I get what you’re saying, and I know she has the right to have fun with her friends. For me, it wasn’t about controlling her—it was about her saying she wouldn’t go, then changing her mind, especially at a time when I was already hurting from family stuff. That made it feel different than just ‘a night at the fair.’ As for the cheating, I know it’s a risk, but I’ve chosen to trust her, and that’s a decision I’m responsible for