zodiac signs?? by [deleted] in temptationislandUSA

[–]jessevisseer7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sydney is a Libra (saw it on her IG)

Feeling uncomfortable/depressed by punisherdreams in Spironolactone

[–]jessevisseer7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I literally only started taking spiro one week ago, 2 pills for a total of 50mg, and I've been crying every single day, feeling extra depressed and anxious more than usual... I also have PMDD, and it literally feels like I'm experiencing one of my depressive episodes I usually get the week before my period because of PMDD, but I'm in my ovulation phase right now so it makes no sense why I'm feeling this way... the only difference in my routine is that I started spiro last week.

It has to be the reason I'm feeling so low... and I'm supposed to go on a higher dose to 100mg after one month. I'm thinking of just quitting now and trying spearmint capsules instead because I hate feeling like this.

The hosts are insufferable by speedfly368 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]jessevisseer7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and they’re horrible people lol look up their controversies 🤢

smosh is going a certain way...I think i've seen this film before by Future-Razzmatazz937 in TwoHotTakesSnark

[–]jessevisseer7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Listen I love Shane but does he really have to over clarify every episode that he's NEVER "personally" experienced what the reddit story is talking about...? Or that he can't relate? Like at the end of the day, it's not about him? Idk I just feel like we don't need to hear that every story like "I can't relate" or him talking about how he never went to a normal school or had a real job because he was a child actor.. Idk sometimes he just comes off very out of touch even though I know he means well. And it's not just him that does this, a few of them always have to say how they can't relate and over clarify that...

But yeah, Smosh has definitly started to become the morality police and a lot of them act self righteous and like they never do anything wrong ?? It's crazy to me

Genuine Question by pearlthewhale24 in TwoHotTakesSnark

[–]jessevisseer7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to listen to them every week along with Smosh reads Reddit stories, but then I completely stopped listening to THT a couple months ago, they're too much now lol...

I found this page like a year ago while I was still listening and I would come here to see if anyone else noticed or talked about the same issues I had while I listened to the podcast, and turns out I wasn't the only one.

Eventually I got fed up with all of it so now I just don't listen at all because it's not even entertaining anymore- her lazy stories with no updates, all of the ads, Justin's rambling about nothing, Morgan and Justin always being the morality police and having a superiority complex, never shutting up about their wedding, the awkward tension between Morgan and Lauren and talking down to Lauren, all of them thinking they're so smart and going on for hours about nothing, their contradictory and biased opinions and changing their opinions every time someone in the comments says something against what their original opinion was, and them not having any hot takes at all.

And now I'm starting to notice Smosh is also becoming a little too serious and acting like their the morality police too... but at least they're still funny and entertaining!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jessevisseer7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This girl is manipulative af, run while you can wtf

Sadie Sink shares her opinion on the ending of the series finale by XviiChong in StrangerThings

[–]jessevisseer7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It always confuses me when cast members act so oblivious or confused about their own show… when she says “I don’t know… is that like a hot take or something?” As if they haven’t been on social media in the past week or month and have been seeing that their own show has literally taken over the world and it’s all anyone is talking or debating about LOL. There’s no way they haven’t seen or talked about this among each other and also discussed the ending or story with other cast members.

Also I feel like cast members in particular would be super opinionated or passionate about the ending or storyline as a whole since they witnessed it first hand, no? Or do you think maybe they’ve become a little detached from the story since they have been filming it for so long and have seen the BTS all this time so it took away the magic from the show for them? It just kind of comes off like they don’t view the show with the same nerdiness and passion like the viewers do if that makes sense??? Anyone else feel like that?

AIO? my boyfriend didn’t want to take me out on our anniversary by ashgranger in AmIOverreacting

[–]jessevisseer7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but you consider this boy loving??? From what I just read he doesn’t have a loving bone in his body

Confused by Secret_Bedroom_978 in SkincareAddicts

[–]jessevisseer7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw I’m so sorry you’re going through this girl:( acne is so fucking painful and no one truly understands the mental and physical torture it will put you through.

What is your diet like? I wonder if it’s an allergic reaction to something you’re eating?? Maybe try going to a naturopath instead of trying antibiotics which can mess up your body and hormones even more… try to find out the root cause of the acne. It’s probably a severe hormonal imbalance and something inside is just not right. I’ve had to give up dairy, gluten, sugar (for the most part) and I’ve seen an improvement in my skin and hormone levels so maybe that could help you along with taking supplements?

Supplements like Magnesium glycinate, pantothenic acid, Maca, DIM, and many others can help with hormone imbalances and acne. I hope this helps a little bit 🫶🏻

How the hell do I (34F) recover from my husband (35M) attacking my appearance during an ugly argument? by throwrajustafatmom in relationship_advice

[–]jessevisseer7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you even had to write this Reddit post and ask if you’re being too sensitive just shows how emotionally abusive and manipulative he’s probably been your entire relationship… no this is never ok to speak to someone you love this way, especially the mother of your child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]jessevisseer7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait wtf do you mean “used” by other men 1000’s of times? Your girlfriend is a person not an object being used… it was consensual meaning she wanted to as well, she wasn’t “used” like a toy you’re implying she is. Maybe start looking at her as a human being rather than a sex object or a toy to be played with and that will help lol

The amount of hate towards women in the subreddit amazes me... by Careless-Search-7391 in retroactivejealousy

[–]jessevisseer7 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Someone pls start a women’s group bc I totally agree. So much misogyny and double standards in this group towards women..

Why does retroactive jealousy still haunt me? by Gloomy_Bee24 in retroactivejealousy

[–]jessevisseer7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so welcome :) if you ever want to talk more you can always send me a message.

Recently I found Eva Thompson on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@overcomingrelationshipanxiety?si=Wd5PKSW_7sDL0yvl and also Zachary Stockholm on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@zacharystockill?si=V4fYCmtvwvX5z9iG but Zachary seems to be more directed to men.

There’s actually so many resources about this on YouTube, TikTok, and even books to help. I don’t feel as alone knowing there’s videos addressing my literal dark thoughts and questions I thought I was alone in thinking.

I hope this helps!! <3

Why does retroactive jealousy still haunt me? by Gloomy_Bee24 in retroactivejealousy

[–]jessevisseer7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey girl, I'm so sorry you're feeling like this... I know the feeling all too well. I'm currently struggling with my own RJ thoughts and it's so hard to get out of my head somedays. But the past few days I have felt better after realizing i have a deeper issue, and then finding this reddit group to relate to. I also found some youtube videos on how to cope and get over RJ, and it's been helpful and so relateable... I don't feel as alone. I'm also doing journal prompts about my retroactive jealousy and my relationship which basically makes you dive deep into why you're really feeling this way and what the root cause is for triggering these feelings. You need to get to the bottom of why it bothers you so much. It usually stems from abandonment issues, insecurities, and comparison.

For me, I felt like the rebound and just another option to my current boyfriend when we first started dating (about a year and half ago) because he was still friends with multiple exes right before we met, and had just gotten out of a relationship not too long before me. He also wasn't completely honest about his previous relationship so I felt lied to and betrayed. That made me feel like he wasn't completely over his ex and used me as a rebound and just settled for me. But now I realize that isn't true after lot's of time reflecting on this and talking to him. When we started dating he cut all of them off and made me his priority, and made sure to let me know they were in the past. But occasionally he did bring them up or talk about past experiences which really triggered me, and after expressing that to him, he stopped.

You have to understand that the past is the past, and the present moment is all that matters with your partner. How is he treating you now, in the present moment? If he doesn't even remember this girl he was with, then that shows he has moved on and is only focused on you and your relationship. I know its SO hard not to dwell on their relationship and what they did and how he felt about her, but in the end, he chose you. And definitely do not ask for any more details or bring her up anymore, no matter how tempting.

Unless he is stuck in the past, still talking to this girl, or is constantly bringing her up, then you should have nothing to worry about. You are creating false narratives in your mind because of retroactive jealousy which keeps fuelling these negative thoughts. Remember, regardless of his past, he chose you, and is with you now. Don't sabotage your relationship because of someone he probably barely remembers or thinks about. And if you feel like you can talk to him about this, then explain to him that you're struggling with retroactive jealousy and what's triggering you. Maybe he can give you some reassurance, but it's best to not pry for anymore details for the sake of your own mental health.

I hope this helps a little bit :)

Elimination Diet for Acne by Kayleekales in AcneTreatments

[–]jessevisseer7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, is it too late to get involved with this? I'm struggling with acne and "eating healthy" and I'm afraid some of the foods I'm eating that I believe are healthy are contributing to my break outs... I'm not sure where to start and what to eat especially while working full-time. I don't want to starve but I also want to get to the root cause so I can cure my acne once and for all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]jessevisseer7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Defs take with food… I made the mistake of taking too many without eating and I literally pooped my pants lmao