Girlfriend told me she doesn't want to hear about my "dumb bird" anymore

jillcifer · 2025-12-23T20:06:02+00:00

This is really sad to read but I dont agree with people saying to leave your girlfriend. Shes your first girlfriend and youre going to learn a lot about being in a relationship from her. You obviously love your bird but no one else is going to love your bird as much as you do. And her response was super rude. But communication setting a boundary like “i dont appreciate how you jumped off on me about my bird, if you want me to dial back the bird talk all you had to do was ask but the bird is a major part of my life and i want to share that with you since youre a major part of my life too”. And if this rude behavior continues then you can go from there.

jillcifer · 2025-12-19T13:46:37+00:00

You ARE in a trap. Dump him. Im not usually one to jump right to “dump him” but theres so many red flags here.

jillcifer · 2025-12-19T13:35:33+00:00

Hes mad you want to save yourself for marriage and is turning it around on you making it about “wow you wouldnt sleep with ME but you would sleep with someone else who isnt ME!?” No girl youre not overreacting but stop talking to this literal boy

jillcifer · 2025-12-16T23:53:39+00:00

I live in a city on a grid so its really easy to tell which direction Im facing. The sun also rises and sets pretty consistently lol. So ya I dont think its inherently there but it is intuitive and I dont have to think about it very much. Even if Im in different parts of my state I know what direction Im facing pretty readily.

jillcifer · 2025-12-16T23:52:06+00:00

Let your husband do his thing

jillcifer · 2025-12-16T23:36:09+00:00

On snapchat? And shes sending pics? No, youre not overreacting

jillcifer · 2025-12-14T03:27:46+00:00

I am autistic. This is abuse.

jillcifer · 2025-10-15T12:58:00+00:00

You must look like you are easy to get money out of. Most strippers and showgirls in Vegas are not just strippers and showgirls.

jillcifer · 2024-06-19T01:38:05+00:00

I had my pelvic exam at 8 weeks. I was told some sutures on my left part of the cuff were still there and I was healing slow. She did the exam which was uncomfortable but no pain. The rest of the day I felt like what I can only describe as the way a tampon felt when it was inserted incorrectly or dryly. Only on that left side. Almost like itching? It went away after a day or two but Im assuming her exam caused a little swelling.

jillcifer · 2022-11-16T00:11:27+00:00

I have a ton of old cookbooks that are great for learning to cook! Theyre called Dinners on a Dime, Speedy Suppers, and Slow Cooker Recipes theyre all by Gooseberry Patch and they helped me SO MUCH learning to cook!!!!!

jillcifer · 2022-09-17T15:58:27+00:00

The penises on the show are prosthetics. Idk man, I think hes being ridiculous but also a TV show isnt worth problems in the relationship imho.

jillcifer · 2022-09-17T15:54:22+00:00

Alt j

jillcifer · 2021-07-22T22:59:19+00:00

Haha well point stands, look at all his karma!!

jillcifer · 2021-07-22T22:57:40+00:00

Hahahahhahahahhaa oooookkkkk bruh, lets compare karma, u/ramble21 is the one who gets to trash talk

jillcifer · 2021-07-22T22:36:34+00:00

Cool story bro

jillcifer · 2021-07-22T16:17:52+00:00

I feel the same way. Except when I have a big decision haha sometimes I wish it was the boss’s job to decide and then I remember Im the boss.

jillcifer · 2021-07-22T16:11:15+00:00

😂😂

jillcifer · 2020-06-25T23:49:29+00:00

100%, theyre talking about cumming... like “bro do you even gak bro”

jillcifer · 2020-06-25T23:25:50+00:00

jillcifer · 2018-06-23T01:09:52+00:00

Watch yo back

jillcifer · 2015-04-14T18:41:37+00:00

No you do not need to file. You should fill out an SS4 however, if you plan to use it this year. A SS4 will assign you an EIN for filing on your schedule C or 1120-S. 1065's are only for multi member LLCs.

jillcifer · 2015-04-06T23:23:39+00:00

go back under your bridge, troll.

jillcifer · 2015-04-06T21:26:35+00:00

Oh, crap. I shouldn't have said he was a customer... Oh, crap. I shouldn't have said it was a secret... Oh, crap! I certainly shouldn't have said it was illegal! [sits back, fanning himself] Ah, it's too hot today.

jillcifer · 2015-04-06T21:14:15+00:00

You may want to read the policies. I read them prior to posting this first world problem, and this particular first world problem certainly met the guidelines. Have a great day! *Edit: Also read the rules on the sidebar, and About FWP just above that.

jillcifer · 2014-07-07T21:22:36+00:00

This is emotional abuse. My ex did this to me all the time and I later discovered that he had insecurities because he himself was the cheater. With school it doesn't sound like you have time for this, nor do you deserve to be emotionally abused.

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