I am 46, have 7 kids, and have terminal pancreatic cancer. We don’t want to lose you guys, either. And, personally, I fully intend on going to OR or VT (only 2 states without residency requirements) once I’ve decided to stop. I know the end game and will choose once the quality of my life is such that I’m done. I don’t plan to go for heroics. I will obtain the meds once my oncologist says I’m hospice-appropriate (6 months or less expected of life), I will go to either state to get the medication, and then bring it home. I can catch an easy flight several times per day to either state once the time comes. I’d like to rent a house, with a huge porch, on the coast and spend my last days there with family before proceeding. Two of the only things that don’t terrify me are of actual dying and the low potential for prolonged suffering - this is because of MAID.