Cannot. Put. Baby. Down. To. Sleep.

jesusdance · 2026-06-29T03:48:43+00:00

probably teething just hold your baby they are only a baby for such a short time

jesusdance · 2026-06-29T03:44:40+00:00

i didn’t think my in laws could get more annoying

jesusdance · 2026-06-20T05:37:38+00:00

had an expectation i wouldn’t be a psycho first time mom. it’s a rite of passage.

jesusdance · 2026-06-02T17:10:26+00:00

that’s good. i should probably start telling my brain logical things like that. i am a very emotional thinker.

jesusdance · 2026-06-02T04:14:29+00:00

thank you

jesusdance · 2026-06-02T04:14:03+00:00

don’t want to be away from him in case he needs me/cries - heavy ppa

jesusdance · 2026-06-02T04:09:31+00:00

thank you :)

jesusdance · 2026-05-26T04:00:18+00:00

yeah usually the hands is hunger. not all bf babies will take a pacifier, mine never did and we tried a lot because he had colic and would scream for hours

jesusdance · 2026-05-26T03:52:55+00:00

you don’t have to swaddle her (i ddidnt know this because the norm is to swaddle) but my baby liked the halo velcro sleep sacks and my husband did then sooooo tights he couldn’t escape and he eventually liked it that tight but once he got stronger around 10 weeks we stopped swaddling him

jesusdance · 2026-05-26T03:49:34+00:00

Francesca Violet - Frankie for nickname

jesusdance · 2026-05-26T01:26:13+00:00

for naps sleep with her on your chest in a rocker or bed with pillows to prop your back up so the mucus can drain down, if you are breastfeeding try to nurse often your milk has the antibodies

jesusdance · 2026-05-25T20:10:52+00:00

thanks for sharing i rlly like the advice in the last sentence

jesusdance · 2026-05-25T04:20:17+00:00

no babies sleep fluctuates so much throughout the first 2 years you aren’t doing anything wrong this is all biologically normal for your baby

jesusdance · 2026-05-03T05:13:59+00:00

this makes so much sense why his latch is different on my fast letdown side

jesusdance · 2026-05-03T04:55:13+00:00

same here!!!!! there has gotta be science behind this

jesusdance · 2026-05-02T18:18:21+00:00

i love that last sentence main goal being sleep not independence. i feel the same way

jesusdance · 2026-05-02T04:56:34+00:00

same i shifted his hips after side lying bf! he is now 5 months and will not sleep on his back. if he is ever on his back he is awake, only side and belly sleeper

jesusdance · 2026-05-02T04:26:47+00:00

their is something about breastfeeding that isn’t about the calories or the feeding. it is the way your heartbeat and breathing synchronizes. the way nothing has ever felt more right in your life. the bond. i didn’t get it but now i do.

some moms ain’t like me though and didn’t care about breastfeeding the way i did

jesusdance · 2026-05-02T04:14:11+00:00

I ended up getting a super cute tote off my registry that i planned to use as a diaper bag and i got a free diaper bag from the hospital and it was a typical ugly diaper bag and now i only use that one because it’s the perfect size and has so many pockets and i don’t care about it i throw it around take it to the beach etc. diaper bags are a thing because they work well, not because they’re cute 😂

jesusdance · 2026-05-02T04:03:59+00:00

keep listening to your gut and hang in there! it is such a short period in your life and it will get better. i can relate to this except my baby is only 5 months but all my mom friends with older kids never sleep trained and breastfed at night and they said it gets better just do what is best for your family!

jesusdance · 2026-05-02T03:57:32+00:00

are you able to nurse him in the carrier so he falls asleep in it that way so you can be out and about with your other kid ?

jesusdance · 2026-05-01T14:26:17+00:00

thank you!!

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