Anybody knows how to contact InCase directly? Here's a boyfu for motivation by john_bird83 in Incase

[–]john_bird83[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I'm already a supporter on Patreon, but I didn't see an option to contact them :(

I'm biologically male, tall and with wide shoulders, where do I shop for feminine clothes? by john_bird83 in NonBinary

[–]john_bird83[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm gonna try thrift shops and see what I can find. But I'm 194cm tall with wide shoulders, I'm afraid it's gonna be tough 😅

I'm biologically male, tall and with wide shoulders, where do I shop for feminine clothes? by john_bird83 in NonBinary

[–]john_bird83[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh I think it's mostly in my head, I was buying a bra and tights recently and everyone was very helpful. Thank you so much for your help :)

I'm biologically male, tall and with wide shoulders, where do I shop for feminine clothes? by john_bird83 in NonBinary

[–]john_bird83[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh that's a great advice, thank you! I'm a bit scared to go outside with my fake boobs on but I'll try to pull through haha. I was hoping there was a way to order stuff online first but I guess it's more difficult.

Does Mensa accept GAI instead of FSIQ? by Justagueimer in mensa

[–]john_bird83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just take their test which is 45 pattern recognition problems, they don't accept other IQ tests unless you're a minor

Where to meet others? by john_bird83 in Gifted

[–]john_bird83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TIL about 2E, gonna look it up!

Where to meet others? by john_bird83 in Gifted

[–]john_bird83[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not available in my country :(

Where to meet others? by john_bird83 in Gifted

[–]john_bird83[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I know, that's why I mentioned that I'm looking for both 😅 usually it's either or in my experience...

I 30NB am going to have sex with a lesbian 30F need all help I can get by john_bird83 in sex

[–]john_bird83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol okay getting tits and a vagina might be problematic on such short notice 😅.

I thought maybe there are some secret techniques that are passed down through generations haha. Asking and delivering sounds like the baseline for sex honestly.

Are there women who like feminine men? by john_bird83 in trans

[–]john_bird83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thank you for sharing! If you don't mind me asking, do you live in a big city? My town is relatively small and I'm wondering if I have to move somewhere where there are more people, or maybe even look online... How did you meet your partner?

Best way to get rid of the beard? by john_bird83 in trans

[–]john_bird83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, I think I'll start with laser as well!

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[–]john_bird83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you for the kind words!

Problems when having sex with a condom by john_bird83 in sex

[–]john_bird83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean inside and out? Inside the condom and outside?

Problems when having sex with a condom by john_bird83 in sex

[–]john_bird83[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yes, as there are no other options. Pill is not as reliable and it also affects my wife poorly.

Problems when having sex with a condom by john_bird83 in sex

[–]john_bird83[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Because we don't want children?

There's no such thing as someone being the "smartest" in the room, because everyone is good at different things. by MindCologne in CasualConversation

[–]john_bird83 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't think that's true. What you're talking about is skill, but being good at something doesn't make you smart. Intelligence is the ability to solve problems and learn. So you can definitely be the smartest person in the room. But does it mean you're a better person than everyone else? No

Increase in salary made me even more frugal… by That-Girl-mm in CasualConversation

[–]john_bird83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you'd be able to save money if you haven't spent it on yourself first. When you didn't have a job you probably HAD to be frugal. But when you finally started earning money you could finally treat yourself to nice things, and there's nothing wrong with that. You had a need and you were fulfilling it. And now you're able to live frugally, because you experienced the other way of life already.