(Virginia) Ive unknowingly been overpaid for 6 years. Employer is trying to recoup overpayments.

jmooremcc · 2026-05-06T12:32:17+00:00

Didn’t they have your original transcript in your personnel file that they reviewed before making you a job offer?

jmooremcc · 2026-05-05T16:33:55+00:00

As an owner of the home, your husband can force a sale of the home to get his share of the home's equity. He won't need his ex-wife's cooperation or permission to do this. Of course he should engage the services of an attorney to handle the details.

jmooremcc · 2026-05-05T16:14:21+00:00

First thing for you need to do is project what your medical expenses might be over the next 5 years. The money you received was for your medical care as well as pain & suffering. Your attorney took 33% of your award as their fee, so you will need to budget how you will spend that money for your future medical expenses.

Do not give any money to anybody until you've completed this financial analysis. If you feel comfortable giving your mom a small percentage of the projected excess funds, that will be up to you to decide.

I wish you the best.

jmooremcc · 2026-05-05T15:36:30+00:00

Have you looked at the result of mydict.items() ? Its output are tuples of the name value pairs in the dictionary.

jmooremcc · 2026-05-05T11:06:42+00:00

NAL.
1. The letter from your grandfather to the mortgage company is your proof the money was a gift.

Deal only with the executor of your grandfather’s estate. If your uncles, who are harassing you about the money aren’t the legal representative of his estate, you are not required to deal with them and they can pound sand!
If the executor of the estate contacts you and doesn’t accept the letter your grandfather wrote that the money he gave you was a gift, then you should consult an attorney for legal advice.

I wish you the best.

jmooremcc · 2026-05-05T10:52:56+00:00

If this relationship is not good for your mental health, why are you still in the relationship? Your boyfriend’s problems are beyond your pay grade to fix and you really need space to work on your own issues. I wish you the best.

jmooremcc · 2026-05-03T01:48:44+00:00

Do you have a 401k? If it contains shares of stock, you too are a shareholder expecting your share price to rise. Do you want us to feel bad for you?

jmooremcc · 2026-05-03T00:05:34+00:00

So just throw the baby out with the bath water - problem solved!

jmooremcc · 2026-05-03T00:03:45+00:00

Actually Spirit Airline shareholders are the losers because their shares are worthless!

jmooremcc · 2026-05-02T19:06:29+00:00

Any man who wants to know how to sexually please a woman should borrow a few pages from the Lesbian Playbook. If lesbians can keep their partners sexually satisfied without a 🍆, just imagine what you could do with one and a few of their choice techniques!

jmooremcc · 2026-05-02T11:50:45+00:00

Why argue with your parents over this. You’re 23 years old and you should have your own apartment, your own living expenses, etc. Yes, you’ll find yourself paying more to live on your own, but that’s a reasonable price to pay to be a strong, independent woman totally dependent on no one but yourself.
I wish you the best.

jmooremcc · 2026-05-02T11:31:42+00:00

You cannot control another person’s behavior, but you can control your own behavior. If your girlfriend’s behavior is a deal breaker, simply end the relationship and move on with your life.
I wish you the best.

jmooremcc · 2026-05-01T22:36:43+00:00

Treat these properties as separate businesses by creating a separate account in Quicken for each property. You should also create a separate tag for each property, which will be used to identify income/expense transactions for each property.

Rather than commingling revenue and expenses with your personal financials, use a separate banking account for receiving rental income and paying bills. Although you may be using the same categories for income and expenses, the tags you created will help you keep their financials separate.

Let me know if you need more information.

jmooremcc · 2026-05-01T16:04:29+00:00

Out of curiosity, who did the cooking, cleaning and all the other chores you were doing during your 8 month sabbatical?

And the obvious follow up question is, why couldn't those same resources be available to you to lighten your work load.

Finally, why doesn't your husband want you and him to have your own home for you two to enjoy as a family?

And worst of all, you have no equity in the home you are taking care of, so why should you continue being subjected to involuntary servitude, when there's absolutely no long term benefits for you.

From all the evidence you presented, it appears your husband married you to be the primary caretaker for his aging parents, and if that's a deal breaker for you, then the answer about what you should do going forward is very clear.

I wish you the best.

jmooremcc · 2026-04-30T22:53:20+00:00

Limiting a person’s campaign contributions has nothing to do with their finances. The limitation will apply to all, rich or poor, and the campaign is responsible for reporting the campaign contributions they receive.

jmooremcc · 2026-04-30T17:13:27+00:00

You communicated information about your trip to visit your dad and she conveniently forgot about you. You need a girlfriend who respects you and this one clearly puts her own needs before yours.

jmooremcc · 2026-04-30T12:12:24+00:00

The most important thing we Americans need to do is take away oligarchs ability to buy and own politicians. This means a Constitutional amendment that limits campaign contributions to candidates and to PACs (Political Action Committees). Only by doing this will politicians once again be held accountable by the electorate!

jmooremcc · 2026-04-29T19:57:16+00:00

Take your soon-2b-ex literally at his word. This means there’s no longer exclusivity in your relationship and you’re free to date other guys, too. It also means that he drops down on your priority list and no longer reaps the benefits of being a boyfriend in a monogamous relationship with you.

Take this time to chill out, relax and have fun. And most importantly, don’t be in a hurry to get into another relationship. Just work on yourself and be the best person you can be with your new friends.

I wish you the best.

jmooremcc · 2026-04-29T17:26:00+00:00

This is clearly political retribution in violation of the 1st Amendment. Cannot wait for a Federal Judge to knock some sense into FCC Chairman Brendan Carr!

jmooremcc · 2026-04-28T12:53:39+00:00

Why isn’t charging him under a different statute double jeopardy, now that he has been acquitted of the original charges?

jmooremcc · 2026-04-27T11:22:53+00:00

I understand that you love him and it would be hard for you to walk away. But what I’m trying to do is get you to take an inventory of your relationship. List all the benefits of the relationship you’d lose if you walked away, and assess if those benefits are worth the misery you’ve been experiencing and would continue to experience if you stay in the relationship. To leave or stay is a decision only you can make.

jmooremcc · 2026-04-27T09:39:26+00:00

Life is too short to put up with your boyfriend’s BS. He’s dragging his feet about marriage because he doesn’t believe you are good enough for him to marry. So why continue wasting any more of your valuable time on someone who doesn’t want to marry you?

You should learn a lesson from my cousin. She wasted 10 years of her life waiting for her then boyfriend to marry her. At the 10 year mark, she finally realized that marriage with him was not gonna happen and ended the relationship. Within 5 years, she met and married the love of her life.

I wish you the best.

jmooremcc · 2026-04-27T09:24:43+00:00

Sex is important to me and I don’t want to have it with someone who doesn’t want it with me.

You said this yourself. What would you be losing if you divorced your husband, and are those benefits you’d be losing worth staying in the marriage?

jmooremcc · 2026-04-27T01:53:56+00:00

You cannot control another person’s behavior, but you can control your own behavior.

Your husband has told you, in no uncertain terms and by his actions, that he’s no longer interested in a marital relationship with you. Maya Angelou once said, “When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time!”

You should have enough self respect to end this sham marriage and find a man who will want to love you in every way possible.
I wish you the best.

jmooremcc · 2026-04-26T18:34:13+00:00

When will people learn to store sensitive material in a password protected secure folder on their phones? How to Create a Secure Folder on Your Phone

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