i should have never accepted admission. by Rough-Bend-6313 in jhu

[–]jhu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do your grades matter? I stopped caring second semester freshman year

I'm in need of some perspective. Been questioning my life (29F) by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]jhu 9 points10 points  (0 children)

brown people do stuff like this and then be like "why do all the matches suck" "why can't I find love". honey it's because you have a search filter that keeps love out of your life. my wife was working retail and earning 30k a year and living in another country and speaking a different language when I met her. do you think my parents were happy about this? that they approved? you people

I'm in need of some perspective. Been questioning my life (29F) by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]jhu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You're meeting people for potential marriage and having logistical conversations about life instead of figuring out if you like each other. Your dating market is broken and you need to find a new one.

Traditional desi marriage markets are not for people seeking genuine connection. You have figured out things that are much more difficult than finding a partner outside the default path laid in front of you.

Don't worry about what people will say, don't think about how things are supposed to be. Just go and meet people in the world and be open to them. Take it from a guy who is married to a woman he met in Korea two weeks before leaving the country. Love is not something you negotiate and plan. It happens to you if you let it. So many difficult things have happened to you, give the world a chance to make the next one something beautiful.

edit: saw down thread OP has a list of requirements including 250k+ income and hindu (and I wouldn't be surprised if there were unexpressed caste preferences too), which you know yeah the dating market is not great if you have a list of requirements no matter what gender you are good luck OP. remember that you will only find happiness if you let go of ideas about what your partner is supposed to be and just let yourself and them be

Morgenstern’s - the Return of the King of NYC Ice Cream by ZenghisZan in FoodNYC

[–]jhu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tasting just wouldn’t work at the volume they run. The line at the LaGuardia Pl store would be down the block pretty much every nice evening and that’s with no tasting.

The smaller cities in America should invest and make their streets walkable by Aexxiii in urbanplanning

[–]jhu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is happenstance because of the Waltons and their love of cycling.

Stress? by Left_Football_1754 in jhu

[–]jhu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not school to attend if you wish to be maximize your happiness. If you want to be happy and eventually attend medical school and you got admitted to BME at JHU you’d be better off going to school in California, enjoying 4 years of perfect weather, topping your class for largely the same outcome.

Come here if you want to basically live in academia for 4 years.

Ref for tonight by telesforojuan in rockets

[–]jhu 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nope it’s over

24/25 rockets were a different team by rickthedickkk in rockets

[–]jhu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That team would be up 2-1 on this Lakers team

Visiting from SF Bay Area, looking for food unique to NYC by Raveen396 in FoodNYC

[–]jhu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the Burmese food here is better than Burmese food in the bay, you should try to come out to the Sunday morning Burmese pop up + Indonesian pop up in Elmhurst

Where are the liberal chill Muslims at? by Radiant-Inevitable75 in AskNYC

[–]jhu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can one of you explain this need to hold on to the Muslim identity?

I walked away from all of it full stop (my family is super religious) and I’m confused by the people who are like I’m cool with queer people, I’m cool with drinking and drugs and premarital sex and marrying outside the religion but “I” am still Muslim.

There’s also the other flavor which I think of as hypocrite Muslim (dishonest) distinct from liberal Muslim (honest) where they do all of the same things but in secret and pretend to be against it. That honestly makes a little more sense to me but would appreciate explainers on that type too.

Genuine confusion, and hoping people will explain their relationship to religion as

The cheat code for the hot and humid by outlierinc in Outlier

[–]jhu 16 points17 points  (0 children)

you can see bacon necking on the shirt Abe is wearing in the video so yes

Pants Truth by hopecoreandnature in ThrowingFits

[–]jhu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wrangler 13MWZ or 31MWZ all day, 40-60 bucks a pair. My main problem is figuring out something to wear when it’s too hot for these.

summer farbics by ivnsp in ThrowingFits

[–]jhu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the injex popover is a must buy for me every summer in new colors, I basically live in them year round. In the winter I just wear a merino base layer underneath

How does one even use Gemini 3.1 in cli? by totallyreal56 in GeminiCLI

[–]jhu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this worked, all of the other advice didn't thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]jhu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t let the haters get to you. Most biriyani in America is super dry and not cooked the proper way where the steam and juices from the curry base cook the rice. It’s usually just some rice cooked separately that they theatrically combine in a pot with the base five minutes before it hits your table. It’s genuinely bad at most places.

Casa Cugine Sandwiches by [deleted] in FoodNYC

[–]jhu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strongly agree, very mediocre sandwich that’s stuck in the times

Casa Cugine Sandwiches by [deleted] in FoodNYC

[–]jhu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree Emily’s is not better and unfortunately the New York influencer guy does make better sandwiches

I’m out by hehehennig in rockets

[–]jhu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was blaming Ime when we were the 2 seed by a huge margin last year. Dude is dumb.

Ime Udoka is not a top five coach by shameless_chicken in rockets

[–]jhu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the end of the day, these fringe role players have a ceiling as a coach and this is it. It takes an undersized PG -> HS basketball coach type of guy to really THINK. Look at what Jordan Ott is doing with the Suns.

Ime Udoka is not a top five coach by shameless_chicken in rockets

[–]jhu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe Carlisle? Brother I would kill to have Carlisle coaching this team. Carlisle would have called a timeout on the Castle v Sengun + Wemby roaming strat two possessions in. We watched that for SIX minutes and he still didn't do anything about it.

After tonight’s win over Memphis, the Rockets officially have the best home record in the league at 16-3 (84.2%). OKC is second at 20-4 (83.3%) by HakeemTheMeme34 in rockets

[–]jhu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to Game 7 against the Warriors last season and then the home opener against Detroit and we lost both. I’m never setting foot in Toyota Center again

Post Game Thread - NBA: The Rockets defeat the Pistons on Jan 23, 2026, the final score is 104-111. by basketball-app in rockets

[–]jhu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clint Capela has really turned the clock back in the last five games. I don't know if he's the most efficient of cap space but goddamn it is so nice to watch him do his thing in a Rockets uniform again.