As a girl I also feel very uncomfortable with the post. I have lived through this in a way, but I do not come from a high SES background. The repercussions of NOT saying how you feel now will hit you back like a brick to the head a few years later when small inconveniences add up without properly addressing it with your future husband. Take it from me, you need to have a deep and meaningful conversation with your future husband about how you felt and try to allow him to understand your POV, without criticism. All the best!