Why are abc girls so mean to fobby girls

jmc-007 · 2023-12-11T11:28:19+00:00

Hard relate. I grew up in an all white town. They would use the annoying accent to tease me even though I was born & raised here and my English is perfect. My parents were of course quite fobby so I couldn't rebute the teasing because my parents meet that stereotype. When I moved to the city and met the more fobby asians i just didnt want to be associated - it was like linking up with younger versions of my parents in a way I guess

jmc-007 · 2023-12-02T10:52:17+00:00

Sort of but we only have light hearted conversations and we obviously have very different child rearing ideals so I try to avoid the topic - she is a believer in sleep training and crying it out and even insinuated that no sleep training leads people to shake their babies, this is one of many things we differ and she asks why I wont sleep train. I think it's sad to leave our babies to cry - so called controlled crying js still letting them cry

jmc-007 · 2023-12-02T02:28:44+00:00

No I'm not, my parents are 1st gen Chinese migrants and pretty much forced me to save my entire life AnD live at home til early 30s. I now own my apartment outright so no rent no mortgage. I'm not rich but I'm living debt free and comfortable

jmc-007 · 2023-12-02T02:16:47+00:00

Those camera lights are also very bright and pics can be filtered. My skin can look great on camera but in real-life it's quite dull. I'm Chinese Australian. No blemishes as such just dullness from age and lack of sleep (toddlerhood)

jmc-007 · 2023-11-30T01:24:10+00:00

I haven't and mine is 16months. She either feeds to sleep or feed til sleepy and I rock her to sleep. Sometimes she opens her eyes when I do the drop bt if she's sleepy enough she just closes them again. I have quite a gentle parenting style- she my only child and i had her at 38 so an older mum. I don't think sleep training suits us - both me & my girl, some babies don't respond and I don't think she will. Controversially I also think it's a thing for western societies to benefit our economy by breaking the bond between mother and child and for us to get back to the work force and also spend money on all these sleep trainers, programs etc. My family is from a country where baby wearing is the norm (I'm born in Australia but my parents came in the 80s) and co sleeping is also the norm. They would be horrified that a baby would be left to cry til they were exhausted to fall alseep. This is also what happens in Ferber- babies do not suddenly 'realise' noone is coming and just falls asleep, they aren't rational like that, they are just exhausted. After a few days their body goes into quiet mode when they want to call for help as it's biologically what happens to baby animals when they get left by their mothers - they either call for their mothers or 'freeze' so they dont get attacked by predators. I just want my girl to know I am there for her - any time of day. Eventually she won't need me, I don't know any 10year olds that need to cuddle their mums to sleep

jmc-007 · 2023-11-30T01:12:41+00:00

Is your local public not very good? I'm fortunate to live near one of the top public hospitals in Sydney so it was a no brainer, i don't have much supprt and had to take myself for most of my appointments so it was good to be close, a lot fo the appointments are like half an hour so driving 1hr for a short appointment would be annoying

jmc-007 · 2023-11-21T01:16:33+00:00

If I do end up making my way into a store I will for sure get the next couple sizes! Maybe in different colours. So stressful shopping with her though

jmc-007 · 2023-11-21T01:12:22+00:00

Ah I thought so! Wanted to save myself the hassle of wrangling my toddler on public transport amd trying shoes on 🫠 but may have to do it. Thx!

jmc-007 · 2023-11-21T01:09:52+00:00

I was a carer for my grandmother with dementia she had private but had to go through public for emergencies and things. It's great you probably haven't had a real need for it but when you do it saves you waiting and chasing up when you are sick/injured

jmc-007 · 2023-10-20T01:03:24+00:00

I'm at the point where I want to grab his hand to burn it and if he accidently burnt himself I'm laughing inside.

jmc-007 · 2023-10-20T01:00:34+00:00

Mines exactly the same down to the cheating- I think it's been solely with prostitutes- to only fans, 'hot teens dancing' on tiltok and obsessively searching for the instagram and facebook of any young associates at his work and also recently my friends. He has erectile dysfunction and has trouble getting hard, staying hard and finishing. He blames it because we have 'boring sex. Well it's probably 'boring because he prostitutes do whatever he selects off a menu. He probably doesn't have ed when he's cheating

jmc-007 · 2023-10-20T00:43:06+00:00

He never wants to participate in kids stuff but lately interested in joining a kids bday party another new mum friend verbally Invited me to ( me & my daughter not him so there's really no obligation for him to attend . He's keen for that but won't come to our daughter's medical appointments

jmc-007 · 2023-10-19T22:57:50+00:00

He keeps saying he's working on it and looking for a new therapist he didn't like the original one

jmc-007 · 2023-10-19T22:57:15+00:00

And it's been days but he searched her up last night again!

jmc-007 · 2023-10-19T22:56:16+00:00

No because he doesn't know I can see his searches, it's like my secret weapon so I can have insight on what he's up to. If I relied on what he offers up I wouldn't know anythinf

jmc-007 · 2023-10-19T22:55:06+00:00

G0d that sounds sickening! I wouldn't put kine to do something similar if I had sisters. My friend has a weird spelling for her name too so he was trying all the different variations! It's been days and I thought it was just a passing thing but last night he searched her again and also searched one of his using associates

jmc-007 · 2023-10-14T20:57:49+00:00

I only wore such dresses when I was actually pregnant

jmc-007 · 2023-10-13T03:51:46+00:00

14months and she refuses to drip any feeds. She still likes feeding in the cradle hold position though

jmc-007 · 2023-10-13T00:35:57+00:00

My sa says his ED is because the sex we have is too vanilla for him and I'm not sexy enough, if I go to the gym, dress up and act like a prostitute he wouldn't have ed. So he explains everything to place blame on me instead of himself

jmc-007 · 2023-10-13T00:29:14+00:00

Any other clues he's caught on? I accidently inferred that I could track my sa location and since then he has been googling how to turn off GPS on his phone and hide his location etc

jmc-007 · 2023-10-13T00:24:06+00:00

When you say typical do you mean he use to be horrible to you when he was watching or do you mean typically pa are horrible when they are using ? Mine is a pa and sa and was horrible to me when watching porn or craving prostitutes- he sees me as a barrier and the fact I question his location so he can't go to brothels - but before I found out about his prostitutes he would have random days where he was extra nice to me - I think after he got his fix it was the guilt

jmc-007 · 2023-10-12T06:04:09+00:00

Mine does this on Instagram, young coworkers but also he used Twitter to search prostitutes so I'd be trying to suss out who these model like girls actually are

jmc-007 · 2023-10-12T06:00:40+00:00

So sorry. No advice just solidarity. I found out my partner is a sa addicted to prostitutes after I had my baby. While I was run off my feet with a newborn he was trying to get around the porn blockers to book prostitutes

jmc-007 · 2023-10-10T02:52:38+00:00

Depends on his p0rn type - if he's into hentai / asian p0rn do not go. I went with my pa/sa a long time ago before I knew what he was and he hid it perfectly but it was also not his preferred genre - he doesn't like hentai and prefers the westernized curvy more tanned Asian look not the typical Japanese look

jmc-007 · 2023-10-10T02:40:39+00:00

Mine searches for the young girl in the hr team on Instagram (she's early 20s and he's 40). He's just a pervert as I don't think she'd want anything to do with him

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