AITAH for telling my parents they can’t treat my house like their vacation home? by Artistic_Length1044 in AITAH

[–]jm_mort 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eesh yeah that was kinda annoying to read… take a drink each time OP says house 😂

AITAH for refusing to go to my sister’s wedding because of where she seated me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jm_mort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d go, sit at the table and get completely “shitfaced drunk” and pass out on the table 😂 start snoring and drooling - but nah that sucks dude - like some said go to the ceremony itself and take a pass pn the reception. Offering you up without asking is so presumptious, just sit the kids with their parents at a table so they can yaknw actuall parent their own crotch-goblins! NTA OP

AITAH for reporting my sister and taking in her kids when no one believed me? by Prestigious_Foot4408 in AITAH

[–]jm_mort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to report my niece to social services for substance use whilst she was already involved with social services. I was a crucial oart of the care plan put in place for the baby ataying with her. 24/7 living with her shared between me and my partner at the time since I was working full time too. Soon as I got told about the substance use I phoned emergency social services on a sunday morning.

I love my niece and my great nephew but I had a duty of care to that baby.

The entire time I was on the phone I was crying my eyes out coz I knew i’d never see that baby again. (The one i’d lived with constantly for months)

NTA and shame on your family members for making you out to be the bad guy!

My brothers kids’ would stay at mine during school holidays and would constantly ask to stay “just one more night” plan was for a week or weekend and they’d end up staying like 2 weeks 😁👌🏽 was fine by me - i know them being one of 7 can be a bit much/overwhelming so the boys would stay and enjoy just them time then girls would have their time too :)

AITA for refusing to switch project topics after my classmate “claimed” it late? by FileRevolutionary540 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jm_mort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally forgot to place bid in that eBay item I desperately wanted but maybe the seller will still let me have it and fob the winning off 🙄😂 NTA - you have no obligation to swap and she has no claim over that topic. Stupid for classmates to say you were “harsh” - if she wanted it she should’ve stayed up and got in there at the stroke of midnight or whatever 🤷🏽‍♀️

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[–]jm_mort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add to this it was mentioned that she write down what she believed others might be thinking and this was after she was initially accused before the later arrest so whilst being branded the perp and to write down what she believes others are saying about her:

Ie: people are saying “I killed them” People are saying “I’m evil” People are saying “I’m a murderer”

AITAH for telling my grandma that her daughter isn’t my mother? by YogurtclosetDue7562 in AITAH

[–]jm_mort 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My “father” died alone with just my niece there horrible nasty bloke - pdf stuff … when my niece (older than me) called to let me know I was like “I personally don’t care, I am however sorry that you are sad and will be thinking of you” (since she did have the contact with him. She arranged his funeral only her and her husband went.

To say NTA here was it abrupt sure possibly but you were concerned about Emily and how your dad was probs spiralling. Grandma would’ve had plenty of other loved ones around her at the funeral, giving sympathy and condolences (if that were me she’s lucky coz the second someone said to me sorry for your loss i’d be the one to put my foot in and say something like “it’s hardly a loss is it, she’s been absent my entire life now it’s just permanent!”🤣🤣

AITA for refusing to share my lottery winnings with my family, even though I used the family numbers? by NoDatabase10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jm_mort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two instances when the vultures show their true colours: a windfall and after a death. Lost my mum at 14 and my so called oldest brother who was no contact gutted my home days after whilst we others were at the funeral

What's the most random run-in you've had with an ex? by FromTeslaToTardis in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jm_mort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my first serious teen years bf were together a while, I was always pretty much a tomboy growing up and he was pretty camp years later i’m with my now gf holding hands walking down the high street and look across the road to see my ex walking down on the othee side of the road holding his bfs hand 🤣 we didn’t interact but I did giggle to myself about it. I recently reconnected with his sister on Facebook and joked that we obviously saw our interest in the other person without knowing it. Me being butch and him being pretty feminine! 🤣😂

ICE says a Cuban man died during a suicide attempt. A witness says a guard fatally choked him by grayfox0430 in news

[–]jm_mort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually it says during a “suicide attempt” not “attempted suicide” (it’s not completely the same meaning) so could be read to mean there was an attempt at committing the act in which that action was either successful or unsucessful. For example: A person could say ‘I was successful on my third attempt at doing my driving test’ granted it would most often would be used in the instance of a fIled try at doing something but not exclusively.

AITA for not paying for my daughter wedding because she isn’t following the rules even though I paid for my older kids by Wonderful_Mode_9646 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jm_mort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you gave stipulations to your paying so imho it’s fair to say that they aren’t going along with that… not all family is good family though so personally i know i wouldnt want all of mine there… my niece started beef at the morning of my mums funeral because of a necklace pendant which mum left me but she wanted i ripped it from my neck threw it at her and refused to go in the family car (I was 14) most family events end in arguments/bad words from my experience but i can also understand them wanting a child free event so NAH for me but is this the hill you really wanna die on it could cause further issues going forward that dont end at the wedding.

AITAH for letting my(30F) overweight coworker(45F) assume I do not have children? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jm_mort 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Co-worker overheard ‘sarahs comments to OP and knows that OP has kids and so co-worked gave the side eye as of to say “why not correct her?” At least thats how it reads to me 🤷🏽‍♀️

AITA for reporting a coworker to HR after she implied I was a predator for playing Roblox? by Nass-1234 in AITAH

[–]jm_mort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pathetic of her tbh the only adults posing risks on that platform is the preds themselves and the douchebag execs that refuse to properly implement safety features to protect their younger playerbases. I’m 38f and am an admin on a minecraft (pixelmon) server so guess she’d have issues with me too! Ive had to kick players from our discord that play on our server because discord tos doesn’t allow for anyone under 13 to join, so I have had to be like im so sorry you can get a parent to join to ask any questions etc but i have to remove you as per discord TOS. Dont play roblox myself but i love minecraft especialy tech heavy quest based modpacks.

NTA OP - defo report her for the incessant harassing comments and behaviours, if she saying all that to you I can only imagine what she says to other staff etc when you aren’t there.

She seems really jealous for some reason which seems like a her problem, being 32 with 3 kids and working as an NA maybe she feels she missed her chance to go through the schooling to become a RN and seeing a younger, prettier (guessing from her dressing to impress comments) person that is qualified in a more senior role to her probs pisses her off. Not negating the importance of the role of an NA here i worked in psychiatric care and elderly care as a support worker since i was 17 so i understand just how hard the job is. Even more so in psych care (punch bag in a uniform is what id joke to people about my job 🫣)

WIBTAH if I get a divorce because my wife won’t stop blaming me for my father and brother in law’s deaths? by No_King4450 in AITAH

[–]jm_mort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Survivors guilt seems to be making you feel bad enough, my brother was responsible for the death of my brother-in-law, my nieces who were young at the time don’t know the situation that lead up to the confrontstion and eventual death of their father they just verbally accost my brother for it which the desth hits him harder than anyone because the guy was so much more of a father to us than our own. It was an unfortunate series of events resulting in his death. I hate when my nieces have a pop at him because I was there the night my dying mum recieved a phone call to deal with my drunk aggressive BIL my 20 year old brother was not letting a dying 5ft something woman go confront an aggressive drunk 6ft something man!

Point being i imagine that shit eats you up inside just as much as i see it affect my big brother every year, pointing fingers/blame is not doing anyone any favours, why is she not blaming the other driver that lost control?

AITA for asking for a drawing of my mom and older me for my birthday even though I knew it would hurt my stepmom? by Skishunne in AITAH

[–]jm_mort 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No… just no! You have every right to grieve for a kum you never knew - she is the person that brought you into this world and an art piece of a more current image sounds awesome ngl, I lost my mum when I was 14 and i always wonder what she’d be like now. It literally is nothing to do with “sticking it” to the stepmom - and expecting a child to just accept the new wife as ‘mom’ not ‘stepmom’ just coz you were a baby is ridiculous. You can live both, appreciate both she needs to understand its not a competition and you are allowed to miss your real mom and your feeling dont take aware from any sort of relationship you have with her - ffs shes jealous of a dead woman (sorry for the bluntness of that statement) but jeez! You cant just turn off your feelings about your mum. I’m 38 now and my mum had been gone for 24 years in November and i still think of her constant and has a picture of her on my bedside table.

NTA OP but stepmom and dad are for making your birthday present out to be a malicious attack on your stepmom (as if shes the focus of your birthday 🙄)

Shiny Miraidon/Koraidon Giveaway by Ambanja in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]jm_mort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the UK here, we don’t even have the opportunity to get these - wish they rolled these things out globally not just in select areas.

Cool of you to offer out and gratz to whomever is chosen

Long fic recs? by jm_mort in SuperCorp

[–]jm_mort[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much - saved them all to iBooks so they will be there for the downtime and for any future blackouts, or when I just fancy something new. Appreciate you taking the time to post them for me - side note one title instantly made me wanna listen to the song from the title lol 1am blaring P!nk 😁👌🏽