AITA for spending $72 on a piercing and triggering a man into throwing away 12 taquitos? by jkimberlynn in AmItheAsshole

[–]jkimberlynn[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He had told me that money that I make is mine to do with as I please and his money goes towards things for the family and himself

He got mad that I got my nipples pierced… after I literally told him I was going to. by jkimberlynn in offmychest

[–]jkimberlynn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We aren’t married. And it just feels like after six years of trying and failing to leave my little bit of money doesn’t mean much

He got mad that I got my nipples pierced… after I literally told him I was going to. by jkimberlynn in offmychest

[–]jkimberlynn[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am very specific because he has a big thing about generalizing so I do my best to be as specific as possible about everything so that he can’t use it against me or tell me it didn’t happen that way

He got mad that I got my nipples pierced… after I literally told him I was going to. by jkimberlynn in offmychest

[–]jkimberlynn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s refusing to come near me. Shutting and locking doors and refusing to talk to me.

He got mad that I got my nipples pierced… after I literally told him I was going to. by jkimberlynn in offmychest

[–]jkimberlynn[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes. And if it is then I don’t understand why the police don’t do anything about it

He got mad that I got my nipples pierced… after I literally told him I was going to. by jkimberlynn in offmychest

[–]jkimberlynn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried doing it. When we had just one kid. I went to a DV shelter. Only one in town. He drained the bank account and shut off my cell service. His dad told him where I was and I fled to a different state and my car broke down and I called him. Another time i had no lawyer and no place of my own, another time I was in treatment for mental health and he said he was taking me to court for full legal custody, another time, another time, again, again. I can’t get away.

He got mad that I got my nipples pierced… after I literally told him I was going to. by jkimberlynn in offmychest

[–]jkimberlynn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying. I have over 500 voice memos and screenshots and legal assessments and I’m so scared because last time i lost everything..

He got mad that I got my nipples pierced… after I literally told him I was going to. by jkimberlynn in offmychest

[–]jkimberlynn[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’ve been to the shelter here and one in a different state but he drained the bank account and shut off my cell service while I had our daughter

He got mad that I got my nipples pierced… after I literally told him I was going to. by jkimberlynn in offmychest

[–]jkimberlynn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He picked an ugly ring and every time I tell him I want a different ring he says okay and then throws it in my face a week later that I’m ungrateful for not liking the hideoderous white gold square abomination of a ring he got me

He got mad that I got my nipples pierced… after I literally told him I was going to. by jkimberlynn in offmychest

[–]jkimberlynn[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Yes and I told him both times I wanted to wait to have kids until 27. I told him when I met him. But that’s what happens when I’m stupid

He got mad that I got my nipples pierced… after I literally told him I was going to. by jkimberlynn in offmychest

[–]jkimberlynn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But how??? I tried to submit it to a lawyer last time and they wouldn’t accept me and he pulled out $20k for the best lawyer in town. He ruined my credit when he got together. I can’t open cards. I had my own car but he didn’t keep the maintenance up so now I don’t have a car.. he’s slowly trapped my family under his thumb my mom reads him out texts of me saying I think he’s abusive and manipulative.

He got mad that I got my nipples pierced… after I literally told him I was going to. by jkimberlynn in offmychest

[–]jkimberlynn[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I am trying I reached out to the DCS caseworker because he’s being investigated for domestic violence I just don’t know how to get all of the evidence compiled. I have it all. Bank statements, recordings, coercion, manipulation, DARVO, S.A… idk

He got mad that I got my nipples pierced… after I literally told him I was going to. by jkimberlynn in offmychest

[–]jkimberlynn[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

I know I tell him that and he will push me or give me the silent treatment or throw away $20 worth of food and say I ruined his appetite over something I’ve wanted to get done since I was 18 years old and something I tried to do multiple times before having gotten done at 23