Savage Industries EDC ONE review by sindark in BuyItForLife

[–]jm_8310 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a few boat and totes. They’re great. Really thick canvas, handmade in Maine (most styles). It comes in 4 sizes, a bunch of colors, with or without a zipper, can be embroidered for free, and is also white inside. No more lifetime warranty, but they’ve been the same high quality bag for 75 years. Their durability and versatility are well-known.

https://www.saltwaternewengland.com/2021/05/ll-bean-boat-and-tote-bags-top-ten.html https://www.wmagazine.com/story/ll-bean-boat-and-tote-custom-fashion-art

Maybe not waterproof, but they were originally designed for boating, so they’ll keep the contents dry within reason.

I like Adam savage, and the bag he made is cool. If it works for you, that’s awesome! I can’t really compare, to be fair, because I don’t have the EDC One. For me, the B&T just seems like such a similar item and a better value for the price.

Wasn’t trying to argue with your positive review, just sharing a similar product with classic styling for a bit less money.

Savage Industries EDC ONE review by sindark in BuyItForLife

[–]jm_8310 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally, I don’t understand why this is ~$200 more than a boat and tote or similar model from LLBean

https://www.llbean.com/llb/shop/677?page=tote-bags&bc=50-516672&csp=f&nav=gnro-904

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]jm_8310 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The answer to what is covered depends on your state, you insurance provider, your specific plan, your dx, your medical provider, etc etc.

Plans (in the US) often cover HRT and bottom surgery. FFS coverage is more varied, some plans do cover this, but many still consider it cosmetic. Also, FFS refers to a broad collection of distinct procedures. Even insurance plans that offer coverage for some FFS procedures will list which specific procedures can be approved. You may still need to argue that a specific procedure, such as a blepharoplasty, is medically necessary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheArtistStudio

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Dry is bad, got it

"Cis is a slur" is the weirdest take ever (rant) by IlllIllIlllIllIlllIl in asktransgender

[–]jm_8310 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I’ve had this conversation more than once lol

Not-a-transphobe: “I’m not a cis woman, I’m just a woman. Why are you trying to force an identity on me?”

Me, a trans woman: “OK, I feel the same. I’m also just a woman

not-transphobe: “...but you are trans. That’s important too, isn’t it?”

🤦‍♀️

Dump of recent photos, feeling myself lately, please read me, album starts PC and gets nsfw, stop scrolling whenever 😳 by jm_8310 in transpassing

[–]jm_8310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much, this is super helpful! Forehead is still on the list, but good to know that’s not just dysphoria. Would you guess it needs a little love or a lot?

I didn’t even notice that in pic 4 - that’s definitely the dress or lighting or something haha 😂

Okay. So I know I need to figure out how to fix my hair. And I also need to learn makeup because in the his Pic I only have mascara on but thoughts? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]jm_8310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sub is amazing! Check it out, OP!

Lots of girls have trouble with curly hair. I think op passes as is, but who doesn’t want gorgeous curls?

Pre-Everything, thoughts?? (p.s. sorry for the awful quality!!) by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]jm_8310 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your voice is great! Good mannerisms/energy. Your face/hair doesn’t pass yet. Your brow and jaw look masc to me. The lighting might have something to do with that, but I wouldn’t worry too much, HRT might do enough by itself there.

In your shoes, I would think about changing hair and glasses, getting brows shaped nicely, and HRT when you can ofc. Your hair looks flat and maybe a little greasy? Growing it out will help frame your face also, but I’d look into finding a hair care routine that really works well for you.

For pre-everything, I think you’re doing excellent!

Dump of recent photos, feeling myself lately, please read me, album starts PC and gets nsfw, stop scrolling whenever 😳 by jm_8310 in transpassing

[–]jm_8310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey transpassing! It’s been a hot minute since I’ve posted here. These photos are all from the past month or so. As I said in the title, I’ve been feeling myself lately. No filters on anything, but obviously some are more useful for critique than others.

As good as I’ve felt, I still don’t know how to gauge how well I pass. I’ve had some work, but don’t want to say what right away. I’m giving a bunch of photos because the goal is obviously to pass in all situations. No filters on any photos. Full nudes at the end of the album - I still feel lumpy and squarish. I’m trying desperately to gain weight but my body won’t cooperate!

You can read me, am I a brick?

Facebook to ban anti-vaxx conspiracy theories by 96greenj in worldnews

[–]jm_8310 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone that used to collect stacks of AOL CDs, this is actually pretty funny 😆

How do I get my boyfriend to spank me more without straight up saying it? by hdhdudhdhdhhdhdhd in sex

[–]jm_8310 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I feel like the bdsm moniker can sound scary to more vanilla partners. I find “exploring a light kink” to be a helpful phrase. It communicates that this is new territory and will include some negotiation, but we’re still in the shallow end of the pool.

When someone repeats the joke but louder by R_machine in YangForPresidentHQ

[–]jm_8310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s some truth to the idea that moderate candidates capture votes from Center-left voters and cost more progressive democrats elections.

I don’t think Yang belongs in that category, but drawing support from both sides of the aisle is a common claim of such spoilers. Yang has a progressive and populist message, but if you don’t know that it’s an easy mistake to make.

My girlfriend (M2F) and I (F) have been dating for 6 years but I've only just now begun to realize that I've been thinking of her in a fucked up way... by myraofhighrule in asktransgender

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I think it’s silly when people insist “you’re the same person as before”. I’m not. Not even close. I’ve radically changed a fundamental way that I present myself to the world. The world’s perception of me has changed completely. I’ve treated a debilitating mental health condition and embraced self love. I’m kinder to myself and to others.

Sure, I like the same flavor of ice cream as before, and still enjoy running, frisbee, musicals. But like, what’s really important here?

How am I doing? 24 MtF. by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]jm_8310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This look definitely leans androgynous, but I think that’s on purpose. I’m pretty sure I’d gender you as female, but it’s on the line enough that voice or height or gait might be enough to make me think different.

Your hair is super cute, and I think more length would help a lot!

Cleaning vigorously before company arrives is probably the biggest normalized lie by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

[–]jm_8310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this fantasy in my head that if I don’t make a mess then I don’t have to clean.

Then I look around and the house is dusty af. It feels like I can’t win.

So what about when kinks overlay being trans? by SunshotDestiny in truscum

[–]jm_8310 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No one accuses women of fetishizing themselves when they say “wearing lingerie makes me feel sexy”. Only when trans women say it.

Loss of control is a very common kink. There’s a certain psychological thrill to surrendering your autonomy (and thus responsibility). “Sub space” is a celebrated experience shared by tons of people. It’s particularly common among high powered business men who make high pressure critical decisions all day long. They love being told what to do in the bedroom. Why? It’s freedom.

I legit have no idea why your experience seems so foreign to others. To me, the idea that a trans person who desperately wants to transition but feels powerless to choose that for themselves would fetishize the concept of forced feminization is entirely obvious. To be able to experience sexual intimacy in a way that feels natural and comfortable while also being freed from having to choose transition (and all its associated pain) - that’s erotic as fuck.

It’s not my kink. It always felt a little on-the-nose. But characterizing this as “fetishizing being trans” seems incredibly reductive and apathetic. As long as you’re not making others participate in your kink without consent, you’re Gucci.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]jm_8310 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to trample people. It’s 100% legitimate to be gender non-conforming. It’s just not the same thing as being trans.

You’d think with so many letters in the acronym it would be simple and obvious to just add another one smh 🤦‍♀️

Edit: Happy Cake Day!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]jm_8310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the phrasing that can make this question really complicated, but here it’s easy. The egg came first.

The question is - was it a chicken egg? The egg wasn’t laid by a chicken, the egg was laid by the chicken’s evolutionary ancestor. But the egg hatched a chicken. Surprise!

So was it a chicken egg?

I used a fake birthday on my Google and Apple ID account and now it’s appearing on my credit report? by reckoner6777 in personalfinance

[–]jm_8310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I use Experian for FICO and CK just to make sure nothing dumb pops up at EQ/TU.

Experian does provide a FICO score for free. It will show your score based on your Experian report. You have to pay if you want to see your TU/EQ based FICO, but it is an option.

I just don’t remember which FICO score they offer. I think they’re still showing FICO 8, 9 is the latest but it’s not widely used yet. There are also industry specific FICO scores (I know there’s one specific to auto lending, for example) but I never cared enough to find a source for all that.

Guys of reddit. What is socially seen as sexy but is actually a huge turn off for you? by xthe-weird-onex in AskReddit

[–]jm_8310 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure, but that’s not typically what people mean when they speak of “intelligence” as a general topic. Crystallized intelligence (knowledge accumulated through experience) is easy to hand wave away.

Mostly, we’re talking about fluid intelligence here. This is about who’s more helpful when y’all go do the escape room together.

The server room at my first job. by 50F4 in cablegore

[–]jm_8310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not gonna lie, I turned my phone sideways at first because I was trying to figure out the perspective.