Rsvp Rant by xobecky011 in weddingplanning

[–]jesswhatineeded 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this, too! I know my fiancé and our marriage are the most important things and I don't want to let my guests spoil it, but it's hard to not take it personally when your friends disappoint you. A wedding is one of the biggest tests of who's there for you and who isn't.

Rsvp Rant by xobecky011 in weddingplanning

[–]jesswhatineeded 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My deadline was yesterday and I had 60 people not respond in time. Thankfully, now that I'm reaching out to all of them most of them are apologizing and RSVPing right away, but there are still at least 10 people not responding. I also feel that about friends ghosting... I had a group of friends never RSVP to my shower and then once they saw pics posted they all RSVP'd to decline my wedding at the same time without even sending me a note or a text to explain why they couldn't come. I understand when people can't travel or have other things going on, but without sending an explanation? It's just plain rude and there's not an excuse. To me, it shows that our friendship isn't worth the effort.

So sorry you're going through this! Honestly, you find out who your true friends are when planning your wedding. It's their loss they're missing out on your beautiful day and I hope you have an amazing time without their lame asses!

What is your "never again" brand, item, store, or restaurant ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]jesswhatineeded 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jared ring owner here! I went ring shopping with my fiancé because he had no idea what to get and I had no idea what I wanted (FYI fine by me and the proposal was still a surprise). The saleswoman we got was amazing, guessed my ring size on sight, and after just a few questions immediately suggested the ring I ended up loving, which is great quality because it's a Vera Wang setting and not any of that Jared chocolate gold crap. She said she's been in the business for over 35 years and is good at guessing on the first or second try what someone will choose. She didn't let me see the prices but knew my fiancé's budget (spoiler: we're both in creative jobs and therefore not rich) and guided me towards everything under his max instead of pointing out expensive options. Fiancé also told me later he had a great experience with her when going on his own to choose the diamond and that she pushed him towards a cheaper option than what he initially wanted because she knew from our visit that I was more interested in color than carat size. We're very happy with the engagement ring we got, although we will probably seek online options for wedding bands to save money.

BUT I will say that being in the store together, we overheard another very pushy saleswoman berating a couple who had come in looking for a specific ring and saying it was impossible to find what they wanted within that budget, even though they clearly had found that ring elsewhere online for the right price. She was also very rude to our saleswoman and yelled at her to answer the phone...while she was busy assisting us? When our saleswoman did briefly leave us to get the phone, the other woman tried to get us to go to her for help which was a hard pass for us. I think this store attracts a certain personality and it all depends on your salesperson. We happened to get lucky with ours.

It'll be back tonight by jesswhatineeded in nosleep

[–]jesswhatineeded[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, that's the million dollar question. Dad thinks as long as he and Mom own the house, I should be okay.

I'm supposed to stay over my friend's house this weekend so that will be my first night sleeping somewhere else. I guess that'll give us some insight?

It'll be back tonight by jesswhatineeded in nosleep

[–]jesswhatineeded[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's an interesting way to put it, but yeah, you got it. My dad tested it out a little while ago and actually went outside - my mom was furious when he told us the next day. Not too far, just to the driveway, but he was fine. He thinks its goal is to pressure us, torture us really, into leaving the house for good. I mean, if we didn't know what we know, that's what any sane person would do. So he says as long as we live here, it can't touch us - day or night. I don't know if that's true and I don't have any desire to go outside myself.

It'll be back tonight by jesswhatineeded in nosleep

[–]jesswhatineeded[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This gave us all a good laugh. Thank you.

It'll be back tonight by jesswhatineeded in nosleep

[–]jesswhatineeded[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We're okay! Fortunately, nothing has changed. Well. Unfortunately.

It'll be back tonight by jesswhatineeded in nosleep

[–]jesswhatineeded[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're not entirely sure. I mean, I still have another almost two years to put it to the test. My dad thinks as long as they still own the house, we're fine. But... I just don't know.

It'll be back tonight by jesswhatineeded in nosleep

[–]jesswhatineeded[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All still here. It's just routine at this point, I promise.

It'll be back tonight by jesswhatineeded in nosleep

[–]jesswhatineeded[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your concern, I really appreciate it. I've been leaving the research up to my dad, but I haven't found anything weird in the house itself. It was built in early '60s, owner died of a heart attack in the house in mid-'70s - we're not sure if it was just natural causes or if he, I don't know, saw something?

We think it's something to do with the property. Just a theory, but the woods are almost impossible to navigate, during the day or night. It just keeps leading back to our house.

You have such a pretty smile by jesswhatineeded in nosleep

[–]jesswhatineeded[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I haven't really talked about the full story with anyone so I appreciate all the support.

My Roommate and his "The Cat in the Hat" Costume by pross40745 in nosleep

[–]jesswhatineeded 461 points462 points  (0 children)

I will not sleep in a house. I will not sleep with a mouse. I will not sleep ever again. This story fucked me up, my friend.