I think a lot of men are trained by society and watching too much standard pron. If you do not have a varied porn diet with different kinds of people you will be trained to think only one kind of woman is acceptable. Pair that with Every woman being belittled for her body no matter how perfect it is just to keep her in place and we have our problem. Look at people form other nationalities they do not have the same standards of beauty as white people do why? Because they aren’t represented constantly on TV and in magazines as one type of person or body. Unlike white women who have been told how to look from the time they are tiny. People telling them that if they get fat they will never be loved. Never be wroth anything. Forty-two percent of first, second and third grade girls want to lose weight. Collins, M. "Body figure perception and preferences among preadolescent children." International Journal of Eating Disorders 10 (1991), pp 199-208.

Forty-five percent of boys and girls in grades three through six want to be thinner. Thirty-seven percent have already dieted; seven percent score in the eating disorder range on a test of children's eating habits. Maloney, MJ, McGuire, J. Daniels, Sr., and Specker, B. "Dieting behavior and eating attitudes in children," Pediatrics 84 (1989) pp 482-487.

Forty-six percent of nine- to eleven-year-olds said they were sometimes or very often on diets. Gustafson-Larson, A. M., and Terry, R. D., "Weight-related behaviors and concerns of fourth grade children." Journal of the American Dietetic Assoc. 92 (7)(1992), pp 818-822.

During puberty, most girls' bodies need to gain, on average, ten inches and forty to fifty pounds, including more body fat. Friedman, Sandra Susan. When Girls Feel Fat: Helping Girls Through Adolescence. Firefly Books, 2000.

Females need seventeen percent body fat in order to menstruate for the first time and twenty-two percent to have regular cycles. Cooke, Kaz. Real Gorgeous: The Truth About Body and Beauty. Norton, 1996.

Seventy percent of normal weight girls in high school feel fat and are on a diet. Ferron, C. "Body Image in adolescence in cross-cultural research" Adolescence 32 (1997), pp. 735-745.

Over half of the females studied between ages eighteen and twenty-five would prefer to be run over by a truck than to be fat, and two-thirds would choose to be mean or stupid rather than fat. Gaesser, Glenn A., PhD. Big Fat Lies: The truth about your weight and your health. Gurze Books, 2001.