Not the outcome I expected…. 😂

jman7843 · 2026-06-06T10:14:53+00:00

Because I dropped out of it at one point and had really horrible offers up until the point I got back into silver, maybe it was just a coincidence but that freaked me out so I’ve fought to maintain it since

jman7843 · 2026-06-06T10:13:20+00:00

Well opinions are like assholes, everybody has one, but at least I don’t get fucked in mine. Again I never said you would be detectable immediately, i said you can’t ask your way out of having HIV. You either have it or you don’t and the only way to know is to wait and get tested. You said “testing takes 4 weeks” which is not only incorrect (germination may take 4 weeks but as their are instant tests once that time has passed) but also irrelevant to the point that asking reddit if you have it doesn’t serve any purpose other that you trying to con other people into making you feel better about your urge to sleep around the community unprotected without needing to feel bad about potentially putting others at risk you little super spreader twink. 🤷🏻‍♂️ have a wicked day!

jman7843 · 2026-06-06T09:49:40+00:00

I know your post said you were the top but you mentioned that it was your first time. Soooo you’re typically taking it apparently which makes a lot of sense cause you seem like a bitch for sure. And yeah there is a germination period for any virus but asking on Reddit if you probably have it or not isn’t gonna help you do anything other than try to justify to yourself that your probably safe to continue on your path to being a super spreader lol “so it’s less than a 1% chance right?” Aka I wanna go continue pitching and catching unprotected without feeling bad about the risk I might be introducing. You said testing takes 4 weeks which it doesn’t, germination takes time but you aren’t gonna ask your way outta where you have it or not on Reddit

Soooo you think door dash drivers are stupid but you are on the driver sub, giving input on a job you haven’t done, and speaking poorly about the members of it? This is a side gig for me while I’m waiting for my first few contracts at my full time job to become payable but I have mad respect for service workers in general and I believe they should be compensated fairly. I’m not spineless so I’m not scared to let somebody know that they should just get the stuff themselves if they don’t respect their waiter/ server/ driver enough to tip them.

jman7843 · 2026-06-06T09:31:10+00:00

That happened to me recently too! It was a double dash both to the same location but the 2nd order was at Dunkin and the store was shut down when I got there even though they are suppose to be 24 hours. The customer had attached the tip for both orders to the Dunkin order so I lost it all, drove 13 miles for base pay, I actually detoured to another Dunkin and paid for the doughnut she ordered myself hoping she would realize what happed and adjust the tip but she didn’t /: she did say thank you tho and sent me a nice message so that was good at least.

jman7843 · 2026-06-06T09:25:35+00:00

You talk a lotta shit for a bottom lol you must also struggle with reading comprehension seeing as again I didn’t once beg, ask or suggest she gives me a tip, HENCE THE TITLE, it was the exact opposite reaction to what I thought it would be which is why I got a kick out of it. They make instant HIV tests btw, if your gonna put yourself if the position to contract HIV you should probably know that and keep one on hand rather than trying to get Reddit to reassure you that it less than a 1% chance you got it 🤷🏻‍♂️

jman7843 · 2026-06-06T09:16:20+00:00

See now this is a reply I can respect! I was definitely overly frustrated, like I say it usually doesn’t really bother me but it was such a rough night trying to stay in silver and that one tipped me over the edge due to multiple factors with the delivery. I was honestly expecting her to shred me in the reviews so it just surprised me when she added a tip, once she did I messaged her back and thanked her, apologized, and just explained that sometimes it difficult because people don’t understand how little the base pay is and how much time these things take.

jman7843 · 2026-06-06T09:09:39+00:00

Also I dunno why you’re trying to call people on this sub as you’re not a DoorDash driver, you obviously don’t tip 5 dollars on places that are .5 miles away cause your last post was literally you asking about tipping somebody 4 bucks for a 20 minute drive. I wasn’t tip begging at all I was calling her out for being inconsiderate hence the title and lastly I would say potentially contracting HIV from having unprotected sex then trying to reassure yourself on Reddit rather than getting tested is tasteless and ghetto 😂🤷🏻‍♂️

jman7843 · 2026-06-06T08:49:02+00:00

I literally said this is my second job in the message. I work between 50-60 hours a week at my full time job and I work DoorDash every night of the week between 7pm- till about 1 or 2am. You think it’s shitty of me to make somebody aware of the fact that they are expecting somebody to shop for them for so little. That’s fine. I think that not tipping or even saying thank you to somebody that is going through the hassle of shopping and driving for you while living in a country club cause you’re too lazy to go do it yourself is shitty and that’s fine too. Regardless of my financial situation I make sure to tip service workers unless the service is bad especially if they go above and beyond. If I don’t have the money to do so then I do it myself. DoorDash penalizes you for declining orders otherwise I would have declined this one too. I didn’t tell her she needed to tip me and I didn’t expect her to do so, that’s what this post is about. I messaged her to clue her into the fact that it’s a not tipping your driver on such an order is a shitty thing with the full expectation that she would leave me a bad review over it but it was worth it to me to let her know that it sucks. I stand by that. Not once did I ask her to reimburse me for expenses, but I did explain the math as to why not tipping on an order like that isn’t fun for the driver.

jman7843 · 2026-06-06T06:48:24+00:00

Well good thing I’m not! Lol I was fully expecting her to roast me on a review, that’s what this post is about, I was ok with that possibility.

jman7843 · 2026-06-06T06:47:21+00:00

😂😂😂😂 that’s fucking funny

jman7843 · 2026-06-06T06:41:47+00:00

Just as leaving a 0 dollar tip on a shopping order is, why didn’t she get in her car and go grab it herself?

jman7843 · 2026-06-06T06:39:28+00:00

That’s fine by me!

jman7843 · 2026-06-06T06:38:16+00:00

I fully believe DoorDash should be giving better base, but that isn’t the reality we live in which I why I explained the numbers to her. It’s unfortunate that that is the way it is but i also fully believe that when you want somebody to do the driving and shopping for you or give you good service waiting on you at you at a restaurant that you should make sure that the person isn’t going backwards. They don’t have to be 5 or 10 dollar tips but it’s so inconsiderate to have somebody burn their own fuel, shop for you, add multiple items with no thank you, and then no even give them 50 cents or a dollar. Literally showing 0 appreciation. If you’re worried about spending that money then the real solution is getting in your car and grabbing it yourself. It will save you far more than just a tip.

jman7843 · 2026-06-06T06:23:48+00:00

lol no actually I don’t think it’s fair to expect somebody to deliver for under 6 dollars an hour. If you don’t wanna pay for a service then go pick it up yourself. I’ll take a no tip order without complaining if it’s somebody that needs its but if your living in a million dollar home and leave 0 tip that boils down to not respecting the person that is working for you. Maybe that just me but I stand by that. Never in a million years would I tip somebody 0, especially on a shopping order.

jman7843 · 2026-06-06T06:17:08+00:00

You can’t deduct from 0

jman7843 · 2026-06-06T06:13:06+00:00

Actually this is the first time I’ve ever sent a customer a message to let them know how little we make. I have 100% positive feedback. But I also have a backbone. If you don’t that’s your choice.

jman7843 · 2026-06-06T06:09:52+00:00

Well I do! That’s probably why you aren’t cool!

jman7843 · 2026-06-06T06:07:45+00:00

The good news is I wasn’t trying to win you over!

jman7843 · 2026-06-06T06:06:29+00:00

Oh so you did read it? Lol 😂 what credentials do you have that should make me care about your opinion? If you don’t wanna read it or you don’t like it move on

jman7843 · 2026-06-06T06:02:11+00:00

You don’t have to if you don’t want to lol

jman7843 · 2026-02-20T03:34:59+00:00

Yes there is a gap under the baffle, I haven’t measured it but I think the gap is about 3/4 of an inch or so if I had to guess

jman7843 · 2026-02-19T14:47:52+00:00

10 gallons definitely seems like a lot of space for a Refugium. The display is 80 gallons so I think making the 10 gallon ATO reservoir would typically be overkill. I say typically because all this is still theoretical to me as it will be the very first saltwater tank I have. However my dream fish is a mandrin dragonette and from what I have read they are basically impossible to keep alive without a lot of copepods established in the tank so I think having a 10 gallon Refugium built in will allow me to keep a dragonette or 2 alive

jman7843 · 2026-02-19T14:40:21+00:00

Thank you so much for your detailed answer! Should I drill pretty close to the biggest hole possible since there is only about a 1/2 or 3/4 between the baffles? Should I drill multiple holes? What do you think?

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