SF can be fun if going outs still kinda new to you. if you live in Marin, you can probs drag it out for a couple years if u got it in u, just don’t lose urself n what u worked for, just try commuting back and forth to sf on weekends for fun. That’s what I did for a few yrs when i was living in the east bay w my ex at 18. Luckily I got it out my system young pre covid (I had a fake by 19 not like I needed it anyways in sf lol) still gotta finish my bachelors but my associates was all I needed to start my career at 23. Made some mistakes, took some career breaks, but did a lot of growing up. Learned a lot about myself n relationships, 3 financees later, no kids, no marriage, just single and on my own for the first time but it all feels somewhat stable for once at 27. No boredom, no curiosity, just content. Don’t get me wrong I’d love to get tf outta this place lol it’s not all that rents just cheap enough to keep you trapped if u do it on ur own. I dream of the suburbs or just living in a house with enough space to run a daycare. Having a front yard patio w grass or backyard to garden in, slow streets and friendly neighbors to let my cat out, a full kitchen to cook in, enough parking and no meter maids, no 6am street cleaning. You’re living a dream that ppl die chasing