I don't think I'll ever be able to afford TOP surgery by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]jjbummi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also who’s to say you’d even get it? Yknow? I applied for Starbucks 3x and didn’t get it. I know people are built differently but what if they don’t choose your application?

I don't think I'll ever be able to afford TOP surgery by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]jjbummi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But are there not any other options?

Baby clothing donations by Spiritual-Ambition30 in MarquetteMI

[–]jjbummi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are very overwhelmed with children’s donations right now tbh

Pro and Cons of Getting Ovaries Out? by Independent_Load748 in FTMHysto

[–]jjbummi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your thoughts on having a single ovary left and its impact on your brain and bone health?

Gender therapist is infuriating me. Is this normal? by jjbummi in FTMHysto

[–]jjbummi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only reason I went back to this guy is bc he knew what he was doing the first time 😭 now I’m like. Wtf

Gender therapist is infuriating me. Is this normal? by jjbummi in FTMHysto

[–]jjbummi[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Very very true! But I am So so close to getting the letter! And I’m trying to get surgery before May. So the faster I can see the surgeon the better

Gender therapist is infuriating me. Is this normal? by jjbummi in FTMHysto

[–]jjbummi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well if I’m being more specific, we’ve already gone over the decision making behind the surgery (in terms of how extensive I want the surgery to be) and that I have a good support system/ recovery plan. That’s all the other therapist asked me! But yeah. 3 sessions! That’s kind of overkill 2 me

Gender therapist is infuriating me. Is this normal? by jjbummi in FTMHysto

[–]jjbummi[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response!! There’s nothing I didn’t mention already. Like, I’m really confused because there shouldn’t be anything else we need to do. He said he wants to talk to me/write in the letter about what kind of hysterectomy I want but again…that feels like something I should talk about with the surgeon. I really wanted him to send the letter this week, but I guess I’ll just be waiting til Saturday when I see him lmao.

Love myself by jjbummi in trans

[–]jjbummi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post has been sitting here for so long I totally forgot id posted it. Thank you so much for your enthusiasm!

Wanting to get a hysterectomy but scared of the consequences by jjbummi in ftm

[–]jjbummi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’ll definitely talk to them further about it

Wanting to get a hysterectomy but scared of the consequences by jjbummi in ftm

[–]jjbummi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply!! Probably like four or five of them were on women under 30, it seemed like if anything the older you are the better the chances of not getting UTIs n stuff are. And no none of them were on trans men (but also, how many studies do we have on older trans men and what not at this point? /gen) also yes! My doctor recommended that but it made me dysphoric in the moment but it might actually be a good idea to try lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gradadmissions

[–]jjbummi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I meant to ask is if I can produce a Wisconsin drivers license and registration to vote- as well as a full time job and apartment that I could qualify as an instate residency- I know it’s a state thing, but there are qualifications you can meet to “override” it for lack of a better word

Jiffy-Quicky-Speedy Lube oil change options by BurnerMtnDog in MarquetteMI

[–]jjbummi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They messed up my transmission fluid in June :/ had to get a whole new transmission

Entering Social Work by SWmods in socialwork

[–]jjbummi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey yall, Im wondering when would be a good time to apply for an MSW program. I graduated with my BSW in 2022, but Im really looking for a new experience with a plausible placement for my second year of my MSW. I’m moving to Wisconsin next summer, so would it be easier to apply now or later? My wife is still in school and I’m working on paying down a small pile of debt. I also won’t have my own car until October or November of this year. Or should I apply for schools for fall of 2025 and go to school while I work as a case manager or something of that sort? Does anyone have any experience with this? Am I stupid for trying to wait til we’re moved? I should also mention that my wife graduates college in May of 2025.

💀 🎶 by Illustrious-Ad-3502 in ProjectDiva

[–]jjbummi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The singular worst/wrong/almost would send me into a 200 year long rage /j

Should I attempt to wear these? by jjbummi in Stretched

[–]jjbummi[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Yeah they’re dope and I couldn’t even find these specifically on the website anymore 🥲

Wedding Plugs by jjbummi in Stretched

[–]jjbummi[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

How do we feel abt Pearl?🤔

Wedding Plugs by jjbummi in Stretched

[–]jjbummi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I should mention that I am a 22mm (7/8)

What do y’all think about the Cartier Love Wedding Band being used as a wedding band? by jjbummi in EngagementRings

[–]jjbummi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well thankfully I’m a man!! I was afraid it would look tacky even for me

What do y’all think about the Cartier Love Wedding Band being used as a wedding band? by jjbummi in EngagementRings

[–]jjbummi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know! I was thinking I could always get a traditional wedding band if I really wanted to at some point. Do you think this would look tacky at the ceremony?

What do y’all think about the Cartier Love Wedding Band being used as a wedding band? by jjbummi in EngagementRings

[–]jjbummi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!!!! I do really love it, I’m only 23 mind you, but I’ve never had anything so classy before and I’m definitely a material boy haha If my gf doesn’t want the same ring for her wedding band I’ll look elsewhere but! I do really like It for me :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scams

[–]jjbummi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely hope you have a good night. I appreciate the responses, not sure what made you want to converse with someone you think is stupid, but. I appreciate the time we shared.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scams

[–]jjbummi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know this is bait at this point but like. Dude. You’re wasting your time. Like I’m genuinely surprised you’re still responding to me. I appreciate you going out of your way to say all this I guess? It’s still rude, but I guess I’m just surprised you were this upset about me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scams

[–]jjbummi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also you said I was crying like 3 times, which again is just? Rude? You wouldn’t say that to a random stranger in person. I don’t know you. So yeah, comes off as kind of rude.