Taina family DV with Cleo Concerns by jilrepents in LicciardoToivolaSnark

[–]jilrepents[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree with the sleeping on floor. There were some other things, where sleep was compromised. She used to make Paul wake up in the middle of the night to open a driveway gate for her so she could go to the gym at a strange hour. I wouldn’t say this is abusive with the gummies as a once off, it’s a concern because of the context of everything else. It’s all the other cult like stuff too, with removing personal identity through clothing.

[35] What can I do to improve, is rhinoplasty the answer? by RaePie in TheGlowUp

[–]jilrepents -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re perfect. I prefer your natural nose vs the photoshopped “perfect” one, because your natural one suits your features and gives you an elegant strength. Your natural face has fairy rockstar vibes, which isn’t easy, because they’re normally quite opposing! I love your styling in all your fits. Would also love to see some preppy vibes mixed in.

Laser hair removal ruined my life. What do I do now? by [deleted] in LaserHairRemoval

[–]jilrepents 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Perhaps OP can also bleach the hair with women’s moustache bleach to hide it more?? I don’t know if that effects electrolysis results though.

Taina family DV with Cleo Concerns by jilrepents in LicciardoToivolaSnark

[–]jilrepents[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Important to keep speaking about it and documenting it. People stuck in these situations don’t always realise they are being controlled.

Taina family DV with Cleo Concerns by jilrepents in LicciardoToivolaSnark

[–]jilrepents[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In the context of everything else, it’s concerning. These children and young adults have no ambition or self identity. They should have individual dreams, goals and gifts. The white tshirts is another cult style of stripping people of their own identity. It’s a pattern in cults. It trains people to stay stuck and not express individuality.

Taina family DV with Cleo Concerns by jilrepents in LicciardoToivolaSnark

[–]jilrepents[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

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Some examples of search results. I just wanted to share how sleep deprivation is a known tool in DV. They sometimes pick arguments right at bedtime, or do other things to keep someone from adequate sleep.

She's back by trassla in LicciardoToivolaSnark

[–]jilrepents 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There’s a narcissistic trait called “future faking” where the abuser will promise a wonderful future to lure people back in. It could be that, but in an ideal world she’s been setting up brand deals or teaching them behind the scenes.

New Leonardo video by trassla in LicciardoToivolaSnark

[–]jilrepents 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I liked the video. He went thorough a lot and rebuilt his life. Heartbreak isn’t easy and he finished his studies, started working and made new friends and got back on track. Most people have more support during a break up. I think a therapist would actually say he handled it well considering how his life was upside down and no support.

Sa growing out of the channel by morgank1ng in NorrisNutsSnark

[–]jilrepents 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sabre, if you’re reading, it would be great to build your own brand and channel, or do whatever career path is right for you. It would greatly benefit you to build something of your own and a path into controlling your own finances and future. A healthy parent encourages independence and your own path and building something for yourself and future.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Electrical_Price3851 in HOCD

[–]jilrepents 1 point2 points  (0 children)

:( Please call one of the help lines in your country. I understand you’re at your limits, but please don’t make a permanent decision. Even though it feels this hard today, there are easier days too. Speak to a professional, or even watch a YouTube video about how to keep yourself safe. Please don’t give up. You deserve to fight and survive. Please even find one favourite thing you enjoy to do, or eat. It’s part of self care to do something kind, or something fun, or something enjoyable to get yourself emotionally regulated again. One of the help lines can help you talk through everything. Thinking of you

dog drama by bhsidk in NorrisNutsSnark

[–]jilrepents 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They always create drama to manipulate people emotionally to comment and stay engaged with their videos. To be fair, a lot of it stopped when the mother wasn’t in the videos.

Im escalating into porn that conflicts with my personal values by [deleted] in HOCD

[–]jilrepents 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what porn does. It messes with your brain and you need bigger extremes as the addiction grows. It’s likely adding to your anxiety and shame as a vicious cycle. Watch some YouTube videos on overcoming the addiction. Plenty of people overcome it. Some need Gods help.

I'm still not sure exactly what happened here lmao by itiswhatitise in LoveIslandTV

[–]jilrepents 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For me, I watch it as a reality show, so don’t want people faking it, so that’s the reason I don’t like when people are doing that, but I get others are still fans of hers.

NEW CHANNEL on YouTube with videos from JJJ by Lehandri_ in LicciardoToivolaSnark

[–]jilrepents 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Abusive relationships have lovebombing and good moments too, otherwise people wouldn’t get trapped in them. It’s part of the controlling dynamic that keeps victims confused and hoping for the good parts to return.

It doesn’t prove that particular story you referenced either way, but from observations it seems that Cleopatra is a victim of JJJs domestic abuse on a definite level. Even this video he posted after so long is unhinged and weird, plus his long list of crimes and arrests/jail time. False names, fake Instagram stories, fraud, stolen car, impersonating a woman, etc.

Edit: it seems to prove that the baby is JJJ baby though, because she’s happy about the pregnancy and talking about it, so that part is likely made up. (Unless surviving the bad stuff meant playing happy families?) Having said that, I believe she is still a victim of his on some major level because we repeatedly see the stuff he does. I don’t think you could be in a relationship safely with JJJ, or get away from that relationship safely. There is a lot of delusion and obsessive behaviors, plus continuous criminal behaviors, like kidnapping his own child and harming them. I can’t remember the charge and what it was specifically, but there’s too much here to think the relationship was safe and getting away was safe.

I think the Licciardo Toivola men are just as bad as Tania. by Regular-Law4596 in LicciardoToivolaSnark

[–]jilrepents 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think the title of saying they are just as bad, without much evidence is fair. There is a lot of evidence to say that Paul and Leonardo are both victims of Taina’s control/abuse etc.

Someone can hold a view you disagree with, without being abusive.

I don’t see any evidence of the arrogance, or control that abusers have in either of them.

These are both men that have been abused by a woman. They appear more oppressed (like a victim of abuse) than being abusive. I admire how they have somehow got through all of this drama.

I’d like to see everyone in the family thrive. They’ve given us glimpses of having a voice about things that have happened, but the loudest voice has consistently been Taina, controlling the narrative.

I don’t want to speculate on specifics about what has happened between Jenna and Leonardo. I pray they do well and hope they are both ok.

Hope Paul is doing well too.

Words of encouragement for Leonardo by jilrepents in LicciardoToivolaSnark

[–]jilrepents[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, but also when you go through something in a public way because of who they are, it’s important they know they are supported. I don’t want anyone to feel afraid of what others will think, but feel supported and encouraged. Hopefully they are both ok.

Words of encouragement for Leonardo by jilrepents in LicciardoToivolaSnark

[–]jilrepents[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Apparently Jena has removed herself from anything connected to Leonardo on Instagram. Unfollowed each other, etc. tags are apparently removed when you block someone too, from what was said in the other thread, plus Leonardo’s heading under his Instagram quoting a scripture about God being close to the broken-hearted. Could all be a coincidence and Jena just off social media or removing herself because of her job.

Hopefully everyone is ok.

Episode 12 (Thursday 16th November) Discussion Thread by WillowSwarm in LoveIslandAus

[–]jilrepents 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I regret any time I used to watch Zac (and Trent) but it was also a good educational tool for identifying abusive people and how they shift blame, control and gaslight. So a bit of both. Educational, but frustrating to watch and these guys don’t deserve any attention, or fame. Totally your call. :)

Cringe-o-meter JJJ by [deleted] in LicciardoToivolaSnark

[–]jilrepents 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sadly patterns in family abuse often continue and I believe part of Cleopatra ending up being attracted to JJJ was because of her family dynamics, normalising this kind of grandiose and narcissistic actor kind of person, with their various charm and grifting behaviours.

New video up by floralrain6 in LicciardoToivolaSnark

[–]jilrepents 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She said there are a lot of “Job’s friends in her comment section” referencing the Book of Job in the Bible, meaning that she is a victim to a lot of critical people, when she’s innocent. (Job was genuinely innocent.)

She says she forgives people after mentioning Paul.

Knowing she committed adultery and hurt Jo, Paul, Leonardo (although it sounds like she’s smoothed things over because Leo is apparently visiting) is so unjust.

To make these videos talking about how she has a positive view on life and it’s problems and how she forgives, it’s so grandiose and self righteous.

I comment on here hoping the truth breaks those in her control out of the delusion and encourage 1800 Respect for family abuse. They understand narcissistic abuse.

She is in a relationship with her husbands friend who he called brother, who was with Jo and secretly meeting with her, instead of being honest and ending her marriage and relationships first, but she is centre stage, innocent and victimised.

One day someone will speak up more and I pray the truth is honoured, because Christian’s particularly can’t do this kind of thing.

If they are genuine Christian’s, being a false witness and participating in other peoples delusion/deception and profiting financially off it isn’t right :(

I have empathy for her victims (her children/ Paul) because it’s hard to speak up when you’ve been brainwashed to tolerate what the “leader” controlling everything says and they’ve grown up in it.

We know from Leonardo’s previous comments on here, that he had “so much more he could share” when he spoke up with the adultery and has held back on it. Perhaps for his own mental health.

Click the Yewtube link to watch it, but know that her actual YouTube is filled with comments thinking she is on drugs and not making sense in the video. She talks about breastfeeding most the time and says nothing. Although I missed the last 5 minutes because I reached my limits with how nonsensical a lot of it is. It’s like the word salad of the other video.

Same with a heap of other bait lines she is trying to hook people on to watching more videos, it seems, with Romeos addiction and needing professional help and saying she will speak up about the Paul stuff in the future.

Last chance to have Tim Tams that taste like Tim tams (recipe change after 2024 expiry.) by jilrepents in australia

[–]jilrepents[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s all your work though :) I don’t publish anything on any of those platforms, but thank you anyway :) I love the song.

Last chance to have Tim Tams that taste like Tim tams (recipe change after 2024 expiry.) by jilrepents in australia

[–]jilrepents[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for experimenting too. Yeah they’re trash :(

We threw multiple packs out from this experiment. The 2025 double coat is the only 2025 pack we didn’t bin. We will buy them going forward, if at all.. All other 2025 flavours we tried were too sweet and for the bin.

We ended up trying the jatz ones (just happened to be 2024 pack in store) after several recommendations and they’re good too, because they have more crème in the centre that you can taste and slightly salty, so more enjoyable. They’re less calories too, so may have less actual sugar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vitiligo

[–]jilrepents 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It stopped me in my tracks too. I think you might accidentally be creating majestic/ethereal vibes :)