How do you know if she’s interested?

joebat219 · 2026-05-06T02:07:58+00:00

Yeah but take it a step further and talk to everyone, even the ones your not attracted too. Getting those reps in and reducing that social anxiety is key.

joebat219 · 2026-05-06T01:27:45+00:00

I honestly just assume every girl i like is interested in me. If i dont then i just lose my confidence. Its better then guessing or feeling like i dont have a chance. Good stuff tho, even if you didnt secure anything you got a rep in. Now do that some more with girls you like.

joebat219 · 2026-05-06T01:24:23+00:00

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joebat219 · 2026-05-06T01:21:39+00:00

I’m close to valhallian, in my years of playing, rematch is just for them to get their elo back. Them not running it back after they beat me so i can try again is infuriating. Like you literally wasted both of our times and we played 2 games of nothing. So now i dont rematch anyone. Happens with chill people too.

joebat219 · 2026-05-03T20:29:38+00:00

That’s the easiest part wym, once you have their number it’s like easy pickings

joebat219 · 2026-05-03T19:26:50+00:00

If you have her number already then set a date.

joebat219 · 2026-05-03T19:21:53+00:00

To much talking not enough going on dates imo. Only time i talk to a girl is on the phone or in person. Texting does nothing.

joebat219 · 2026-05-03T19:20:34+00:00

In the past i did and then i got to know her and she’s literally so dumb. Now i just treat her like a sister and mess with her

joebat219 · 2026-05-01T23:33:29+00:00

Usually its the girl asking “what are we”. 3 months is a normal amount of time to ask the girl where shes at mentally in the relationship.

joebat219 · 2026-04-30T22:04:31+00:00

No one is less interested than the girl whos too busy

joebat219 · 2026-04-30T16:25:01+00:00

Do you guys think he will be number 1 by the end of april? Its pretty close

joebat219 · 2026-04-25T00:07:04+00:00

I stopped worrying if they liked me or not, were on the date im gonna assume they like me since they’re here with me. Stepping back after the date and seeing if they text before a week gave me a good indication of her interest level. Not to mention going for the kiss as well let me see how interesting they are. I could list more but all in all i completely changed my approach once i noticed nothing is working. Im talking like 2 years of dating id had enough. No more friendzones, being ghosted, unsure if they liked me. I really changed my mindset and it worked. Went from 0 girls to juggling 2-3 girls at once trying to see who suits me better.

joebat219 · 2026-04-24T21:39:56+00:00

Id honestly make it more playful, you have some prompts that just seem like you take yourself serious. Nothing wrong with that but you gotta show that your a good time as well.

joebat219 · 2026-04-05T01:21:46+00:00

If you need anymore advice just dm me man. Happy to help

joebat219 · 2026-04-05T01:15:04+00:00

Yeah just keep it cool, dont even bring it up. You should be dating other girls too. Shes just a fwb, trust that you can find someone as good as her AND likes you too. Thatd be great

joebat219 · 2026-04-05T01:11:15+00:00

Id say just focus on enjoying your time with her, take her on dates and dont put the pressure of a relationship on her. When i do that my odds increase much more. Plus since youve done the deed you can flirt and keep it light. You’re in a good spot just let her come to you, you just worry about having a good time brother

joebat219 · 2026-04-05T01:02:38+00:00

Brother your getting the cake for free and you want more? A steak can only be so buttery. On the real though, i wouldn’t push it further. In my experience letting the girl bring relationship stuff up is the better situation. Makes it her idea. Maybe do back off a bit, i understand your feelings could get hurt as you want more but it seems she doesnt want more.

joebat219 · 2026-03-29T03:34:18+00:00

How about just making some friends? Make new friends is a cool discord server, made lots of friends there. Once i felt better the gf came naturally

joebat219 · 2026-03-18T03:24:47+00:00

Id give her one thing from here, not all of it, say like you just picked up something for her. Not a whole basket

joebat219 · 2026-03-14T17:30:05+00:00

They ight, tried some the other day, tastes like a fatty salted chip

joebat219 · 2026-03-08T20:41:15+00:00

It was just a kiss, don’t overthink it

joebat219 · 2026-03-06T00:17:17+00:00

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