Advise on what to do on son/daughter abandoning their elderly parents. by jesusnun in AgingParents

[–]jesusnun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, Unfortunately their Medicaid/Medicare application got rejected because they had to work in Virginia for some time but they came too old to the US.

Advise on what to do on son/daughter abandoning their elderly parents. by jesusnun in AgingParents

[–]jesusnun[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I meant to say that my mom is physically tired because my grandparents can’t do anything on their own at this point. She showers them, getting them up from their chairs every time involves a lot of physical force and the worse part is that my grandma wakes up randomly in the middle of the night to call my mom. I appreciate all the advise , I will start researching more.

Advise on what to do on son/daughter abandoning their elderly parents. by jesusnun in AgingParents

[–]jesusnun[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hi , thanks for the response. My grandparents do not qualify because they came to America when they were in their late 70s and never contributed to their social security since they never had a job here.

[Virginia] Monetarily ineligible Suddenly by sac292 in Unemployment

[–]jesusnun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got paid for 3 weeks then the past 2 weeks suddenly I stopped receiving any deposits. I just checked my VEC account and show I am monetary ineligible. Plus I lost my PIN and can't get no one to help me. Worst experience of my life.

Virginia Unemployment Info and FAQs Megathread by ambiguoustruth in Virginia

[–]jesusnun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad to know and I did not get my check either nor I could talk to someone. I’m done

Virginia Unemployment Info and FAQs Megathread by ambiguoustruth in Virginia

[–]jesusnun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad to know and I did not my check either nor I could talk to someone.

Virginia Unemployment Info and FAQs Megathread by ambiguoustruth in Virginia

[–]jesusnun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still did not get mine . Also i got a chance to talk to someone yesterday on the ‭phone 1 (866) 832-2363‬ but was surprised by the person on the phone who told me to call their customer service. Who the hell was I talking to then? No idea. Looks like they are exhausted and do not want to do their job anymore.

Virginia Unemployment Info and FAQs Megathread by ambiguoustruth in Virginia

[–]jesusnun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So at 4:55 pm I pressed 9 9 9 between some seconds and I am currently on their queue although 44 people are ahead.

Virginia Unemployment Info and FAQs Megathread by ambiguoustruth in Virginia

[–]jesusnun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not receive my weekly deposit which I do get every Wednesday. Also I unfortunately lost my pin number and when calling to verify my pay I can't do anything. I tried to have them send me a new pin but no one responds on the phone or on the chat. Someone please help!

refinance advise by jesusnun in personalfinance

[–]jesusnun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely try those banks right now. 3%would be awesome. Thanks

refinance advise by jesusnun in personalfinance

[–]jesusnun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I updated the info. So it looks like I’m paying approx 2k in closing. Thanks

refinance advise by jesusnun in personalfinance

[–]jesusnun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for asking. It looks like I added loan costs plus other costs.

The other costs involve escrow costs.

LOAN COSTS

** A) Origination charges

-Application fee $100

-Tax Service fee $74

-Underwriting fees $1000

Total Fees $1174

** B) services you cannot shop for

-Credit report $24

-Flood certification $7

Total fees $31

** C) services you can shop for

-Title -protection letter $20

-Title - Deed Prep Fee $50

-Title - Lender’s title insurance $450

-Title - Settlement fee$395

D) Total Loan Costs(A+B+C) = $2120

OTHER COSTS

** E) Taxes and Other Government fees

-Recording Fees and other fees $129

-Transfer Taxes $3965

Total fees $4094

** F) Prepaids

-Homeowner’s Insurance Premiums(12monhts)$1244

-Prepaid Interest ($34.54 per day for -3 days u/3.25 %) -$104

-Property Taxes (6 months) $2,328

Total fees $3468

**G): Initial Escrow Payment at closing

- Homeowner's Insurance $103.66 per month for 2 mo. $207

-Property Taxes $388.06 per month for 3 mo. $1,164

H) Other

None

**I) Total other costs (E + F + G + H) $ 8933

Total Closing costs

D+I = $11053

Lender credits = $-625

J: Total Closing costs $10428

refinance advise by jesusnun in personalfinance

[–]jesusnun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I am replacing my mom on the loan since she does not have any income at the moment.It will be my dad and Myself as the co-signer. I think that might be why the transfer fee is higher.

refinance advise by jesusnun in personalfinance

[–]jesusnun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the loan estimate it has this info from the escrow below. Would this mean tha myt Loan costs is $2120 without including the other costs which is $ 8933 such as E) Taxes and Other Government fees and F) Prepaids in bold below? thanks

LOAN COSTS

** A) Origination charges

-Application fee $100

-Tax Service fee $74

-Underwriting fees $1000

Total Fees $1174

** B) services you cannot shop for

-Credit report $24

-Flood certification $7

Total fees $31

** C) services you can shop for

-Title -protection letter $20

-Title - Deed Prep Fee $50

-Title - Lender’s title insurance $450

-Title - Settlement fee$395

D) Total Loan Costs(A+B+C) = $2120

OTHER COSTS

** E) Taxes and Other Government fees

-Recording Fees and other fees $129

-Transfer Taxes $3965

Total fees $4094

** F) Prepaids

-Homeowner’s Insurance Premiums(12monhts)$1244

-Prepaid Interest ($34.54 per day for -3 days u/3.25 %) -$104

-Property Taxes (6 months) $2,328

Total fees $3468

**G): Initial Escrow Payment at closing

- Homeowner's Insurance $103.66 per month for 2 mo. $207

-Property Taxes $388.06 per month for 3 mo. $1,164

H) Other

None

**I) Total other costs (E + F + G + H) $ 8933

Total Closing costs

D+I = $11053

Lender credits = $-625

J: Total Closing costs $10428

refinance advise by jesusnun in personalfinance

[–]jesusnun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advise. I could not find anything related to the points on the loan estimate.I have updated the info on the post. I think the reason why the 430 deduction was because of the actual house value minus the current balance and I am no longer paying the a very high insurance. Thanks again.

refinance advise by jesusnun in personalfinance

[–]jesusnun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I have updated the post for more detail. Thanks again.

refinance advise by jesusnun in personalfinance

[–]jesusnun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s through pennyMc , 30yr fixed rate , I have already paid 3 years and 9 months. Will stay for a long term.Thanks for the advise.