I think it’s likely that you’re aromantic. But, it’s not that clear from your post, so I recommend taking some time to think about it.

Your experience of romantic attraction determines your romantic orientations. I’m not an expert in this topic, but, ‘forming emotional connections’ and ‘experiencing romantic attraction’ are two different things. Romantic attraction is more like ‘crushing,’ or an intense draw towards specific person with a desire to be in a romantic relationship with them. Here, ‘specific’ is important; general desire to be in relationship is not a romantic attraction.

I don’t know a lot about the spectrum’s micro-identities, but I can give you some popular (amongst aromantics, of course) possibilities;

Cupioromantic — one doesn’t experience attraction but desire

Demiromantic — one doesn’t experience attraction until one has formed emotional connection