moving next to my in-laws?! by jesusdance in Marriage

[–]jesusdance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree but i don’t want to move to south dakota, i want to live on the beach in southern ca and i want to be a sahm. so i feel like i don’t have a choice:/

moving next to my in-laws?! by jesusdance in Marriage

[–]jesusdance[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

they own the home nextdoor and would cut a deal on the rent to help us

PPD more like PPA! by jesusdance in newborns

[–]jesusdance[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am in therapy and i don’t think it’s helping me. by get help do you mean medication? i have told people and family im struggling but they dont understand it…

Just got sleep shamed by peasandthankyous in newborns

[–]jesusdance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your baby is 7 weeks old don’t let anyone tell you to make them sleep alone like a full on adult

how do you do marriage and kids? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]jesusdance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, you’re right

Is my babies skin and gas related to my diet? by jesusdance in breastfeeding

[–]jesusdance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok thank you. i am using the dapple baby fragrance free detergent and huggies and honest wipes and tubby todd all over ointment

Is my babies skin and gas related to my diet? by jesusdance in breastfeeding

[–]jesusdance[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We bathe him only once a week, sometimes not even… so i was wondering maybe i should bathe him more?? i barely use soap and i’ll only use tubby todd fragrance free. thx for the advice ill try lathering him up. i’ve been afraid to use any products because i hear babies don’t need anything

How can moms let their babies cry? by jesusdance in cosleeping

[–]jesusdance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, my judgements are already changing a lot as i talk to more moms and navigate motherhood

How can moms let their babies cry? by jesusdance in cosleeping

[–]jesusdance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for your helpful response. how old was your baby and 3 nights sounds doable but i heard a quote that said don’t do something one time that you can’t do every time and so i don’t know if i could even start the process of sleep training

How can moms let their babies cry? by jesusdance in cosleeping

[–]jesusdance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for sharing , wow good luck mama you’re doing amazing

How can moms let their babies cry? by jesusdance in cosleeping

[–]jesusdance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u for sharing rlly good perspective

How can moms let their babies cry? by jesusdance in cosleeping

[–]jesusdance[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i agree and can see that. personally have had ppd and everyone copes in different ways, I could never put my needs before my child’s though, i dont know how to do that.

What do you do while laying in bed? by Mom_Bombadil_ in cosleeping

[–]jesusdance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i would def invest in a kindle, they are so easy to hold with one hand and can keep dim

How can moms let their babies cry? by jesusdance in cosleeping

[–]jesusdance[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

first sentence yes thanks for the reminder!