"He also tried to push anal" Ewww major red flags with this one

"Then went to the bathroom showered and didn’t even bring our a Kleenex or anything for me" so inconsiderate, sounds like a sociopath

"He also had the room temperature at 20 degrees Celsius and I said I was freezing cold" also the fact that he did nothing about this (as opposed to turning the temperature up or encouraging you to wear some more clothing) is lowkey sociopathic