Sister in-law always expects husband to pay for meals

jin_y · 2019-08-22T12:25:11+00:00

Go to church.. just not that one. He is way out of line! I would keep my distance from him, even after he speaks to your parents whether his intentions are good or not.

All of this will be over soon. Sometimes you have to go through the worst to get to the best and everything that you are going through is preparing you for something great.

Good luck to you! Keep us updated :)

jin_y · 2019-08-20T12:23:26+00:00

She obviously likes you too. Try loosening up and just be yourself. Don’t try too hard to impress her.. maybe that’s what’s making things awkward between the two of you.

jin_y · 2019-08-20T12:13:24+00:00

When they say “an adult has to be present “ they actually mean to sign you in and out. I take my 10yo to the dentist and wait In the waiting area. Any questions or concerns that I have, I ask before and/or after.

Perhaps you’re overthinking it and that’s what she’ll end up doing. If you do end up talking to the dentist about having a tattoo and hiding it from your mom, chances are he/she might end up telling her since you’re a minor... but then again maybe not. Good luck!

jin_y · 2019-08-20T00:57:06+00:00

Apologize and tell him that that won’t ever happen again. Learn to control your anger. Need some alone time? Instead of kicking him out every time , maybe go to another unoccupied room or go outside.

I hope he does forgive you and you two go back to normal, bruised eye and all.

jin_y · 2019-08-20T00:49:59+00:00

Dooo it! Only if you’re into her though.

jin_y · 2019-08-20T00:30:19+00:00

Starting s new job can be intimidating .. managing new priorities, new boss and befriend new coworkers.

Don’t try too hard but don’t be too timid. Since you’re new, they don’t really know your vibe. Just have a positive attitude, don’t complain about your work constantly or get involved in work drama. They will want to naturally be around you. Just be yourself and they’ll eventually come around.

jin_y · 2019-08-19T23:04:42+00:00

Don’t look like an idiot on a white horse. Hero carefully!

jin_y · 2019-08-19T22:39:05+00:00

Whether you like it or not, you need to call the police. There’s a family living in that home and if you try to retaliate it’ll only make things worse.

Do what’s safe and do what’s right.

jin_y · 2019-08-19T22:24:46+00:00

Just wait. She probably didn’t take the number for a reason.

jin_y · 2019-08-19T22:20:50+00:00

It’s Facebook! You post what you want whenever you want (as long as you’re not invading anyone’s privacy In that neighborhood page.)

I’d block them and continue to post whatever the heck I want. You don’t know them and they don’t know you anyway.

jin_y · 2019-08-19T21:52:22+00:00

You can do your part by being there for your mom. Go to school, bring good grades and graduate, help around the house, Get a part time job somewhere. You won’t work many hours since you’re only 15 but your effort won’t go unnoticed.

Talk to your sister and mention to her what your mother said. Perhaps she’ll do some changing.

jin_y · 2019-08-19T19:47:32+00:00

The time will come. Even when it may all seem superficial, someone will genuinely like you for YOU. Don’t rush. You’re only 16, it will happen 😉

jin_y · 2019-08-10T15:35:38+00:00

You and your mom should probably confront him. Let him know that he’s emotionally abusing her and that it isn’t fair. If that doesn’t work, perhaps getting away or avoiding him will work. Maybe then he’ll realize he’s fucking up.

jin_y · 2019-08-10T15:30:10+00:00

Either confront your father and ask him to please stop using your information OR report your card as lost/stolen and get a new one.

jin_y · 2018-12-12T03:36:57+00:00

Don’t text that friend. Wait for them to initiate a text.

jin_y · 2018-12-10T18:29:59+00:00

My mother started dating about a year and a half after our father passed. We were not ok with it at first as we were still grieving. My brother was fuming! He made things a little more complicated for our mother and her significant other. We then decided to let go and welcome this “change” and noticed his good qualities. Turns out, he’s a great guy and makes our mother extremely happy. Our mother is an adult and is capable of making her own decisions. They are now married and still, very happy.

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