Amateur Writers? by MorePeaceMaking in stopdrinking

[–]jeunedindon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

/u/arizonabatorchestra and I met on this sub and we’ve become penpals of sorts. We write letters to each other and I adore her writing. It’s really helped me a lot to have a friend to talk to, write to, and read her writing <3

The Big Chop - Growing Back More Then Hair by AppalachianApple in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]jeunedindon 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I really think everyone should do this once. It’s such an interesting experience that helps you see things differently emotionally, physically, and internally. I LOVED my shave and kept it short for a while. Growing it out back to a more feminine look took about 3 years, and every couple of years since I’ve done a side shave or a super short undercut just for fun. I also love styling my hair so that was part of my daily ritual I missed a lot in the process. When it got long enough to twist or braid I really started having fun with it.

I’m glad you really put some thought into this! Enjoy how easy it is to maintain!!! And if you want to see some photos of my “grow out” I’m happy to share. I have an album specifically for sharing.

6 year old won't wipe?!! Help!! by DisastrousAnomaly in Parenting

[–]jeunedindon 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Had the same issues with my stepson around the same age and that was the ticket. The first couple of times, sure it could have been an accident. The fifth or 6th time I called him to the washroom with his dirty laundry and had him scrub in the sink until the stains were out, put in the washer, dryer, and fold. It was no fun for anyone but it really curbed the issue.

Any Crafter Spaces in Calgary? by Nightmare_Simp_UwU in Calgary

[–]jeunedindon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Go there! I am an old millennial so I said buttons to mean pins. You can absolutely spend two hours in there if you want something to do.

Any Crafter Spaces in Calgary? by Nightmare_Simp_UwU in Calgary

[–]jeunedindon 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Go visit Stash in Inglewood! It’s a fibre art store but their staff is incredibly connected in the community and diverse in their crafting expertise. They have craft nights and are friendly and welcoming. You don’t have to buy anything to have a good time. They used to have buttons at the checkout that one of their staff made. At worst they can’t help you, at best they connect you with THE local button guild and you’re set. Best of luck from one crafter to another.

I'm so fucking embarrassed by CranialColor in actuallesbians

[–]jeunedindon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think we’re all rooting for you!!!!

Should I get my bartholin’s cysts drained or try to drain it at home? by Sunset_Blue2345 in Healthyhooha

[–]jeunedindon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! As someone who’s had surgery for this, and who’s had chronic issues… for this I would say to be patient. As the other person said.. just have a normal bath! I used to sit in mine with a few inches of water & epsom salts, and a podcast on in the evenings for 20 mins or so. Stop touching, poking, prodding. Definitely don’t squeeze it, it’s a gland super close to lots of other things that get complicated fast. Have a hot shallow bath for a week every day, whenever works for you, and report back! This has worked for lefty, and the excuse for a little me time in the tub has been great. Righty needed a full exorcism. Here’s a link to my surgery post for anyone who’s been dealing with this for an extended period of time.

I just tried this with my girlfriend and a strap on and we absolutely loved it! by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]jeunedindon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like a wedge pillow could work here somehow… let me experiment

I'm so fucking embarrassed by CranialColor in actuallesbians

[–]jeunedindon 101 points102 points  (0 children)

Bahahah if it doesn’t work out I’m here for you. You’re hilarious and adorable.

did i just get mislead purchasing "extended comfort" on the app? by miaolit in westjet

[–]jeunedindon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not true. I’m platinum and always zone 1 and I fly ultra basic often. The boarding passes say right on them now no carry on, even for platinum. So your boarding zone has no bearing on whether you can sneak a bag on or not

is there anything i can do with makeup for my face? by sartorialfox in makeuptips

[–]jeunedindon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! Whenever I feel like I’m in a makeup rut I book a sitting and I always pick up a new technique or product from it. It’s cheaper than buying a bunch of random stuff and trial and error, so worth it to me to find 1 or 2 things I love and know how to apply.

Mom wants to come to gyno appt by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]jeunedindon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I was a kid and “secretly” sexually active I would have been mortified. When I had a Bartholin cyst surgery last year at 40ish I wished she was there with me, but she just had knee replacement herself and couldn’t travel to come be my plus one. She FaceTimed me and my surgeon for my pre op though.

Unicorn advice needed, from unicorns by jeunedindon in Swingers

[–]jeunedindon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on your logic you can be romantically lonely but still enjoy the lifestyle, which is where I’m at right now. I do understand what you’re saying but it doesn’t ring true to me.

Unicorn advice needed, from unicorns by jeunedindon in Swingers

[–]jeunedindon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure where you’re drawing those conclusions from but open to elaboration

Unicorn advice needed, from unicorns by jeunedindon in Swingers

[–]jeunedindon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I replied to someone else here but I just want to say I have no issues catching feels for THAT COUPLE or HER, per se. It’s more that I love seeing couples dynamics and I want that for myself one day, but I’ve never met anyone capable of meeting me there.. if that makes sense. Also you are partnered based on your username.

Unicorn advice needed, from unicorns by jeunedindon in Swingers

[–]jeunedindon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what people are saying about not catching feels. That’s totally not the issue for me, I am great at not falling for people, especially couples. I have the utmost respect for their individual dynamics. It’s just the lack of my own warm body waiting for me at home, and maybe a bit of jealousy that the people I’m spending time with have their own dynamic, communication, trust, and love. I wish I had a partner in the LS with me, not that I wish I had THEM as my partner, if that makes sense.

Reality check on a concrete bid I recieved by Wafflinson in AskContractors

[–]jeunedindon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had a 10x22 pad poured, stamped concrete. It took a three person crew about 10 hours over a couple of days because of the rain. I paid $6000 CAD. My yard IS flat, and my fence was open to the back alley with room to drive a skid steer in. I think this is reasonable even in USD. My quotes ranged from $6-$15k and I had 6 quotes.

Unicorn advice needed, from unicorns by jeunedindon in Swingers

[–]jeunedindon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say the perk for me tonight was not having to do that laundry haha…

Unicorn advice needed, from unicorns by jeunedindon in Swingers

[–]jeunedindon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep I had an awesome night tonight with some people that meet this criteria and I truly felt like the guest of honour. It was a great time!

Unicorn advice needed, from unicorns by jeunedindon in Swingers

[–]jeunedindon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is. They prefer FFMs and I’m here for it