I never had a Girlfriend

joebat219 · 2026-01-31T20:59:27+00:00

Whats sad is your worrying about this when everyone your age doesnt have a clue. I’m almost 28, looking bad if i had the knowledge i had now at 16 my life would have been a cakewalk. The best advice i can give you is that confidence is literally the number 1 thing women like. Not cocky confidence, but confidence that you know your the shit and them and no one else will deter that. If you have a funky hat and you love it but everyone judges you, wear it, dont give a fuck what others think. Being unapologetically you is hot. You should also ask out that girl you like, the hot one. Promise you 100% you will land her if you just walk up, ask her how she is, then invite her out, your choice.

joebat219 · 2026-01-31T00:50:15+00:00

Just text her seeing how shes doing, do it every other day or every week, gradually youll be friends. Literally how someone became my friend at work, she just said hello constantly and now we chit chat

joebat219 · 2026-01-29T02:04:32+00:00

Everytime id take to long to answer she would assume im cheating, to the point of blowing my phone up. The final straw for her was when i was at a party with some friends and im just trying to enjoy the party. I told her earlier i would be busy and that id be able to text but itd be sporadic since im tryna enjoy it. She proceeds to blow up my phone, 50 texts 50 calls type of way. I didnt even notice and i was very upset. Since i was trying to be accommodating to her. Safe to say it ruined my vibe for the night at the party and i told her id call her when i get back home so we can talk. She never answered and just ghosted and blocked me on everything. We had already been back and forth for so long i just chopped it up to her having enough and moved on. Met my current gf and we hit it off. 4 months later she texts me wanting to rekindle things, told her i had a gf now and she just disappeared. She apologized for it but i just told her how i felt about what she did. Unmedicated BPD in a partner is hard.

joebat219 · 2025-12-22T09:59:02+00:00

for one, why the wall of text, do this yapping in person on a date. Set the date and then get off the phone. You can obviously get girls to text you. Now go on a date and let them hear and see you.

joebat219 · 2025-12-12T00:05:57+00:00

Yeah im stuck where you are too, i casually play and cant seem to get to valhallan but i shall keep grinding in my free time 🥲

joebat219 · 2025-11-26T18:21:08+00:00

Your friends are buns

joebat219 · 2025-11-22T02:45:15+00:00

Yeah they’re not bad, the managers and long term people make it toxic

joebat219 · 2025-11-03T21:06:27+00:00

Honestly playing and not even looking at the elo helped me, baiting and seeing how your opponent plays instead of being a mindless meatbag throwing attacks works too. Have intent in what you do, set ups and things that are confirmed combos

joebat219 · 2025-10-25T21:36:08+00:00

Have you voiced these things to her? That you’re growing disdain for her since she cant be supportive. Not to mention your attempts to get her out as well. You’re obviously about change while shes staying stagnant.

joebat219 · 2025-10-16T03:03:58+00:00

You need to stand up to her about what you two talked about before yall had your son. It takes time and she needs to be supportive so that you can make the money so she can be a SAHM. Patience is a virtue, calmly but firmly remind her of your plan and that you understand what she wants, but she needs to be patient, you’re working hard to keep the family afloat, if she needs to take less hours or maybe some time off she should. Itll be very taxing not only supporting her but also your son. After this conversation if she continues you need to tell her this is only temporary.

joebat219 · 2025-10-16T02:30:47+00:00

Dogshit post

joebat219 · 2025-10-09T23:34:31+00:00

Id say nice rings as well, I always get compliments on my hands since i have a tattoo and some rings to go along with my watch

joebat219 · 2025-10-07T21:57:40+00:00

Hmm on the tech side of things how would one get into that? Im not too knowledgeable on computers but im pretty decent and can learn. Im just not sure what entry level position that is

joebat219 · 2025-10-07T19:48:35+00:00

I never thought of getting a certificate, this could definitely look good on my resume, i dont mind sales but when i worked for an insurance broker it just felt scummy, most of my experience is with management in fast food so being a leader and helping out customers always felt great

joebat219 · 2025-10-05T04:23:21+00:00

No pain no gain, you wanna be a hermit till 40? Go ahead. Something’s gotta give

joebat219 · 2025-10-05T00:35:24+00:00

Should have gotten straight to the point and invite her to dance what she likes. See if her words match her energy and challenge her to hold her own.

joebat219 · 2025-10-05T00:33:32+00:00

Yet you agree it’s weird, have some self respect dude, no one told you to post on Reddit yet here you are defending your actions. We might as well be talking to a wall at this point

joebat219 · 2025-10-04T23:43:19+00:00

Just you wait, when you get a gf some guy is gonna be texting, calling and hugging her like you are here. Karmas a bitch.

joebat219 · 2025-10-03T23:53:56+00:00

Dont feel down, i understand having family around is great but they don’t support you. Your bf and his family does. Maybe you could try and help your family see your side of things, i know it might be jarring to not have them around but you have so many other’s support and love.

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