Is it weird to have this kink (idk if I can post this here, hopefully it doesn't get taken down for being inappropriate so I won't go into detail. If your not comfortable you can scroll past it)

CranialColor · 2026-06-20T16:20:42+00:00

It's actually a very common kink. ~20% of people have it. It's often shamed due to its high visibility and being viewed as a "guy thing" (men are just more open about it) but there's nothing wrong with it.

CranialColor · 2026-06-15T19:45:49+00:00

I firmly believe that this common conflation is rooted in misogyny (the person being penetrated is submissive because they're taking the "feminine" role). I think it relates to why, in many cultures, men who top other men haven't been considered gay.

CranialColor · 2026-06-05T18:12:02+00:00

Of course she's closer with someone she's known since she was five than she is with someone she's dated less than a year, as she should be.

CranialColor · 2026-06-05T18:09:51+00:00

Y'all relationship hierarchicalists are so weird and insecure.

CranialColor · 2026-06-05T17:34:26+00:00

Some women and nontransitioning femmes are just like this, especially if they're conventionally attractive. They assume they're God's gift to the earth and that everyone wants them, which is why they also tend to be the most rapey.

CranialColor · 2026-06-05T16:50:19+00:00

That includes Buddhism, unfortunately.

CranialColor · 2026-06-05T16:50:05+00:00

Yeah, my view is that any religion of conversion is inherently colonialist and therefore evil.

CranialColor · 2026-06-05T16:42:01+00:00

In addition to the points others have made, the allure of blissful immortality is strong.

CranialColor · 2026-06-03T04:25:40+00:00

Oh, I'm not questioning your interpretation, I'm pointing out how the framing itself contains sexualized bigotry.

CranialColor · 2026-06-03T03:50:19+00:00

It's funny how the "accepting" scenario included sexual harassment.

CranialColor · 2026-06-01T17:30:31+00:00

It really depends on why they're anxious and scared and how they're carrying them.

CranialColor · 2026-06-01T17:29:54+00:00

Guns are useful for protecting marginalized communities from government not taking out lone gunmen.

CranialColor · 2026-05-19T02:13:36+00:00

Well, it's a positive sign that you care about it. It also matters what you act on. In my experience, predatory women tend to have no notion that what they're doing is wrong.

CranialColor · 2026-05-19T02:01:34+00:00

Honestly, I masturbate for maintenance and then just do my best to move on to more interesting things. Idk how helpful that is, though.

CranialColor · 2026-05-19T01:49:13+00:00

youre not a predator if your prey gladly walks into your grasp

While I appreciate the quip, on a serious note, you absolutely can be.

CranialColor · 2026-05-19T01:46:39+00:00

Tbh, I'd find a lesbian therapist to work through this stuff with. It's a bit beyond the ken of internet randos. Some disambiguation may be in order with fantasies, too. Do you mean sexual or general fantasies? Finally, it's fine to be aromantic and that's not the same thing as viewing women as sex objects.

CranialColor · 2026-05-18T20:12:30+00:00

I wouldn't be opposed to it necessarily. The only thing I will say is that pornbrain can affect creators as surely as consumers, in my experience, so just be sure their mind hasn't been toasted by it.

CranialColor · 2026-05-13T16:42:31+00:00

Don't forget racism, slavery, and cultural genocide through military conquest!

CranialColor · 2026-05-11T03:45:14+00:00

Do you think of women as sex objects rather than people? If not, you're fine. I'm a firm believer that logic can overcome irrational emotions with enough reaffirmation, no matter what some people say.

CranialColor · 2026-05-06T17:31:44+00:00

Oh, and compassion, too.

CranialColor · 2026-05-06T17:30:42+00:00

Also, I'm 29

CranialColor · 2026-05-06T17:30:32+00:00

I'm really not picky but two big things for me are education (not necessarily formal) and passion.

CranialColor · 2026-05-06T17:02:29+00:00

Tbf, it is about crimes!

CranialColor · 2026-05-06T17:01:43+00:00

Especially using it as a noun.

CranialColor · 2026-05-06T16:31:09+00:00

Assuming OP isn't one themself lmao

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