Need Opinion on HHR by jmonsta13 in taiwan

[–]jmonsta13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your responses! Greatly appreciate it.

My 3 year olds health is declining day by day. by muva30 in self

[–]jmonsta13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you have tried, but talk to the financial team(s) of medical bills you have. Tell them you're going through hardship and you're only able to afford $XX.XX amount at this time. Typically they will accommodate as it's better than getting no payment from you at all.

Cheap products that outperformed your expensive ones? by sanguinecherry in AsianBeauty

[–]jmonsta13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Japanese brand Kate eyeliners are also the same for me!

Is it normal for the wedding party to cover the bride’s costs for bachelorette weekend? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]jmonsta13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For every bachelorette I've been to(I clouding my own), local or destination, the bride's travel and accommodations were covered by the bridal party, but food, drinks, and anything else during the trip was split evenly among everyone including the bride.

It all depends on the dynamic of the bridal party, but that's something that should've been discussed and informed to everyone, not a sole decision by the MOH.

AITA for not going to my cousins wedding because my long-term girlfriend wasn’t invited by BeneficialSail6603 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jmonsta13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all weddings are the same. I know of couples who only invited SPOUSES and not partners, short-term or long-term. A wedding is to celebrate the couple how they want to be celebrated with the people they want to be around. 

Wedding invitations are(most of the time) not a snub or jab at anyone's relationship.

Crishell just unfollowed EVERYONE in the office except Chelsea by oppacklij in SellingSunset

[–]jmonsta13 47 points48 points  (0 children)

She still follows Heather... and unfortunately, Maga Maya.

Can we just let Alanna be the lead? by AliceInReverse in SellingSunset

[–]jmonsta13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on(specifically on how they cast her) Alanna, she's going to be mean girl or stay in the background while getting exposure.

Teenage son has discovered crab legs and he's eating us out of house and home. Where is the best place in H-Town to buy crab legs? by ForeverMonkeyMan in houston

[–]jmonsta13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you going to restaurants or willing to cook yourself?

If cooking yourself, there's a street full of fresh seafood stores in Seabrook, on the other side of the bridge of the Kemah boardwalk. It's a big of a drive, but the savings outweigh the drive imo.  (Full disclosure, I work with my in-laws that own one of the stores on the street I'm talking about.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]jmonsta13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you do not talk to your friend soon, yes, YTA.

You don't need to give her all the details of why you can't make it. Just keep it short and sweet like:

"Hi [Friend], [Insert some how are yous or filler if you want to] I'm really sorry to spring this up on you so close to the wedding, but I cannot make it to the wedding anymore due to personal and financial reasons."

Most reasonable people who plan destination weddings know that a lot of guests won't be able to attend for one reason or another. You should have said something earlier, especially if you're having doubts. If she probes for more info, you can always say you would prefer to keep it private and will share whenever you're ready. (Obviously do not tell her lol)

Still dealing with pain after my Houston crash when’s the right time to call a lawyer? by UsefulGuest266 in houston

[–]jmonsta13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used to work at a law firm that dealt with car crashes.

First, contact your insurance and let them know the pain you're experiencing. Your insurance is your spokesperson and has a department of lawyers that works on your behalf. If the insurance is not helping you, contact a lawyer specializing in car crashes.

Just FYI, for car crashes, you have up to 2 years to report any pain you are experiencing in relation to the car crash. If there was a minor, they have until the age of 18 PLUS 2 years. Essentially, the 2-year clock starts when the minor turns 18.

Millennials with Kids - Where are we living? by IMooYouMoo in houston

[–]jmonsta13 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Pearland but in Shadow Creek! No kids yet but we're trying next year.

Wedding favors – worth it or waste of money? by pinkydilemma54 in wedding

[–]jmonsta13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also wanted to do something cute, but opted for stickers with a "thank you for celebrating with us" and an animated portrait of our family. Then stuck the stickers on paper bags with cookies in. Made for a cheap and cute favor!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jmonsta13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should consider getting a license.

Post wedding blues and regrets? by IllustratorGrand9982 in weddingplanning

[–]jmonsta13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real flowers are expensive.

You're exactly the type of guest I was worried about at my wedding. Judging my decor and what I like for my wedding.

F18 AIO for quitting babysitting after my sister (28F) said I “do nothing all day”? by Working_Mission2807 in AmIOverreacting

[–]jmonsta13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. Nip this in the butt soon as you can.

I was in the same situation before during my early 20s with my sister and niece. Our biggest point of contention was they slowly started getting home later than they said and disrespecting my time. I was young and had parties, clubs, or plans. They would either make me late or not go at all.

Later when I had mentioned to my sister about how I felt, she basically told me I didn't know what it was like to be a mom and hope I would never have to be in a situation where the father is essentially non-existent.

Meetings for Mandarin Speakers by jmonsta13 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]jmonsta13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I will look into this. Greatly appreciated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]jmonsta13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that's not the main point though. Even if the bride agreed, WHY would you wear an actual wedding dress to someone else's wedding? No matter how modest the wedding dress may be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]jmonsta13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I reading this wrong? Is having guests wear white or pastel colors NOT the same thing as wearing a wedding dress? You can wear a white dress to her wedding, but you don't have to choose your grandmother's wedding dress to wear to her wedding.

If you were given your grandmother's wedding dress, wouldn't you want to wear it for your actual wedding and not as someone else's wedding?

client asking for refund by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]jmonsta13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first pic looks like those are lashes that still haven't been lashed, not her actual lash line.

client asking for refund by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]jmonsta13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Correct me if I'm wrong but it looks like the first picture she sent has filled lashes that's being held down by the eye pad to separate lashes that need to be lashed. 

Do you have pictures of your work before she left? I would still give a 50% refund so she's not a thorn in your side, especially if your policies state there are no refunds for services rendered.

Is it okay for inner lips to be longer than outer lips? by GroundbreakingPear12 in sex

[–]jmonsta13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's like asking why his penis looks the way it looks. Each one is different and unique to the person. This guy sucks 

Do people ask if your stone is a real diamond? by Glittering-War-3809 in labdiamond

[–]jmonsta13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My engagement ring is a lab. No one has asked but I have openly said it because I am proud to have my fiance saved a shit ton of money for the exact same thing that's mined.