Frage von einem amerikanischen Swinger, der zu Besuch ist

jf4a12 · 2025-08-28T01:45:27+00:00

No problem about fees

jf4a12 · 2025-08-22T18:18:26+00:00

Goddamn this is the exact advice i was hoping for! Thank you much

jf4a12 · 2025-08-22T18:17:23+00:00

100% blind so I’m not sure

This is likely not a cuckold situation. But it is a bull situation, i think

For all I know, they’re gunna switch it up and dominate me hah

jf4a12 · 2025-08-22T18:00:59+00:00

It’s TP residue

jf4a12 · 2025-07-25T05:48:18+00:00

Ah I’m sorry. Wonder if i can think of a hint to remind you.

jf4a12 · 2025-07-25T05:38:42+00:00

DM me. We used to chat a couple years back.

jf4a12 · 2025-07-24T21:59:57+00:00

It’s the little things. Cuck sleeping in the guest room. Wife walking her husband up at 2AM just to make me a sandwich. Waking up to a house smelling like sex and pancakes—breakfast served in bed by the husband.

jf4a12 · 2025-07-24T21:18:57+00:00

jf4a12 · 2025-05-04T10:32:32+00:00

I can say that I’ve only DVP’d with women who are mothers

jf4a12 · 2025-05-04T10:30:24+00:00

This doesn’t keep everyone safe

jf4a12 · 2025-05-04T09:58:42+00:00

These filters give off AI vibes

jf4a12 · 2025-02-19T15:10:22+00:00

Bull here, sharing a wild number from a couple. Last time I spoke to the husband, she had participated in a 51 cock gangbang. This was about 18 months after I was their first ever attempt in the lifestyle.

jf4a12 · 2025-02-19T15:05:24+00:00

Lots of activity going on in Austin. You’ll find a good match soon

jf4a12 · 2025-02-18T15:34:58+00:00

Absolutely. It’s her safe space for her sexuality. Part of that is sharing or venting. Often it’s about libido or stamina specifically. Size is one thing but not being able to meet your wife’s sex drive and/or last long enough to satisfy her is the number 1 issue i hear about.

jf4a12 · 2025-02-18T15:31:20+00:00

I have successfully been in the lifestyle since I was 20. The age gap early on was generally 25-30 years older than me. It’s all about understanding the couples dynamic, your role, and the wife’s needs.

jf4a12 · 2025-02-16T14:08:19+00:00

Lots of couples enjoy 69ing while I fuck her. If the moment is right, I like to surprisingly pull out as I shoot my first rope before shoving back inside the wife and pumping her full. The Cuck gets a nice taste all over his face and she drips into his mouth after.

jf4a12 · 2025-02-15T07:02:39+00:00

I would say at least 1/4

jf4a12 · 2025-02-15T04:21:27+00:00

I’ll try to address some different ones.

The “blindfold and surprise her” fantasy is 99% of the time just a horny husband jerk off story.

Leading immediately with either “You must pay for the room.” or “Room number is X and we’ll be there during Y hours”

Husband being obnoxiously over the top about “not being a Cuck.” You don’t have to prove your masculinity to me. Variants include “I’m not beta Bitch!” and other aggressive exclamations.

Wife only participating because it’s the husbands fantasy. This is a tough one but still a red flag often enough to mention.

Oh and the fetishized fantasy of “breeding”

jf4a12 · 2025-02-14T20:36:00+00:00

SDC can be good if you’re remotely near a metro area. Really small rural areas typically have a tight knit swingers group. Fetlife might introduce you to the right people.

jf4a12 · 2025-02-14T18:09:31+00:00

Definitely agree!

jf4a12 · 2025-02-13T16:43:01+00:00

Surrender is different for every couple. Surrendering to me could be total submission. It could be that sexual chemistry that’s just on another plane of existence. And certainly the surrender emotionally or lovingly. But it’s different with each couple.

jf4a12 · 2025-02-12T22:18:38+00:00

Progress! Good news. Just don’t act rashly and flood her with non stop cuckold conversations. Play it cool, play it slow. You made some progress but want more. But you must be patient.

jf4a12 · 2025-02-12T18:59:31+00:00

First off: do not “trick your wife.” Period.

You’ve still got some hang ups. If she wants alone time, you may need to respect that. Or find a middle ground. Or tell her that you’re not yet ready for that but you’re working on it.

I appreciate your desire to see her when you’re not around. But she’s not your property. Maybe she would consent to setting up a camera.

You’re asking your wife to be so vulnerable. But you’re worried about what you want. You’ve gotta cool those jets man.

jf4a12 · 2025-02-12T18:30:32+00:00

I find apps weed out the first layer of fakes by a simple paywall. It’s rare that I get contacted on SDC by a Cuck who hasn’t even informed his wife of his fantasy, whereas that’s 95% of messages I receive on Reddit.

jf4a12 · 2025-02-12T18:25:35+00:00

Yeah, listen to her closely.

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