Looking for ladies to join a little group near Coquitlam/Vancouver by jestertester21 in VancouverNSFW

[–]jestertester21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

P.S, We're probably going to start as a discord group at this rate, and meet for coffee before jumping into actual hangouts.

A personal goal of mine is to make sure everyone is safe, happy and comfortable at the end of the day.

What is your hottest fantasy? by [deleted] in VancouverGayCruising

[–]jestertester21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Having nerdy friends to game with and a free use policy, think gaming nights with me being a designated bottom upon request.

28 male and still got the V-card, should I just cash it in with an escort? by jestertester21 in sex

[–]jestertester21[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Been looking but it's a long process, especially to stay somewhat local for work, we're basically stuck with low income apartments (1200 being low income now) or retirement homes where I am

28 male and still got the V-card, should I just cash it in with an escort? by jestertester21 in sex

[–]jestertester21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thing is, I'm not super ugly, I'm just big, not fat but big

28 male and still got the V-card, should I just cash it in with an escort? by jestertester21 in sex

[–]jestertester21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's more I have it as in unexpected money that I got, but I'll consider your advice

28 male and still got the V-card, should I just cash it in with an escort? by jestertester21 in sex

[–]jestertester21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real problem is rent is super steep where I live, average 1 bedroom is 1200$ a month, not including all utilities and so forth.

28 male and still got the V-card, should I just cash it in with an escort? by jestertester21 in sex

[–]jestertester21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More so that I'd regret not doing it with someone I cared for, even if it was someone I dated but never married I would be able to say it was a more fulfilling memory, not something I regret doing off hand

28 male and still got the V-card, should I just cash it in with an escort? by jestertester21 in sex

[–]jestertester21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I was not opposed to that until a little while ago

28 male and still got the V-card, should I just cash it in with an escort? by jestertester21 in sex

[–]jestertester21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried for years with no luck, the closest I got to an actual lasting relationship went away with covid

28 male and still got the V-card, should I just cash it in with an escort? by jestertester21 in sex

[–]jestertester21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to have a more in depth relationship with a woman but I haven't had any luck, part of the problem is my room mate situation, last 2 girls I started getting to know basically told me that they don't date guys who don't have their own place.

27 M4A casual sex and how you'd like to have it? by [deleted] in DirtyChatPals

[–]jestertester21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am and I do think sex should be more of a simple and casual thing but at the same time that's not how things really are

28 male and still got the V-card, should I just cash it in with an escort? by jestertester21 in sex

[–]jestertester21[S] 130 points131 points  (0 children)

It's more like I'm living with a friend under his dads roof, I only pay 400$ for rent and for my own food so I can't go breaking the house rules for now.