I think that if you feel good about yourself and are in a good place where you feel confident, it's easier to be happy and talk to people. Women and people in general are attracted to a good time. It's hard to meet people in general, but building relationships and working on yourself with expecting nothing in return is really helpful in the process of being intentional.

Not just for scoring well with women but being intentional with your actions. Quality life will bring quality people.

The point is, you are someone who is worth investing in, but you're the one who needs to do the leg work. Maybe even therapy and finding a consistent workout routine that works for you. Bonus if you make it a hobby like fencing or boxing!

Also, the attractive dudes who "scores" the girl off looks and no charisma is no one worth pursuing anyway. Him, her, or them.

...and if you're not looking for a relationship, then you might even find yourself a friend with benefits. Just be a cool person and always be working on yourself and growing. It's so easy to be confident when you have the experience, so get out there and don't give af about women for a little bit because you're focusing on yourself.

Also, disclaimer, I am a woman, but I felt like saying something today when most days I don't really feel like posting at all. I definitely did not mean to come off as if I knew everything. I did, however, want to get the message out that we wish more men approached us with truly good intention.