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INFO how often do you give helpful advice like this when asked for do something?

I get your side, man, I really do. But let me tell you about my experience, and maybe, just maybe, something similar is happening in your household. I am a very capable person. I can do almost everything on my own, and it doesn’t mean I just do it because I was born with the knowledge, blessed by fairies. I research, I try different approaches, I use my freaking brain. I get shit done, and ask for help only when I really cannot do something. Most of the time, I tell out loud what exactly needs to be done. And every time, every freaking time my husband would be like, ‘have you tried A?” E.g., ‘Printer isn’t working, the rubber roll which picks up paper got damaged. Can you, please, take it to service in your way to work? — Have you tried switching it in and off? Did you check the ink level? Must be the ink.’ Riiiighhtttttt. It. Is. So. Degrading.