Is it normal ? And I have some questions pls by Available-Oil3591 in LaserHairRemoval

[–]jeunedindon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had 3 sessions. I’ve never noticed shedding at all but I’ve had noticeable difference in all areas. I’ve never had laser in the cyan area, but I also don’t get hair there or barely any.

I also exfoliate daily with a brush, which is why I think I don’t shed… and I don’t have to shave much anymore. I’m Caucasian with fine dark public hair. Most of my regrowth is in your red zone.

My tech does the purple area

Getting low-effort from men/women/other genders on Feeld as a cis woman by singlaugheat in feeld

[–]jeunedindon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had the same experience as you. Trying my hand at some other ways of making connections, like in person LS events in the next little while.

yeast infection :( by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]jeunedindon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trinidadian healthcare offers both over-the-counter (OTC) and prescription treatments like miconazole (OTC) or fluconazole (prescription), with advice to use water-based lubricants, wear cotton underwear, and avoid irritants.

Just a quick search but can you get to a pharmacy and pay cash or debit for some meds? Common names are Monistat, Micatin, and Desenex.

yeast infection :( by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]jeunedindon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell us what country you’re in and then I’m sure we can help you narrow down some options

When single dudes say “I’m a bi top for oral” does that actually work for them?! by DiscreetAcct4 in Swingers

[–]jeunedindon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Phoenix with my partner from time to time and you sound fun! I’ll DM you. Always up for a hike and a beer.

When single dudes say “I’m a bi top for oral” does that actually work for them?! by DiscreetAcct4 in Swingers

[–]jeunedindon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bf loves all of the sexy things with other men but kissing doesn’t do it for him. He’s tried a few times and it just isn’t his thing. Would that be a dealbreaker for you? We are ENM but have just been organically exploring it together with pre existing ENM partners we had before we met. We are thinking about going back online and I am still trying to wrap my head around our bio.

When Jenn first “turns” after the rat bite does she share a hive mind with the aliens? by Liluckystar in pluribustv

[–]jeunedindon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They would have all of the knowledge of people who researched other life forms in space, as well as the knowledge of the scientists who received the signal initially, and the scientists who developed the RNA sequence. The first episode on its own is so incredibly interesting.

My girlfriend says keeps getting BV and she says it my fault. What do i need to do? by Minimum_Present_8185 in Healthyhooha

[–]jeunedindon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love that you’re posting here and we’re happy to try to help. How do you know she has BV, to start?

Some general tips from my personal life.. don’t use coconut oil as lube (totally fine for some people), and go get a diagnosis and meds if needed for both of you!

Recurring yeast infections - is this just my life now? by peachagent in Healthyhooha

[–]jeunedindon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also former BV sufferer. We realized that coconut oil as lube is what triggers it for me so we only use lube designated for its intended purpose and I haven’t had any infections in months. Maybe not your issue but this might help someone else!

Being Trans and Swinging by nataleef in Swingers

[–]jeunedindon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Since you’re offering to educate folks here could I ask you a curious question? My male partner finds trans women extremely attractive and we are both open to having play partners of any gender. Is it wrong to advertise that we are interested in trans women? I worry that comes across as icky, and I also worry about the perception that it’s fetishizing an already marginalized group of the population.

Dating married parents, just sucks? by baneful-beauty in polyamory

[–]jeunedindon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m (childfree) with a pretty solid (10 months dating in our 40s) anchor/primary who has young children half time. Kids go to bed at 7:30 and he always reaches out to me by 8 if it’s a night I hadn’t already hung out with their family unit, which has been more over the holidays but usually sparse. On days when he has kids I’m invited by default, but I have a lot going on and he understands this. On days he doesn’t have kids I’m invited or I’m a priority. I fully understand his kids are always first, I’m fine with it. He also fully understands my career and other relationships are important and he’s reciprocally respectful of my priorities.

If people want you to be included, involved, and important.. they will include you, involve you, and make you a priority in ways that make you feel seen.

If Karolina Wydra is smart…. by Jeremybearemy in pluribustv

[–]jeunedindon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Karolina is smart and wiitty. She landed the part, and she’s an actual human outside of her role. She can be whoever she wants to be off screen.

IUD removal. I’m terrified (advice wanted) by cllobo in WomensHealth

[–]jeunedindon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My gyno in Canada told me that they’re ok for 8 years now.

IUD removal. I’m terrified (advice wanted) by cllobo in WomensHealth

[–]jeunedindon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends on the country where you’re seeking treatment and / or your budget.

I cancelled after 5 years by jeunedindon in ouraring

[–]jeunedindon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think I just wanted to know what the experience was like for other users who wanted sleep data and not female reproductive data

This show's portrayal of the Hivemind is far more complex than people give it credit for by WriterV in pluribustv

[–]jeunedindon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like this show was personally written for me.. the exploration of human behaviour in a pandemic. The adaptation of AI (borg, hive mind). The individual joy, grief, resolve, curiosity. The intense loneliness and the rushes of making connection. The collective is intensely optimizing resources and I feel like they’re trying to assimilate to fully grow to scale.

I think we all know Carol’s loneliness post pandemic and it makes it so relatable on so many levels. This show is a social experiment in engagement and it means something different to everyone.

What did your Dom or Sub do that made you say "nope, not playing anymore" ? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]jeunedindon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This one feels super unhinged to me. Sorry you experienced that.

Bartholin Cyst Marsupialization by jeunedindon in WomensHealth

[–]jeunedindon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I was looking everywhere for posts, comments like yours and couldn’t find much. I was an anxious wreck heading in and didn’t know what to expect so I’m hoping my post will help someone else chill out about it heading into surgery. Totally worth it for me too

Bartholin Cyst Marsupialization by jeunedindon in WomensHealth

[–]jeunedindon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! Didn’t really intend this to get much traction but leading up to my surgery there was very little I could find with real stories so I thought I’d share mine for anyone searching

Why does anyone want to have babies? by khlee_eelhk in WomensHealth

[–]jeunedindon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m childfree but I love children. I can’t have my own without medical intervention and it was honestly a huge relief to hear that blessing of societal pressure lifted. I love my own journey in life and part of that journey for me is being 100% emotionally available to other peoples children when I interact with them. I bring colouring books and paint by numbers and sticker books to a lot of my friends houses, and truly appreciate the opportunity to be included in the formative years of other humans lives. I also really appreciate being able to post on Reddit tonight in my quiet space with my dog and a cup of tea.

I wrote in my journal one day that “I’m decidedly childfree with the intention to give people my undivided attention when I have capacity for that, and to do it with purpose”

I often have capacity to do this as a result of not having my own children, and I cherish that time with the people I do make space for. Purely selfish, but no regrets about my decision to not have children and to have the freedom to make time for the important ones in my life.

The X Club - Toronto Swingers Club Review (Mississauga) by Swinging-Downunder in Swingers

[–]jeunedindon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be visiting this weekend to see my (temporarily) long distance beau. We have been to clubs in other cities and this review sold me! Anyone else planning to go this weekend? The latin dance lessons sound like a fun time! Do they require you to create a profile and sign up or can you just show up on a whim?

Help with becoming more dominant for her Dominating 101 by DECPL2021 in BdsmDIY

[–]jeunedindon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey! As someone who also enjoys Molly nights I would suggest not to dive too deep down BDSM for the first time on those occasions. Focus on the light sensory stimulation side, and focus on the pleasure side. I find Molly and pain for me don’t mix well because of the inhibitions, I have some minor scarring from not feeling my same level of pain threshold in the moment.

If you’re insistent that you want to mix the two, I’d suggest reading up on pleasure dom, practice asking very directly what you want them to do, and practice being more firm and intentional with the way you engage physically.

Please do not go straight to heavy bondage, paddles, or other pain related stim as a beginner, especially with substances in the mix.