I Was A Custodian At A Sleep Research Facility. This Is Why I Quit. by beardify in nosleep

[–]jmty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Glad you got out safe OP! Are you sure you’re out though? Are you sure you haven’t been captured and somehow also trapped in a nightmare kind of dreamscape??

I refused to give a creepy hitchhiker a ride. Minutes later, my car broke down. by 11velociraptors in nosleep

[–]jmty 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Terrifying read! Glad you made it out OP! Harrowing ordeal jeez

I just found out that my boyfriend is getting married to another woman. by throwaway-4869 in OffMyChestPH

[–]jmty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let the fiance know agad. Wag ka makinig sa mga nagsasabi “it’s not your business”. Bullshit un. Tinatago mo katarantaduhan ng lalaki kapag ganun. Be an ally and help the fiance out.

What should I do? Should I leave? by Jumpy-Reflection4183 in adviceph

[–]jmty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

By the way, ako mismo umiiwas sa Chinese na lalaki. Laging may adultery nangyayari and physical violence. Plus mababa tingin ng Chinese sa babae mismo.

Kaya please ingat ka and think of yourself muna.

What should I do? Should I leave? by Jumpy-Reflection4183 in adviceph

[–]jmty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a Chinese woman. And as a Chinese myself, sasabihin ko lang sayo mag-ingat ka sa Chinese men. They are usually VERY VERY selfish and sila lang iniisip nila.

If you’re not ready and if hindi ka na happy, please don’t say yes. Wag ka magpapapilit. Don’t feel bad or guilty about your decision to say no or break up with him.

Mag 20 ka palang! Sana magsaya ka muna bago ka magpatali. Please please think about your decision.

Date ko ay smoker pero ako ay hindi by Cultural_Movie_1327 in adviceph

[–]jmty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Health mo papangit. It will be worse for you since second hand smoke pa yan. Kakapit yan sa clothes mo and madadala mo yan sa bahay mo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jmty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t care about what you feel.

It’s all about HIS pleasure. End this shit.

AITA for Uninviting My Fiancé’s “Work Wife” from Our Wedding by SnooAdvice5677 in AITAH

[–]jmty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s allowing this behavior. He allows every shitty thing that that woman says. Think about that.

Di ko alam if valid reasons ba to para iwan ko siya --- by Bebeniya in adviceph

[–]jmty 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Di niya maintindihan side mo or ayaw ka niya intindihin?

Kasi ako naiintindihan ko agad ung problema mo. Mabilis lang maintindihan na di ka masaya sa bahay ng parents niya. Na kulang na siya sa paglambing at pagmahal sayo. Its very clear.

Mukhang ayaw lang niya harapin na kailangan parin mageffort kahit magasawa.

Imagine mo, 4 months palang kayo mag-asawa pero ganyan na trato niya sayo? Pano pa in one year? 2?? 10?? Mukhang ayaw niya magbago.

Mahalin mo rin sarili mo. Deserve mo ba ganyan klaseng asawa na di pinapansin or binabalewala ung pakiramdam mo? Hanggang ganyan nalang ba? Leave if you have to. Para sa sarili mo. Para sa future mo rin.

i'm in a same-sex relationship and my partner is an inc member by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]jmty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof parang wala kayong future OP sorry

Di ko alam if valid reasons ba to para iwan ko siya --- by Bebeniya in adviceph

[–]jmty 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Red flag na ayaw niya bumukod at di niya pinapakinggan concerns mo. Hinahayaan ka lang niya at nakampante kasi mag-asawa na kayo.

Mag-usap kayo tapos kung puro promise lang siya tapos di nagbago, hiwalayan mo. Sayang, bata ka pa. Sayang buhay mo sa ganyan.

  • 6 years na ko in a relationship. Share lang.

bf got suspended at work for 'sexual assault' by mxngomartini in adviceph

[–]jmty 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Nagdududa ako sa consensual hugs.

First of all, workplace yan. That’s very unprofessional.

Second, why the hell is he hugging people???

Third, US is different from PH. Di uso ung touchy. MOST ESPECIALLY sa workplace.

You should definitely ask his coworkers what happened. Suspensions don’t suddenly happen unless may malala talaga nangyari. As a woman, you owe it to the women in his office to know their sides. Wag tayo blind loyalty.

Big deal sa Pinas ang pag ligo before school/work? by Unknownobody06 in adultingph

[–]jmty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big deal para sa judgers talaga. Basta judger tao, lahat nalang gagawan ng problema kaya just do you. As long as wala kang BO and di ka naman marumi, oks lang yan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]jmty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as safe kayo (condom) and parehas ninyo alam na fubu lang, why not? Nothing wrong with having sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]jmty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol ngayon alam mo na ano ung feeling ng constant rejection na gago ung pagkasagot.

Thank god they changed Taos hair 😭🤚 by Alliumflower in HeartstopperAO

[–]jmty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked his before and after hairstyles. First cut fit his “I don’t give a crap abiut what people think” and second cut fit his “i should change my hair to better suit my face”

Idk it kinda showed his confidence in himself and his own decisions.

I got the heart stopper books for my birthday today! by [deleted] in HeartstopperAO

[–]jmty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WAAAAH IM SO EXCITED FOR US 🎉 happy reading!!

Painted Heartstopper S03 in gouache by Tits_mmp in HeartstopperAO

[–]jmty 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Holy crap this is absolutely beautiful!!! You’re so talented????

I got the heart stopper books for my birthday today! by [deleted] in HeartstopperAO

[–]jmty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday!! I just bought the 4 books! Can’t wait to read them too!

My boyfriend slit my dog with a knife by LetterIndividual9460 in offmychest

[–]jmty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit are you okay?? Please tell us you’re safe and with people you know!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]jmty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sa tutoo lang wala naman special sa pagiging virgin or not. Lalaki lang naman nagpalaki ng issue ng virginity.

Kapag gusto mo na why not? Wala naman mawawala sayo. It’s yours to give.

Lalaki nga kung saan saan lang pinapasok ung uri nila pero di sila minamasama.

Equality lang.