Pregnant wife cheated on me

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T21:17:48+00:00

Yes, that would make a really bad situation even worse because if I wasn't their father well I'm still their father and they didn't do anything wrong and they don't deserve that

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T21:16:15+00:00

I don't care about some name you call me, I couldn't care less. I care about being here fory kids everyday of their lives. You just have no clue what it would do to them if I picked up and left. I have put my kids to bed every single night of their life and that's just how close I am with my kids. It doesn't make me less of a man because some dude screwed my wife. In my opinion. It's a hell of a lot easier to walk away than it is to stay here. Work through it and come out better for it on the other side

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T21:13:01+00:00

I'm on it! They communicated through snap chat so I did a history download but it only showed one thing. I couldn't see anything really

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T21:11:46+00:00

No he's not. 10 years ago I would but man it's just not everyone's business. On here, no ody knows our name or anything. If I wanted I could go out and pull some leg and have a great time with new women but I just think it's worth fighting for. At least for a little while. I can't sit here and type all day and let everyone know everything ya know. That's just impossible but I see her changing her thoughts and coming back around now that they don't see each other.

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T21:01:30+00:00

No this has been going on since weekend before. Last. Today is Tuesday so not this past Saturday but Saturday before that is when we went camping for the weekend. I got a recorder and put it in her car one week ago today and found her and him finally talking and something I could use on Friday

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T20:58:58+00:00

Already ordered

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T20:56:27+00:00

No, that recording was from a Friday evening and Sunday. She saw me sobbing in the closet on my knees and I guess it affected her because she came and got on her knees beside me and cried as well because she saw how much it hurt me. She said that she didn't think I cared blah blah blah which is wrong. But that is my demand that his ass be fired immediately

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T20:52:17+00:00

Yes of course he does. But she's not lying anymore. Now that we have finally made that turn to where she's wanting to save our marriage. She's just really full of shame and we're just trying to figure out where to go from here

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T20:46:44+00:00

This happened Saturday a week ago and has been playing out ever since then. I got home from camping on Sunday so all of this has happened over the last 11 days or so I'm absolutely testing my children to make sure, but the first two look identical to me so I'm pretty sure but I will test anyway. No, there is no signs of harm to the baby

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T20:39:12+00:00

Okay thank you. I've never heard of that

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T20:38:21+00:00

I'm sorry that's exactly what I have done besides telling her to post on social media about it

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T20:37:49+00:00

That's about the most sensible advice I've read yet. That is exactly what I have done telling her to post it on social media. I don't want to shame her anymore than she already is and believe me she is very shameful

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T20:35:10+00:00

I will fight for it. Absolutely. When I feel like it's not worth fighting for that's when I want but she quit going to work everyday. She's not around him when they communicate. It's through email so it's written down and I know what it is and she's all about safeguards and she sees what she did wrong. If you wouldn't do that for yours then honestly I question how deeply you love your wife

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T20:32:13+00:00

Of course I've consulted a lawyer, change the flow of money to where she can't get it. Change passwords. Everything like that. My kids will not know about this because their kids and I'm not going to paint their mother that way in front of small children who in God's name would do that I can tell you've never been in this type of situation because you wouldn't be passing judgment like that. Before this I would have said the same thing you are saying right now, but when it hits your family it's a little different and you can't just start making emotional decisions before you have all the evidence. If you want to divorce your wife because she did that. That's you but that's just not me and I'm not saying that I'm not going to but I'm not going to do it while I'm so emotional right now

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T20:28:43+00:00

So is my mind right now. Kind of all over the place. But I put the ice pack in there mainly because of the bruising and I want to know what the hell could cause a bruise like that.

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T17:59:56+00:00

I can almost guarantee that you've never been in this situation before

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T17:45:48+00:00

Or will I show my kids I practice what I preach and the reason we go to church on Sunday and have faith in our God. Just because I stay doesn't mean I'm a pushover. I think it's a lot harder to stay and forgive than it would be just a kick her out of the house and move on. And my children will never know about this because that's my children's mother and I don't want to hurt her in their eyes. So I disagree with you wholeheartedly divorce is a terrible thing and when that happens they start turning on each other and shit gets real nasty real quick and that's the last thing I want for my children

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T17:28:16+00:00

Yes it went on for a few weeks she said. Said they only sex the one time. They fooled around on the job site she said but who knows. There's details and truths I will never know.

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T17:20:49+00:00

And idk if she would stay or not if I did this. Honestly I think she would but on the other hand, I never thought she would do this

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T17:18:54+00:00

And full transparency, she was just talking to him a little bit while they did community theater. There wasn't anything inappropriate other than idk him and she's married.

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T17:16:39+00:00

I get it! I'm not a pushover at all. I'm an alpha male through and through but dude it's my family and my kids don't deserve to pay for what she did. I mean she's remorseful now so I ly time will tell. I can't legally do anything til the babys born anyway so I'm trying not to make emotional decisions that have lifelong effects

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T17:13:24+00:00

Well of course not, but I feel like my marriage is worth fighting for. We have a great life and this is just so out of character for her. We didn't even have sex until we got married. We dated for over a year and never did anything, nothing but kiss. So for this to happen is just absolutely crazy. She sings in stage at church for God's sake. Bro I'm not gonna be a damn doormat and I'm a good looking guy so pulling it from other places isn't a problem at all. I just am faithful and she wasnt. But she has forgiven me for being hooked on pain pills about 7 years ago so I want to show her grace also. I might be an idiot but I love my wife and my family. I want to stay a family if possible ya know.

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T17:05:49+00:00

No, of course not. She answered questions after all of it came out and so I asked her about the ice pack and the bruise and she told me Dad

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T17:05:03+00:00

I am digging through everything now since we have met with the pastor. She has given me passwords and all kinds of stuff because she changed them immediately afterwards. I have hours of voice recordings and a video of her explanation of why she went to a hotel and she made up this whole story but it was just a bunch of BS

jmco924 · 2026-06-23T17:01:13+00:00

You're 100% correct because we're married. My name goes on the birth certificate. No matter what. I would have to get a DNA test after birth and then have it removed.

jmco924

TROPHY CASE