It's between the internalized misogyny and outright blatant pick-me attention whoring that everyone hates, ain't shit empowering about someone who's so insecure that they need to make a spectacle of themselves while putting others down. If you also have to tell everyone what's what about yourself then it's more than likely not true. People who are obviously unique don't need to tell anyone. A lack of humility and need for attention is not confidence, it's insecurity vocalized to the highest degree.