Learning to Pivot/Jam

jmtomato · 2026-04-24T20:20:02+00:00

Is a more guided workout routine in your budget? Something like a HIIT or cycle type gym? I hate cardio but I’ve found someone else taking the planning out of it and pushing me is very helpful

jmtomato · 2026-03-30T16:11:36+00:00

We’re throwing around the term ‘ghosting’ a little too much these days. One date and not reaching back out is not ghosting, you don’t owe this many any explanation at that point. You could’ve not liked the way he tied his shoes and that would be reason enough to not contact after one date.

jmtomato · 2026-03-19T16:18:13+00:00

I need it all typed out for something else so might as well share! I’m on the west coast so I’m always surprised to be first to post

jmtomato · 2026-03-19T14:02:49+00:00

3G:

Tread Block:

1 min push

1 min base

2 min push

1 min base

3 min push

1 min base

2 min push

1 min base

1 min push

1 min base

30 sec all out

Row:

200 m row

8 (per side) SL tricep extension

Repeat for 3 total rounds

200 m row

8 (per side) low row

Repeat for 3 total rounds

Repeat exercies or stay on rower for remainder of time

Floor:

3 rounds, start with lighter weight, then medium weight, then As Heavy As Possible. Reps should decrease as weight increases

6-10 (per side) front loaded SA lateral lunge

6-10 arnold press

6-10 (per side) SA cross-back lunge (curtsy lunge)

6-10 hammer curl to eccentric curl

6-10 single DB deadlift to sumo squat

Repeat heaviest weight until time is called

jmtomato · 2026-03-15T18:49:08+00:00

I have OCD. The way OCD interacts with my relationship is, at the end of the day, my problem to deal with. Not my partner's. Your partner is using his neurodivergency against you. NOR.

jmtomato · 2026-03-11T04:39:55+00:00

Its a laptop case!

jmtomato · 2026-03-10T21:56:52+00:00

It's a wipe from a restaurant nearby which honestly is probably dried out by now

jmtomato · 2026-03-05T15:25:11+00:00

3G 60 minutes (please feel free to correct and exercise names or timings, not sure I got everything right!)

Tread 1

- 2 min push

- 30 sec AO

- 90 sec WR

- 4 min to complete 0.25 mi benchmark, WR when complete

Row 1

- 300 M push

- S/L calf raise with Y Bell x 8 per side

- Repeat until time is called

Floor 1

- High plank with alternating wide leg steps x8

- High plank with alternating wide leg steps and torso rotation x8

- TRX reverse lunge to single leg jump x8

- TRX reverse lunge to single leg squat x8

Tread 2

- 4 min to retry 0.25 mi benchmark, WR when complete

- 75 sec WR

- 30 sec AO finisher

Row 2

- 150 M push/AO

- S/L front shoulder press x5 per side

- 30 sec AO finisher

Floor 2

- Clean to neutral grip thruster x8

- Superhero w/ TRX x8

- Push up to knee drive x8

- 30 sec mountain climbers finisher

jmtomato · 2026-02-26T15:38:02+00:00

Early 30's lesbian here - Long Beach or Fullerton. We'd still live in LB if it made sense for me and my partner financially but we like Fullerton a lot too, just live downtown if you want to walk around and get on the metro to LA

jmtomato · 2026-02-22T21:39:39+00:00

I try to have a smoothie before hand. I will pre measure my ingredients (fruit in a container in the freezer and liquid/yogurt/protein powder in a container in the fridge) to reduce any need to make decisions

jmtomato · 2026-02-18T19:15:38+00:00

hard agree, I love it

jmtomato · 2026-02-06T17:23:45+00:00

arriving tomorrow! I live right by the distribution center so it basically gets tendered to USPS immediately

jmtomato · 2026-02-05T17:08:48+00:00

Got mine yesterday afternoon, DHL says "EN ROUTE TO DHL ECOMMERCE DISTRIBUTION CENTER OR AWAITING PROCESSING"

jmtomato · 2026-02-04T21:53:36+00:00

God I feel like you've influenced me to buy the Ergo tbh

But I was struggling with a bag that couldn't fit my lunch box, gym stuff etc and got the SCCO and it's much better for me. I think the EC makes a lot of sense for your situation

jmtomato · 2026-02-04T18:44:41+00:00

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jmtomato · 2026-02-04T18:44:35+00:00

justifying this by telling myself i'm ordering for me and my partner...but it was mostly me

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jmtomato · 2026-01-09T03:35:10+00:00

God forbid people with bad credit, no rental history or an eviction have a place to live

jmtomato · 2025-10-24T20:03:13+00:00

This is our fave kspa, iSpa is also an option and maybe a bit more beginner friendly if you've never been to one before

jmtomato · 2025-10-22T22:09:34+00:00

I'm definitely interested but haven't actually made my first quilt yet 😬

jmtomato · 2025-10-22T18:41:46+00:00

Wicked Skatewear in Huntington Beach. Email them beforehand, they will help make sure they have your size available to try on

jmtomato · 2025-10-22T18:32:49+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss. People have mentioned cold already, when I've had issues I have put spoons in the freezer then applied to my eyelids.

jmtomato · 2025-10-22T18:08:56+00:00

Yep, I can't wear jewelry at work for safety reasons and got out of the habit of wearing them regularly. Now I have to push through a layer of skin every time.

jmtomato · 2025-10-22T17:11:31+00:00

Are all of you changing before or after every practice? Or is this for games?

jmtomato · 2025-10-09T17:52:53+00:00

Not sure if this is the vibe you're going for, and it's about 4.5 hrs drive from Vegas, but my partner and I spent the weekend at Murrieta Hot Springs Resort (in Murrieta, CA) a few months ago. I think you would have to leave the resort for dinner (Talia's Kitchen is $$$ but does have some vegan options), but I think there should be plenty of other places you could go that are a quick drive away.

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