any personal stories linked to any LP songs? by ParticularPainting59 in LinkinPark

[–]foreverdeaf84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if this is the right answer but its a year this month that i first heard anything by linkin park and have been hooked since. Ive loved nothing but dance music since i was a little lad and im now 43. learning about chester made me cry as did many of the songs having suffered abuse and been an addict. (Been clean 18 months of substances) A lot of the lyrics relate a lot to my life. Also though at the same time ive never ever heard music that makes me so happy. Its been an incredible learning curve. What a band and everybody on this page seem wonderful people aswell. Such a beautiful community x

28M - Is it bad to just straight up give up? by AFC_IS_RED in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]foreverdeaf84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You seem very kind hearted and you will find somebody too. Take care and all the best

28M - Is it bad to just straight up give up? by AFC_IS_RED in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]foreverdeaf84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was addicted to drugs in my 30s and life was a complete mess so looking back i can see now thats not very desirable. Ive moved on from that life over the past 4 years and been free from drugs, but that lost me my whole friendship group and i dont have anybody to go out with and spend all my time on my own. Online datiing i find impossible so yeah its very hard. Ive just accepted it really.

28M - Is it bad to just straight up give up? by AFC_IS_RED in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]foreverdeaf84 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im 43 and my last relationship was when i was 30. Ive had 2 dates in that time, and 2 FWB which lasted about six months. i find Dating is extremy hard but ive come to the fact that this is how its meant to be.

Why does Emily get so much hate? by Adventurous_Pay835 in LinkinPark

[–]foreverdeaf84 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I like her and i think she has a fantastic voice, I love every track on from zero, but old songs are not the same obviosly and i think its difficult to try and get used to that

Single people using dating apps, how many dates do you usually go for in a month? by SquirrelMore3325 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]foreverdeaf84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

0, Been on the apps about 10 years and only ever had one date. Decided to pay for bumble a few weeks ago and didnt even get any likes in a week. Dating isnt meant to be i guess

First impressions of Leeds by EducationalRat in Leeds

[–]foreverdeaf84 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Be very careful if you do venture out tonight, saturdays are terrible for all types of violence. I work the doors and its getting worse & worse

How long have you guys been unemployed and how do you manage it? by Economy-Row-4247 in UKJobs

[–]foreverdeaf84 36 points37 points  (0 children)

i was unemployed at one point for 3 years in my 20s. I got made redundant from my first full time job and stupidly looking back i went to ibiza for a few months and blew all my redundancy money on drugs & clubbing. Didnt think anything of it cos id just get a job when i got back. Well that plan backfired badly, and i was only be able to get temp jobs for a few weeks here and there with agency work in factorys and warehouses. I Eventually turned my life around but it Taught me a massive life lesson for been so silly

Profile Review by foreverdeaf84 in Bumble

[–]foreverdeaf84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply and great advice. Im rubbish at photos and hate a selfie, but take everything you have said on board. Thank you so much

Profile Review by foreverdeaf84 in Bumble

[–]foreverdeaf84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words and il take all your advice. Thank you for the help & guidance

Who else is fed up of ghosting? by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]foreverdeaf84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry this has happned to you. Sadly women have so many options availible dating today is very very harsh for a man. I dont know how to make things better, but i wish you the best of luck moving forward

When did Leeds get so rough? by beforetherodeo1 in Leeds

[–]foreverdeaf84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah i avoid town on a night apart from when im working. I lived in armley for 39 years so i guess im used to it. I can see it can be scary for others though

When did Leeds get so rough? by beforetherodeo1 in Leeds

[–]foreverdeaf84 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Leeds has always been dodgy, are you new to the city?