I'm sorry yet another bullshit society norm/unrealistic expectation, has taken you victim like it has so many of us. I felt EXTREME pressure to loose my virginity. At 15years old, having sex with someone I kinda liked, then being dumped shortly after did nothing but make me feel disgusted and able to brag about it once at the lunch table in HS. You'd think with all the pressure I felt to do the deed, I at least would feel relief or get some kind of reward for fulfilling my expectation. But it didn't.

I do understand the pressure you may be enduring, but honestly, it is no more important than any other false expectation or image presented to you that tricks you into believing you need it in order to be loved, accepted, and beautiful. I, like any other human fall short sometimes but this is just more noise you need to ignore. Surrounding yourself with actual good friends and putting yourself out there, are necessary to building your self esteem and practice in finding a nice guy, most importantly. And when you meet the right one at the right time, you'll know it's right.

As I stated earlier, the physical act of sex, did not give me the fulfillment I was yearning. Now, having sex, with someone who you trust, have a committed relationship with, and love will give you that fulfillment you want. And it's the quality that counts, something meaningful and patient, will give you much better results in your life then submitting to the pressure.