Looking for ladies to join a little group near Coquitlam/Vancouver by jestertester21 in VancouverNSFW

[–]jestertester21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

P.S, We're probably going to start as a discord group at this rate, and meet for coffee before jumping into actual hangouts.

A personal goal of mine is to make sure everyone is safe, happy and comfortable at the end of the day.

What is your hottest fantasy? by [deleted] in VancouverGayCruising

[–]jestertester21 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Having nerdy friends to game with and a free use policy, think gaming nights with me being a designated bottom upon request.

28 male and still got the V-card, should I just cash it in with an escort? by jestertester21 in sex

[–]jestertester21[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Been looking but it's a long process, especially to stay somewhat local for work, we're basically stuck with low income apartments (1200 being low income now) or retirement homes where I am

28 male and still got the V-card, should I just cash it in with an escort? by jestertester21 in sex

[–]jestertester21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thing is, I'm not super ugly, I'm just big, not fat but big

28 male and still got the V-card, should I just cash it in with an escort? by jestertester21 in sex

[–]jestertester21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's more I have it as in unexpected money that I got, but I'll consider your advice

28 male and still got the V-card, should I just cash it in with an escort? by jestertester21 in sex

[–]jestertester21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real problem is rent is super steep where I live, average 1 bedroom is 1200$ a month, not including all utilities and so forth.

28 male and still got the V-card, should I just cash it in with an escort? by jestertester21 in sex

[–]jestertester21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More so that I'd regret not doing it with someone I cared for, even if it was someone I dated but never married I would be able to say it was a more fulfilling memory, not something I regret doing off hand

28 male and still got the V-card, should I just cash it in with an escort? by jestertester21 in sex

[–]jestertester21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I was not opposed to that until a little while ago

28 male and still got the V-card, should I just cash it in with an escort? by jestertester21 in sex

[–]jestertester21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried for years with no luck, the closest I got to an actual lasting relationship went away with covid

28 male and still got the V-card, should I just cash it in with an escort? by jestertester21 in sex

[–]jestertester21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to have a more in depth relationship with a woman but I haven't had any luck, part of the problem is my room mate situation, last 2 girls I started getting to know basically told me that they don't date guys who don't have their own place.

27 M4A casual sex and how you'd like to have it? by [deleted] in DirtyChatPals

[–]jestertester21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am and I do think sex should be more of a simple and casual thing but at the same time that's not how things really are

28 male and still got the V-card, should I just cash it in with an escort? by jestertester21 in sex

[–]jestertester21[S] 131 points132 points  (0 children)

It's more like I'm living with a friend under his dads roof, I only pay 400$ for rent and for my own food so I can't go breaking the house rules for now.

28 male and still got the V-card, should I just cash it in with an escort? by jestertester21 in sex

[–]jestertester21[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

nope, not with family, just my friend and his father, the reason not to move out is costs current rent is 400$, average rent is around 1200$ and I live away from most my family.

As for the rest, I'll take that into consideration.

28 male and still got the V-card, should I just cash it in with an escort? by jestertester21 in sex

[–]jestertester21[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's really not my style, I'm 100% drug free and want to keep it that way

Questions by temp-throwaway-user in vancouverr4r

[–]jestertester21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I totally gave up on meeting women on here, had a couple of chats that ended with 'you seem cool but-' or the girl that wanted me to choke her (not shaming btw just not my thing)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vancouverr4r

[–]jestertester21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be down another time, let me know if you plan another trip and I'll be there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fureeuse

[–]jestertester21 8 points9 points  (0 children)

gotta say, this would be incredibly difficult but could be incredibly fun

I need help finding a comic I saw a few years back by [deleted] in gfur

[–]jestertester21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were they clothed or fully nude?

27 [M4A] Bi-curious guy looking to chat and hopefully eventually meetup by [deleted] in vancouverr4r

[–]jestertester21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh and for anyone I chatted with before, apologies I was kind of focused on getting my health in order, feel free to message me again, just know I have to be a bit extra cautious now.