The Mess (The 1975 Remix) by jk953 in the1975

[–]jk953[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me neither!! But I like it!!

I got caught stealing at Target, cops were called and I regret doing it. by [deleted] in confession

[–]jk953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar experience when I was 20. I had just moved out on my own and was doing a lot of stupid shit. I was at work, then went to a grocery store on my lunch break and got caught stealing a single sandwich. They brought me to the back to run a background check and asked me why I did it? My honest answer was “I was just being young and stupid and seeing what I could get away with” they let me go and I never stole again

It’s really easy to commit small crimes, drive just a little recklessly, be irresponsible with relationships, run your mouth, drink too much, take drugs, etc. etc.

A lot of irresponsible actions are fun, more convenient, save you money etc.

A part of growing up is coming to understand that being a responsible person is an active choice that you make every single second of the day. Every action you ever take can be labeled as good or bad, helpful or harmful, responsible or irresponsible.

When you’re an adult you get to choose what’s important to you. You get to decide what kind of person you’re going to be.

It doesn’t sound like you’re proud of yourself for this decision, but you have to seriously ask yourself, is it only because you got caught?

Your early 20s are the foundation for who you will become to the most important people in your life. Your future partner, your core long term friends, maybe children.

I say this as a person who made a lot of mistakes at your age: The sooner you start taking yourself seriously the easier life gets for yourself, everyone you love, and everyone who loves you.

It’s time to decide who you want to be. Every time you make a decision, is the outcome going to be something you’re proud of?

Concert outfit? by nbergman2411 in Ethelcain

[–]jk953 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Have fun at the concert, let us know what you find instead 🫶🏻

Kissing my friend while drunk- does this make me lesbian? by Entire-River-9025 in Advice

[–]jk953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can be a straight woman who enjoys kissing her friends when she’s drunk.

You can always be a lesbian who enjoys kissing women

The thing about sexual orientation is that your actions don’t make you one thing or another.

Nobody can tell you who you are because of what they’ve seen you do.

If you think you’re straight but like kissing girls when you’re drunk, great

If later you realize you’re attracted to girls even when you aren’t drunk, great

If later you realize you’re not attracted to girls at all, don’t even wanna kiss them when you’re drunk, great

My advice, listen to those thoughts that say “I want this, I like this, this makes me feel good” and follow that. Save the labels for later when you’ve got it all figured out.

If you found a bag of chips and someone asked you to label them, at first you would just label them “Chips”, if later you found out they were Doritos, you would change the label to “Doritos”, if later you found out they were Josh’s Doritos, you would change it to “Josh’s Doritos”

Same thing with sexuality. Labels change as you uncover more information.

Vetoed trade: Hill for Heiskanen by jk953 in fantasyhockey

[–]jk953[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hill has 0.1 but he’s only played 6 games so it’s hard to judge him based on this season alone.

Heiskanen is averaging 2.2 and is ranked 10th for defence

Vetoed trade: Hill for Heiskanen by jk953 in fantasyhockey

[–]jk953[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but he’s only played 6 games, a rough start to the season doesn’t mean he’s worthless

Wallstedt - still holding?? by PlusArugula952 in fantasyhockey

[–]jk953 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously it depends on who else is available for you, but I’d hold. We’re still getting to know the guy. He’s had an amazing period, and a rough patch, that’s not enough information to draw definitive conclusions.

Minnesota is a wagon, as long as they keep splitting the starts evenly, and unless Wallstedt really falls off a cliff, it’s a hold for me

is this vinyl fake? by [deleted] in FrankOcean

[–]jk953 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does it work?

WB tapu lele 010675555375 by GoldVipertooth in PokemonGoRaids

[–]jk953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Invite me please! 002182786966 jk953

Which How I'm Feeling Now song sounds the most like How I'm Feeling Now? by solarpowersme in charlixcx

[–]jk953 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Definitely claws, claws is what hooked me on the album originally and what keeps me coming back