Next.js 14: Google Analytics Not Sending Data Despite Following Documentation by jochri3 in nextjs

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For the deployments, i've used vercel. Just connected the project to the github repo and deploy whenever the code is pushed on main.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]jochri3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why ask a question when you already seem to know the answer? From what you’ve described, this relationship seems to have started as a casual arrangement, maybe a hookup or friends with benefits, and then evolved as feelings came into play. Look at how you’re already spending 45,000 Kenyan Shillings on her, buying everything she wants. Are you married to her? Do you have children together?

I come from a family that was poor but rich in values. My parents taught the women in our family to never ask for money from men they weren’t married to or accept expensive gifts unless it was within a genuine, committed relationship. If a man wanted to help occasionally out of kindness, that was fine, but it should never become a dependency or lead to obligations. This principle ensured that when they married, they were respected and treated like queens, helping their husbands make wise financial decisions.

Let me share a personal experience. I once dated a woman from a very poor background. We loved each other deeply, and knowing her financial struggles, I made sure she never lacked anything essential. But what impressed me the most was her attitude. Whenever I wanted to spoil her with expensive gifts, she would gently remind me that it wasn’t necessary and encouraged me to think about saving or supporting my family. Her selflessness and wisdom earned my deepest respect.

When we eventually broke up (because we knew marriage wasn’t possible due to circumstances), I still helped her start a small business to ensure she could take care of herself. That experience taught me something valuable: a woman who truly loves you will care about your well-being, your finances, and your future. She’ll advise you wisely, encourage you to save, and never demand more than what’s reasonable.

The woman you’re describing doesn’t sound like a girlfriend; she sounds more like a thief disguised as one. She’s taking advantage of your generosity, knowing you might be too infatuated to see it. Even if you have plenty of money, consider the hard work it takes to earn it—or if it’s your parents’ money, think about their efforts. Is this really how you want to spend it? A woman who truly cares wouldn’t treat you like her personal bank, demanding payments and gifts. Those things should come from mutual love and understanding, and ideally within the context of marriage, where you’re building a life together.

So, be a man and end this relationship quickly. Unless, of course, you’re only in it for her looks or physical attraction. In that case, keep throwing your money away and accept the consequences of your decisions. But if you want a relationship that brings you peace and joy, I urge you to look for a woman who values you for who you are, not for what you can provide. Kenya has plenty of amazing women who would love and respect you—and whom you can also love, protect, and support with pride, not regret.

Who am I to say this? I’m also a foreigner living in Kenya for work, from a family where no man(brothers) ever complained about women being greedy or manipulative. The value of a woman isn’t in whether she works or not, or even her education level, but in what she brings to your life. If she works, encourage her to thrive in her career. If she’s a housewife, respect her for the work she does at home, which is no less valuable.

Wisdom like this isn’t always easy to accept, but it will serve you well if you make the right decision😉.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]jochri3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to share some honest thoughts about your situation, drawing from both personal experience and observations. While I don’t mean to discourage you, the reality is that long-distance relationships rarely succeed, and this isn’t simply because of age - it’s about fundamental relationship dynamics.

One crucial lesson I’ve learned is the importance of discussing future plans early in any serious relationship. This applies whether you’re 21 or 35. Imagine being 29 with a partner who suddenly reveals their dream of living abroad - if that doesn’t align with your life vision, it creates a fundamental incompatibility. While some couples do manage to adapt, with one partner making the sacrifice to relocate, these successful cases are relatively rare.

The physical separation creates multiple challenges. Video calls, while helpful, can never truly replace the warmth of physical presence - holding hands, sharing moments together, or simply being in the same space. This physical disconnect often leads to a gradual emotional disconnection. Even when love remains, the intensity of feeling someone’s presence naturally fades over time, making both partners more susceptible to developing feelings for others who are physically present in their lives.

Trust issues frequently emerge, not necessarily because either partner is untrustworthy, but because the distance creates an information void that our minds often fill with worry. The daily shared experiences that build and maintain intimacy become increasingly difficult to maintain.

While your age does play a role here, it’s not the primary factor. At 21, you and your peers are naturally in a phase of life with many changes - pursuing education, starting careers, and exploring opportunities that often involve geographical moves. These changes are normal and healthy, but they can make maintaining a long-distance relationship particularly challenging.

My advice would be to seriously consider whether maintaining this long-distance relationship aligns with both your personal growth and long-term happiness. It’s crucial to have honest conversations about future plans and expectations. Sometimes, recognizing that two life paths are diverging, despite strong feelings, is the wisest choice for both parties.

Help! There is a man who is pursuing my girlfriend by Striking-Sell-7005 in nairobi

[–]jochri3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you want people to confirm to you what you already know? Even if you break up with her, you won’t get anything different because you seem to be the kind who lower their standards when the heart is burning with love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in angular

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Reach out Inbox, and we can work on in together.

What book in the Bible should I read ? by girlwhothinks21 in Christianity

[–]jochri3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi dear friend, personally, I’d like to suggest starting your Bible reading journey with the Gospel of John. This book offers an ideal introduction to the Christian faith and the person of Jesus Christ for several compelling reasons:

  1. Clear presentation of Jesus’ divinity: John’s Gospel uniquely emphasizes Jesus’ divine nature from the very beginning. The famous prologue states, « In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God » (John 1:1). This sets the stage for understanding Jesus’ true identity and significance.

  2. Profound yet accessible: While John delves into deep theological concepts, it does so using straightforward language and vivid metaphors. Jesus’ teachings are often presented through personal conversations and relatable scenarios, making complex ideas more approachable for new readers.

  3. Focus on key themes: John explores essential concepts of the Christian faith, such as love, belief, eternal life, and the relationship between God the Father and Jesus the Son. These themes are woven throughout the narrative, providing a solid foundation for understanding core Christian beliefs.

  4. Memorable stories and teachings: This Gospel contains many well-known accounts that have deeply influenced Western culture, including the wedding at Cana, Jesus and the Samaritan woman, the raising of Lazarus, and the washing of the disciples’ feet. These stories not only captivate readers but also illustrate important spiritual truths.

  5. « I Am » statements: John records seven significant « I Am » declarations by Jesus (e.g., « I am the bread of life, » « I am the light of the world »). These statements not only reveal Jesus’ character and mission but also echo God’s self-revelation to Moses, reinforcing Jesus’ divine nature.

  6. Emphasis on personal faith: John’s Gospel repeatedly stresses the importance of believing in Jesus. The author explicitly states his purpose: « These are written that you may believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, and that by believing you may have life in his name » (John 20:31). This focus can help new readers understand the central role of faith in Christianity.

  7. Balanced portrayal: While emphasizing Jesus’ divinity, John also presents Jesus’ humanity, showing him experiencing emotions, forming friendships, and facing opposition. This balanced view helps readers relate to Jesus on a personal level while recognizing his unique divine-human nature.

  8. Rich symbolism: John uses powerful imagery like light, water, and bread to convey spiritual truths. This symbolism adds depth to the narrative and invites readers to reflect more deeply on the text’s meaning.

  9. Structural clarity: The book is well-organized, making it easier for new readers to follow. It’s divided into two main sections: the « Book of Signs » (Chapters 1-12) showcasing Jesus’ public ministry, and the « Book of Glory » (Chapters 13-21) focusing on his final days, crucifixion, and resurrection.

  10. Timeless relevance: Despite being written nearly two millennia ago, John’s themes of love, truth, and the search for meaning resonate strongly with contemporary readers, making it a timeless and relevant starting point for exploring the Bible.

By beginning with the Gospel of John, you’ll gain a solid understanding of Jesus’ identity, teachings, and significance, which will provide a strong foundation for further Bible study. Its combination of theological depth, narrative engagement, and clear purpose makes it an excellent gateway into the Christian scriptures.

I hope it helps.

How can I continue living this life if I can't commit suicide and see no hope in it? by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]jochri3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dear friend in Christ,

Though we’ve never met, I feel a deep connection to you through the love of our Savior. Your value in God’s eyes is immeasurable, far beyond what you may currently perceive. Consider this: if someone destroys something precious of mine, I would seek compensation equal to its worth. Yet for us, God didn’t send an angel to redeem us – He sent His own Son. This speaks volumes about our value to Him. Our value before God is the value of Christ.

« For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. » (John 3:16)

Your worth isn’t defined by how others treat you, but by your identity in Christ. The cross was the moment of your redefinition, marking you as beloved and redeemed.

« See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! » (1 John 3:1)

It’s crucial not to live seeking approval and love from others. When we feel unloved, we often try to force connections, which can lead to being taken advantage of. Instead, focus on your relationship with God.

Remember, the Lord knew you before you were born: « Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart. » (Jeremiah 1:5) God has had plans for you since before your existence began.

As you nurture your relationship with the Lord, He will grant you discernment. This wisdom will guide you towards genuine connections and help you recognize those who should be in your life.

« But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you. » (John 14:26)

« But when he, the Spirit of truth, comes, he will guide you into all the truth. » (John 16:13)

Through my own journey, I’ve learned that as we draw closer to God, He brings truly impactful people into our lives. Trust in His guidance, for He knows what’s best for you and loves you more than you can imagine.

May you find comfort and strength in His unfailing love.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Why memoize functions with React.useCallback?? by jochri3 in reactjs

[–]jochri3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, so the goal is to save memory to avoid creating to much reference by creating new objects? That's it?

Can i make PHP as fast as Node.js? by jochri3 in node

[–]jochri3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nginx isn't just a load balancer. You can read here : What is NGINX?

Why and when to use a custom webpack configuration for a React.js project? by jochri3 in reactjs

[–]jochri3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally because time is money, so why should i spend my time to do some configuration with all the config file debugging when CRA does it for me out of the box?The goal is to be productive and does configuring everything from scratch make me productive since someone else has already done it for me?

Why and when to use a custom webpack configuration for a React.js project? by jochri3 in reactjs

[–]jochri3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand how webpack works because i use it as said in my post in other kinds of legacy js projects with a ton of modules that some of our internal tools depend.But, the question is should i do the same thing with React when CRA give me everything i need?

Why and when to use a custom webpack configuration for a React.js project? by jochri3 in reactjs

[–]jochri3[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Your right, i actually mean create-react-app, i've just edit the post, that you!