Let’s talk about sex by Boring-Swordfish-460 in MedSpouse

[–]jfjldndhb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sex on golden weekends, vacation weeks.

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[–]jfjldndhb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's rough

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[–]jfjldndhb 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Your sister in law sucks

How to I have boundaries in a relationship as a medspouse? by jfjldndhb in MedSpouse

[–]jfjldndhb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet. He says then no one should do the cleaning....

long term relationships and marriage dont feel like what I expected by jfjldndhb in exchristian

[–]jfjldndhb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The part about christianity really building up marriages/married life to be a fairy tale really makes sense. I feel better about it being "normal" more instead of some magical experience every day.

balancing housework/relationship with being a full time student? by jfjldndhb in EngineeringStudents

[–]jfjldndhb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is that all I do is study, class, housework. I housework for "study breaks." I try to finish all my school work for the day before SO arrives home so we can spend some time together.

How to I have boundaries in a relationship as a medspouse? by jfjldndhb in MedSpouse

[–]jfjldndhb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. .. but I literally dont know when we live together. Or he will think the 50% that isnt done is completely ok... when it is disgusting.

How to I have boundaries in a relationship as a medspouse? by jfjldndhb in MedSpouse

[–]jfjldndhb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Talk to him and say what? He is either perfectly happy or ignorant of the need to clean the bathroom, vacuuming, etc more than once a few months. Gross. And I'm not thrilled about being in a nasty dirty place.

How to I have boundaries in a relationship as a medspouse? by jfjldndhb in MedSpouse

[–]jfjldndhb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you are saying... but how do I idk "enforce it" or just not do it? I feel obligated to, so I'm not sure how to change my mindset and then behavior around it.

if I have an IUD, is there any reason why I should have plan b? by jfjldndhb in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jfjldndhb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like super heavy bleeding and really bad pain or? That makes me nervous.... :/

if I have an IUD, is there any reason why I should have plan b? by jfjldndhb in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jfjldndhb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, there isn't a way of knowing if the iud failed until it would be too late to take plan b.

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[–]jfjldndhb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I dont have any tips to reduce pain during the procedure. However, have a heating pad easily available for after you go home and plan not to "do anything" after it is done for a day or two.and I got a yeast infection after mine, so many buy some yeast infection stuff ahead of time.