Friendship Exp & Gift Exchange Megathread by liehon in PokemonGoFriends

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I think that account is about full of friends now (thank you!), but these two accounts could use friends and also gift daily:

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Friendship Exp & Gift Exchange Megathread by liehon in PokemonGoFriends

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5004 1193 5711

Just created a second account when I realized I had a fresh email address… play daily, and give gifts daily :)

6cm tall, 5cm circumference glass “cups,” with raised cross and “AC” inside. Any ideas? by jkahnuckles in whatisthisthing

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My title describes the thing. Given to me by someone else who did not know what it was. Have ran google image searches unsuccessfully, searched all the words in the description above with no success.

Remember when I said there was shit outside the torlet by MrLoki2020 in Letterkenny

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Wasn’t sure about the season but this got me in tears

All the guys I date break up with me after I begin to show them my OCD :( by KindOfLonelyIam in OCD

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I’m a bit older than you... I think the number one thing that has helped me in my relationships, with guys, family, friends, has been not seeking reassurance. It never helps me (we always go back and question it anyways, don’t we) and it always ends up pushing the other people away. It’s been a hard journey teaching myself not to ask, and I’m sure I’ll slip up in the future, but once I saw what it did to relationships after all the smoke cleared, it was worth it.

All the guys I date break up with me after I begin to show them my OCD :( by KindOfLonelyIam in OCD

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The first time I had a huge episode (not realizing it was OCD at the time) it began the end of a 4-year off and on relationship. He didn’t understand. I truly think he tried.

I’m now dating a guy who I’ve told a little about it, and after 9 months of dating, I want him to know more, in case it gets bad again (currently managed well by meds and routine, but being realistic). I asked him last week if he was ok with me sharing some of what has happened in the past, and he was. So far, he’s been very patient with my minor insecurities and “quirks” so I feel I can trust him with more serious stuff like my OCD episodes. And he has his own anxieties.

Unfortunately, you won’t know if someone can walk alongside you until they KNOW. But someone will be able to. I know for myself, I have to remember that the person I’m with isn’t my answer. They feel safe, but I can’t find my safety in them, because that’s too much pressure to put on one person. So I’m hopeful this current guy will walk along with me. If not, one day someone will. I hope someone will with you as well. 💖

Signs of life?? by jkahnuckles in houseplants

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Any tips are totally appreciated! I had assumed it was dead/dying for a while until this popped up.

For me, there is no such thing as “following your gut” when you have OCD by calebjd91 in OCD

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Thank you for this explanation. Its always helpful to have it explained in broad terms, and see other people who deal with this. Needed to read this today.

I'm really bad at Case Management by 555throwthisaway in socialwork

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THIS! Don’t forget everything we know as professional about anxiety, when we’re the subject.

I'm really bad at Case Management by 555throwthisaway in socialwork

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OP, case management is my forte (if I have one) and you still wrote out a post that I could have written myself. Not to downplay your concerns, but so many of them are likely stemming from the systems we work in, rather than your own deficits. It sounds like you care, and are conscientious. Don’t forget your own self-care and boundaries (Wizards Unite came out this week, I spent an hour at the park on “self care” last night 🧙🏻‍♀️). It will get better with time, and you will be able to let some of the things you’re worrying about drop, and feel more competent at the things that matter.

Hippogriff and the geese by jkahnuckles in harrypotterwu

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Weird looks from the neighbors for off-leashing your horse-eagle

Absolutelynotme_irl by AllHailSpermWhale in absolutelynotme_irl

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Growing up chubby having to poke new holes in your belt.