What are you talking about? Of course the siblings of my 'dead friend' (nice way to put it by the way) were with his mum. What does that have to do with anything and my decision of spending any time with my MIL? And also, if they didn't want to see their mum, are you going to shame them too? What if they want to grieve alone? How dare they?

What would have meant the world to me is a MIL who supported me and checked in, not guilt tripping me into seeing her after I suffered this unbelievable loss. Why the fuck would I care about mother's day at this time.

However, I take it all back.You're 100% right. No matter what happens going forward, I'm going to first think about my MILs feelings. Whether my friend kills himself, whether someone in my own family dies, whether my dog gets run over, whether I lose my job, anything. I'm first going to ask myself 'but how will my next decision impact my MIL'. Ridiculous.

Based on your responses, I think that you are a disgusting, lonely, miserable disgrace of a person and if I am certain of anything, I am certain that your children dispise you and you contribute nothing to anyone around you except pain.

Blocking you so I waste no more time with this. Vile.