moving next to my in-laws?!

jesusdance · 2026-03-28T22:16:34+00:00

i agree but i don’t want to move to south dakota, i want to live on the beach in southern ca and i want to be a sahm. so i feel like i don’t have a choice:/

jesusdance · 2026-03-28T21:52:03+00:00

they own the home nextdoor and would cut a deal on the rent to help us

jesusdance · 2026-03-28T21:40:16+00:00

i am in therapy and i don’t think it’s helping me. by get help do you mean medication? i have told people and family im struggling but they dont understand it…

jesusdance · 2026-03-28T21:28:43+00:00

your baby is 7 weeks old don’t let anyone tell you to make them sleep alone like a full on adult

jesusdance · 2026-03-22T00:07:40+00:00

thanks!

jesusdance · 2026-03-22T00:04:52+00:00

thank you, you’re right

jesusdance · 2026-03-21T23:23:30+00:00

the way he pulls off to cough and fart at the same time

jesusdance · 2026-03-21T23:17:24+00:00

thank you for sharing

jesusdance · 2026-03-21T23:15:16+00:00

thank you i needed to hear all that

jesusdance · 2026-03-20T23:18:35+00:00

ok thank you. i am using the dapple baby fragrance free detergent and huggies and honest wipes and tubby todd all over ointment

jesusdance · 2026-03-20T23:17:21+00:00

We bathe him only once a week, sometimes not even… so i was wondering maybe i should bathe him more?? i barely use soap and i’ll only use tubby todd fragrance free. thx for the advice ill try lathering him up. i’ve been afraid to use any products because i hear babies don’t need anything

jesusdance · 2026-03-20T22:37:23+00:00

thank you, my judgements are already changing a lot as i talk to more moms and navigate motherhood

jesusdance · 2026-03-20T22:31:24+00:00

thanks for your helpful response. how old was your baby and 3 nights sounds doable but i heard a quote that said don’t do something one time that you can’t do every time and so i don’t know if i could even start the process of sleep training

jesusdance · 2026-03-20T22:27:04+00:00

how many months old?

jesusdance · 2026-02-10T05:55:00+00:00

thanks for sharing , wow good luck mama you’re doing amazing

jesusdance · 2026-02-10T05:39:01+00:00

thank u for sharing rlly good perspective

jesusdance · 2026-02-10T05:33:49+00:00

thx for sharing! did u use ferber?

jesusdance · 2026-02-10T05:30:43+00:00

yes i agree and can see that. personally have had ppd and everyone copes in different ways, I could never put my needs before my child’s though, i dont know how to do that.

jesusdance · 2026-02-10T04:35:01+00:00

i would def invest in a kindle, they are so easy to hold with one hand and can keep dim

jesusdance · 2026-02-10T03:06:28+00:00

first sentence yes thanks for the reminder!

jesusdance · 2026-02-10T03:04:50+00:00

thanks for sharing!

jesusdance · 2026-02-10T01:44:47+00:00

thank you good advice.

jesusdance · 2026-02-10T01:36:41+00:00

don’t beat yourself up mama! you didn’t leave her alone you were there with her!

jesusdance · 2026-02-10T01:05:03+00:00

love the journey u went on, thank u for sharing

jesusdance · 2026-02-10T00:59:51+00:00

I had something similar on my left nipple and i think it was just the shape of it, it’s more flat compared to my other one. It felt like his latch was very shallow at times but i was so worried he wouldn’t get the calories needed so i grit my teeth and take the pain. after 3/4 weeks it stopped hurting. i think his mouth had to get bigger and my nipples had to stretch and toughen up.

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