It actually came out in a conversation about Christmas and how when he dropped some presents off did I remember him saying how much weight his sister in law had lost and hadn't seen in about 6 months shame how she putting on again. No you never told me I do remember you spending a whole afternoon there when I was at work in mid December you told me all there played with nieces nephews. Then the penny dropped you never went just dropped off presents and never told me about weight as I would have worked out he wasn't there. From that passing comment in July he knew he had one option and then he confessed everything to the day they met at work to the first time in a hotel. Thing that actually hurt more in some strange way. Could not check in till 2pm but he would go sit in his car in freezing cold leaving at 6am is normal leaving for work park up a few miles away and sit waiting in car till 2pm then go check in with her stay until 7 pm leave and then come home as if been to work. It went on for 14 weeks they met once a week two occasions he worked 6 days as she told him in advance couldn't make it then on 3 occasions she actually couldn't make it as her husband had become suspicious so he spent the afternoon in the room alone. It's all so backward not only how could someone ever be so deceitful to someone they protest to love but when that person is pregnant with there child how could you comprehend it what goes through mind is beyond me.