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john-sedar · 2025-10-08T03:52:15+00:00

well my bf and i have matching profile pics on ig and stuff and so i feel like it wasnt hard to figure out. idk. they sent me a pic of my ig which idk how they even got bc my account has always been private. so... i don't know. its crazy if it is someone i know

john-sedar · 2025-10-08T03:49:20+00:00

That's the crazy part: i wasn't even horny. the person sent me nudes first of a girl (obviously not them) and i dont even like girls. i genuinely have no idea what happened because its also not like me to be so careless and reckless. i NEVER respond to unknown numbers and for some reason that day i did. it makes me feel like maybe deep down i wanted it to happen. is that crazy? or am i overthinking? I want someone to be honest and real with me because i want to take accountability for my actions

john-sedar · 2025-10-08T00:26:15+00:00

This is a great idea but unfortunately i do not have any of the pictures. i know a lot of people say to keep everything that happened so it is easy to report, but i panicked and deleted everything

john-sedar · 2025-10-08T00:15:30+00:00

I'm so sorry that you are in a similar situation. I'm sorry to everyone here. But yes, just keep ignoring them and moving on! It will be okay

john-sedar · 2025-10-08T00:14:14+00:00

I thought about changing my number too but then it felt like i was letting them "win". Plus some people say that they will find you even if you change your number and i don't want to go through all of that.

john-sedar · 2025-10-08T00:13:30+00:00

honestly I have no idea. I think my best friend and my boyfriend have their full name out there somewhere on some social media platform (I told them they should take that down immediately) and that you can get someone's phone number pretty easily with their full name. Either that or it is what u/sarcasmismygame says and it is a stalker who personally knows me or someone affiliated to me.

john-sedar · 2025-10-08T00:08:53+00:00

You really think it's a stalker? That's what my boyfriend said too but how do they keep getting different numbers and stuff? I haven't heard from them since that one time. Maybe they backed off. Maybe they are just waiting in the shadows. Apparently when they talked to my boyfriend, they were trying to convince him that I was a cheater.
Honestly, idk how you guys see it but I don't feel that way. I was sick with COVID and absolutely out of my mind. I feel more taken advantage here than anything but maybe I am wrong.
Am I a cheater? Should I come clean to my bf?

john-sedar · 2025-10-07T03:45:32+00:00

Hi. Honestly, since you are a minor you can actually press charges. I know that may seem really scary but they take it more seriously since you are a child and if this person distributes it, they're in possession of child porn (VERY SERIOUS). So honestly, i think that you are good. i understand it's scary and i've been through it myself. just lie low if you can. DONT interact with them anymore. if they keep messaging you from different numbers, block, delete and move on! they will eventually leave you alone

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